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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:19

diddl · 12/07/2026 15:17

Yh I just went by what ryanair said and didnt check what the actual airport says. 😐 and thank you x

But Ryanair & the airport are the same re this.

Exactly! As I’ve been saying throughout this thread!

Saddaughter999 · 12/07/2026 15:19

As someone who used to travel a lot with small kids - there is no time for airport staff do deal with issues like this.
Buy formula for top up and that's it.
You could simply ask Google, chat gpt before flying. Rules are rules.

Saddaughter999 · 12/07/2026 15:22

mashandgravy · 12/07/2026 14:08

OP that sounds like such a distressing experience. Even if it is their policy not to allow frozen breastmilk through checks, it seems like the officers were unnecessarily hostile and unhelpful. I really hope someone is held accountable for this shitty treatment. Don't let it ruin your holiday x

Shitty treatment? They just doing their jobs. Im pretty sure you would be happy to wait 3 more hours for security checks because few more families need snowflake treatment. Jeeeeeeeez.....

GreenAlgae · 12/07/2026 15:23

What are you on about?

Well it was clear enough to me.

Doteycat · 12/07/2026 15:25

mashandgravy · 12/07/2026 14:22

Lol. Treated OP with kindness and compassion? Explained their policy while demonstrating understanding and offering support for an alternative if possible? Or should we assume a distressed mother trying to feed her infant is automatically a terrorist

Nah sorry. Not up to them to explain policy to every passenger who cant be arsed checking.
And ya, people use children and babies to commit nefarious acts all the time so as a passenger i much prefer they assume she cls be dodgy than take a chance.

If u travel with kids the onus is on you to make sure you have what they need amd cant run into trouble.
The entitlement is staggering.

diddl · 12/07/2026 15:30

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:19

Exactly! As I’ve been saying throughout this thread!

I was reiterating as it's important.

If you google "can I take bmilk on a flight" the answer is yes but not frozen.

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:30

Teenagerantruns · 12/07/2026 01:49

25oz, so about 3 or 4 bottles, what were you planning on feeding her the rest of the time?
Just get some formual?

FO

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:32

HammyHocky · 12/07/2026 15:15

Okay, so she made a mistake. And? That STILL doesn’t mean it’s acceptable to call a stressed out person an idiot.

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And she caused herself distress! And she now wants to complain about the security people, who are doing their job. She kept insisting she was right, she still saying g she’s right.

She “missed” that rule and is blaming others for that?

The security guards, are being called dicks, jobsworths, useless etc etc? Is that acceptable for someone just doing their job? Is that not a stressful day at work for them? Do they deserve that?

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:33

That is awful. And no. It shouldn’t have happened. They could have taken a small amount and defrosted it for testing. I’m so cross with all the ‘formula’ suggestions. This is a policy that needs rethinking with babies at the centre.

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:35

Any one who has never been in the position of having had to pump and then throw away breast milk can wind their neck in. I get it OP and I feel so sad you had this happen.

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:35

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:33

That is awful. And no. It shouldn’t have happened. They could have taken a small amount and defrosted it for testing. I’m so cross with all the ‘formula’ suggestions. This is a policy that needs rethinking with babies at the centre.

I’m so cross with all the name calling of security and expecting them to change their rules.

BoredZelda · 12/07/2026 15:36

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:12

Ryan airs policy is very clear, on their website!

Where did you get your info?

Umm.. not so sure. By that description is it clear it can’t be frozen?

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:37

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:35

Any one who has never been in the position of having had to pump and then throw away breast milk can wind their neck in. I get it OP and I feel so sad you had this happen.

if im travelling on that plane or any other, security is paramount, so no, I won’t wind my neck in!

Mine and my families safety is just as important as OPs pumped BM.

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:37

BoredZelda · 12/07/2026 15:36

Umm.. not so sure. By that description is it clear it can’t be frozen?

What’s liquid?

HammyHocky · 12/07/2026 15:38

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:32

And she caused herself distress! And she now wants to complain about the security people, who are doing their job. She kept insisting she was right, she still saying g she’s right.

She “missed” that rule and is blaming others for that?

The security guards, are being called dicks, jobsworths, useless etc etc? Is that acceptable for someone just doing their job? Is that not a stressful day at work for them? Do they deserve that?

Did she call them that to their faces? Not technically the same if not but either way, no, I don’t think they deserve that, and I don’t think she deserves to be called an idiot. I don’t see how your whataboutism works here, no one deserves being called nasty names for either doing their job or making a simple mistake and being upset about it. It’s not that complicated, just don’t be nasty.

