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Hairdresser etiquette

48 replies

ifone · 01/10/2026 19:47

Be honest!

  1. Eyes open or closed at basin?
  2. Do you get the head massage?
  3. Do you tip?

I always feel so awkward and never know what to do. Help a girl out!

OP posts:
concertinacornflake · 01/10/2026 19:49
  1. Closed
  2. No
  3. Yes
ifone · 01/10/2026 19:49

Oh and if anyone is interested,

I close my eyes and feel weird about it
Get the massage and feel awkward during it
Don't tip. I feel bad but the service is always SO expensive and I work in a similarish job and don't get (or expect) tips

OP posts:
OnceasillyarseAlwaysasillyarse · 01/10/2026 19:50
  1. Closed, unless I'm talking.
  2. Yes, always!
  3. No - I never have coins on me and there isn't an option on the machine when she hands it to me.
notgettinganyyounger · 01/10/2026 19:50

Open
Yes
Yes

Changingfornow123 · 01/10/2026 19:51

Open
Sometimes
No, as they are 1 of the Directors

weareallqueens · 01/10/2026 19:53

Open
no
normally.

HeddaGarbled · 01/10/2026 19:53

Closed, yes, yes.

TattieSconeEggAndBacon · 01/10/2026 19:53

Open
no (utterly cringey)
sometimes but it’s so expensive and I do object really

LadyChilli · 01/10/2026 19:56

Bit of both depending if the water is splashing near my eyes
Yes
No - it's so expensive already and I find tipping so awkward

Snowie99 · 01/10/2026 19:58

Love a head massage but feel a bit embarrassed saying yes. Shut eyes = don’t want to talk. Don’t tip but generous at Christmas, birthday etc

OhBettyCalmDown · 01/10/2026 19:58

Closed eyes always. Love a head massage and I never tip because I can barely afford to go in the first place

Sasha07 · 01/10/2026 20:04

Closed eyes if there's no talking or she's talking to another hairdresser, open if we're talking.

Are head massages usually an option?? I'd love that! I've never encountered it but one lady, years ago, would run her nails through my hair while washing it and it was heavenly. I'd have paid extra for it, if it was add on but it must have just been her way.

No, I've never known anyone tip anyone locally, unless a large party going out for a meal. The prices are the prices and it costs a fortune in the first place.

RaraRachael · 01/10/2026 20:22

Closed
No
No

BugOnARugDrinkingTeaFromAMug · 01/10/2026 20:26

Closed
Yes
Yes

wannabeCali · 01/10/2026 20:28

Open
if offered then yes
no - awkward and expensive

SinicalMe · 01/10/2026 20:30

1 Closed
2 No - I always refuse
3 No - I used to but at £200 a pop I don’t or perhaps every 2nd or 3rd time.

CrazyMidget · 01/10/2026 20:37
  1. Closed.
  2. They just do it! No extra charge. If I go somewhere they don't do it, I don't notice.
  3. I tip 20 percent. It's worth it....you wear your hair every day and I want their best efforts!
Newbookandcupofcoffee · 01/10/2026 20:37

Eyes closed.
Head massage - hell yeah, its my favorite part, worth the broken neck

Tip - yes, always.

Namechangefordaughterevasion · 01/10/2026 20:38

Closed

Never - I'm not a fan of massages.

Not every time but if I've seen one person several times over the year I'll tip £20-£30 at Christmas. Although I had a really great haircut last month where the stylist actually listened to what I wanted so she got £10.

stopringingme · 01/10/2026 20:39
  1. Open
  2. No
  3. Yes
teaandtoastwithmarmite · 01/10/2026 20:40
  1. bit of both
  2. yes
  3. only at Christmas
JustWalnut · 01/10/2026 20:40

Eyes closed.
No. I hate them so much that I ask them not to do it every single time, just to be sure.
Yes, I usually tip a fiver.

sweetpickle2 · 01/10/2026 20:41

Open
No (don’t like them)
Yes

My hairdresser is a good friend of mine though, which might skew my answers.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 01/10/2026 20:42

At my hairdresser you can scan a qr code and tip but it’s already £100 a time and I’m skint. Plus she has gone up a lot as she’s got better. I do feel bad about it though but gave her a tenner at Xmas

LoafofSellotape · 01/10/2026 20:43

Eyes closed

I don't usually like the massage but a young boy has just started and he is SOOOO good , absolutely brilliant and properly relaxing.

No I don't tip because it's a lot of money but I do put 30 quid in her Xmas card.

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