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Hairdresser etiquette

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ifone · 01/10/2026 19:47

Be honest!

  1. Eyes open or closed at basin?
  2. Do you get the head massage?
  3. Do you tip?

I always feel so awkward and never know what to do. Help a girl out!

OP posts:
AgentPidge · 01/10/2026 20:47

ifone · 01/10/2026 19:49

Oh and if anyone is interested,

I close my eyes and feel weird about it
Get the massage and feel awkward during it
Don't tip. I feel bad but the service is always SO expensive and I work in a similarish job and don't get (or expect) tips

There was a thread on here a while back and a hairdresser said they really don't care/think badly of clients who don't tip - it's no big deal to them. So don't feel bad!

dreamingofgoodhair · 01/10/2026 20:51

Open
No
Voucher at Christmas

AgentPidge · 01/10/2026 20:52
  1. Closed
  2. No - I hate it
  3. No
ifone · 01/10/2026 20:54

@Sasha07Yes, my current hairdresser offers a little massage during the conditioner. I agree, nails make it better!

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Ishehe · 01/10/2026 21:06

Why would you tip? No way/ they are not a charity. It’s a professional job. I don’t get tipped … awkward as anything 🤣 I probably earn less than they do. That’s just handing out free money.

MyGirlJ · 01/10/2026 21:09
  1. Depends on my mood and if we're chatting. If we're chatting i open my eyes.
  2. Always.
  3. Never. My haircuts are £65, which is very expensive for me. I feel guilty about it, but hey-ho.
Wrestling67 · 01/10/2026 21:11
  1. closed
  2. no because I was once an apprentice it was annoying 🤣 and I’m awkward
  3. i tip the apprentice when I can
TheChosenTwo · 01/10/2026 21:19

Closed, yes and yes. Head massage is my very favourite bit (never asked if I want it, it just happens and on the very odd occasion she’s rushed it and I’ve felt sad 😂😂).
I actually want to now go and book myself a head massage!

IwanttoWFH · 01/10/2026 21:47

Closed
Yes
No

Zanatdy · 01/10/2026 21:51

I always tip £10, feel tight otherwise. Eyes mainly closed, last hair appt they did a head massage but did feel a bit awkward.

LoafofSellotape · 01/10/2026 22:07

Zanatdy · 01/10/2026 21:51

I always tip £10, feel tight otherwise. Eyes mainly closed, last hair appt they did a head massage but did feel a bit awkward.

How much is your cut?

RaraRachael · 01/10/2026 22:13

Never heard of hairdressers giving a head massage.
It certainly isn't a thing round here.

HappyViewer · Yesterday 18:52

It varies
yes
yes

pompeygirl01 · Yesterday 19:12

Eyes Open
Yes massage
No tip - but often wonder if I should….but it’s the owner and it’s already pricey

HappyViewer · Yesterday 19:16

I can’t imagine not tipping, same as in a restaurant.

Puhpuhpuhpuh · Yesterday 19:19

No.
Never heard of a head massage. But I’d hate it.
No. Can’t imagine why you would tip.

RaraRachael · Yesterday 19:23

HappyViewer · Yesterday 19:16

I can’t imagine not tipping, same as in a restaurant.

My hair costs quite enough without tipping.
I don't tip in restaurants either. Eating out is very expensive anyway.

BigBadPotato · Yesterday 19:23

Closed, even if I’m talking. Cannot cope with the awkwardness of staring into their soul 😂
Yes.
Nope, it costs a fucking bomb already and she’s self employed so if it’s not enough as is, I don’t think that’s my issue 😅

SaraHoliday · Yesterday 21:12

ifone · 01/10/2026 19:47

Be honest!

  1. Eyes open or closed at basin?
  2. Do you get the head massage?
  3. Do you tip?

I always feel so awkward and never know what to do. Help a girl out!

  1. Closed.
  2. Yes. Depends who is washing my hair though. It feels amazing but I love my hair and scalp being touched
  3. Yes. My hairdresser only accepts cash!
ILoveKits · Yesterday 21:23

Eyes closed because I have to take my glasses off and I'm as blind as a bat.

No massage, I have a dodgy disc in my neck.

Always tip a tenner - cut, colour and blowdry is £160 to £180 (mates rates) which is cheap for a first class hairdresser in SW London. Every seven weeks.

billandtedsexcellentadventure · Yesterday 21:27

I do a bit of both I think. Open if we’re talking. Closed if not.

never been offered a head massage!
I give a fiver every time. And say have a coffee on me.

longtompot · Yesterday 21:44

Open
Yes, and eyes closed then. I love having a head massage, some are better than others
No

RaraRachael · Yesterday 21:50

I wouldn't mind a head massage if that's what it was - massaging my head but when I had one at
a beautician as part of a massage it mainly consisted of pulling my hair. It was very painful so I asked her not to do it again.

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