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 15:38

HammyHocky · 12/07/2026 15:13

You called her an idiot. Absolutely uncalled for. She read the Ryanair information but not the airport - it’s a simple mistake and she was distressed by the outcome of that. Your attitude is unpleasant.

ETA sometimes you don’t need a reason to be compassionate towards another human who is struggling. Sometimes, it’s just nice to be a decent person and say ‘hey, sorry you experienced that but these are the rules,
hope things don’t turn out too badly’. You don’t need to resort to name calling and patronising messages to a distressed person.

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Theres nothing to say she was dealt with rudely or unfairly, they're just doing their job, it really doesnt need to be accompanied by lots of 'there theres' or as another poster says, tea and biscuits

Have you commented on all the posts that refer to the security staff as 'dicks' and other names?

No, thought not.

Im afraid OP is an idiot. We're all idiots sometimes, we make mistakes, we get things wrong. That isnt really the issue here, its the fact that she thinks she is in the right and was arguing the toss. Then starts a thread. Then wants to take it further. That is idiotic behaviour.

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 15:39

diddl · 12/07/2026 15:17

Yh I just went by what ryanair said and didnt check what the actual airport says. 😐 and thank you x

But Ryanair & the airport are the same re this.

No the Ryanair is ambiguous - it says you can bring baby milk. It doesn’t specify that it must not be frozen.

BoredZelda · 12/07/2026 15:39

Saddaughter999 · 12/07/2026 15:19

As someone who used to travel a lot with small kids - there is no time for airport staff do deal with issues like this.
Buy formula for top up and that's it.
You could simply ask Google, chat gpt before flying. Rules are rules.

My daughter couldn’t have formula because of CMPA, but the time we found this out we tried a milk free formula but it tastes horrific and she refused it. Our plans of mix feeding were scuppered and she remained exclusively breastfed.

HammyHocky · 12/07/2026 15:40

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 15:38

Theres nothing to say she was dealt with rudely or unfairly, they're just doing their job, it really doesnt need to be accompanied by lots of 'there theres' or as another poster says, tea and biscuits

Have you commented on all the posts that refer to the security staff as 'dicks' and other names?

No, thought not.

Im afraid OP is an idiot. We're all idiots sometimes, we make mistakes, we get things wrong. That isnt really the issue here, its the fact that she thinks she is in the right and was arguing the toss. Then starts a thread. Then wants to take it further. That is idiotic behaviour.

Yes I have, I have commented to say I don’t agree with that name-calling either, so you can retract your comments as you are incorrect there.
And you still don’t need to be unpleasant. Yes, we all make mistakes, you don’t need to come on here and degrade someone further by using nasty name-calling like a school child. It’s easy to tell someone something and be firm without being nasty.

pikkumyy77 · 12/07/2026 15:41

The whole thing is ridiculous security theater. No planes have ever been attacked with a few ounces of liquid and never will be. The whole thing dates back to the ginned up war on terror after 9/11. But the original incident was not a big deal, like the moronic shoe bomber.

TooHotMyIcecreamHasMelted · 12/07/2026 15:41

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:35

Any one who has never been in the position of having had to pump and then throw away breast milk can wind their neck in. I get it OP and I feel so sad you had this happen.

I’m sad for OP she had to thrown milk away. However, that doesn’t exempt her from the rules.

(and “wind your neck in”…can you not find anything more intelligent to insult people with? It’s not the local Facebook page here).

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 15:42

LastoneYawning · 12/07/2026 15:33

That is awful. And no. It shouldn’t have happened. They could have taken a small amount and defrosted it for testing. I’m so cross with all the ‘formula’ suggestions. This is a policy that needs rethinking with babies at the centre.

The policy doesnt need rethinking at all. No one has to fly with small babies. Follow the rules or take a different type of trip.

BoredZelda · 12/07/2026 15:44

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 15:37

What’s liquid?

Scientifically, the ice/water debate isn’t universally settled, but let’s say for arguments sake that frozen breastmilk is a solid. If that’s the case there should be no restrictions on it, lust like you can bring unmelted ice cream on board with no restrictions.

TooHotMyIcecreamHasMelted · 12/07/2026 15:44

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 15:42

The policy doesnt need rethinking at all. No one has to fly with small babies. Follow the rules or take a different type of trip.

exactly, there must be that rule for a reason, not for fun. It’s so specifically stated that it must not be frozen that there will be some rationale for that.

OP could have had enough liquid for the flight, which could have been tested, and put the rest in the hold which is permitted.

MeridaBrave · 12/07/2026 15:45

You have to drink it which you can’t if it’s frozen. It has to go in the hold. Only the amount for the flight as a liquid in your carry on.

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