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Ham pr disasters 40! ..the 40 by 40 anniversary edition!

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jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 19:10

Still interested, still not bored!

Ham pr disasters 40! ..the 40 by 40 anniversary edition!
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Williaminagingerwig · 18/09/2026 20:15

Lunde · 18/09/2026 20:07

I saw a documentary about her and she was heavily pressured to have more babies "for the good of the Earldom" and she was allowed little time to grieve the baby that died.

She was pregnant again only months later and Diana was born only 17 months after John died.

The pressure to have a boy! Can you imagine. Three girls, the only boy died, she just had to keep going until a boy was born.
Same with Charles Spencer and his first wife. 4 children in 4 years! Same pressure after 3 girls.

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 18/09/2026 20:16

Can Spencer etc be discussed elsewhere please.

LaMarschallin · 18/09/2026 20:17

HoldMyWine · 18/09/2026 19:42

Lol at the school kids totally ignoring Hazza. Chopping his crotch again. Leave it alone . https://x.com/thefabbooklover/status/2101006270849282105?s=46

That's mortifying.
What on earth is he doing?
No wonder the pupils are trying to pretend he's not there.

CathyorClaire · 18/09/2026 20:17

MrsLeonFarrell · 18/09/2026 13:25

This is why I think he has waited too long. These stories might have had more credibility 20 or even 10 years ago but now they read like attempts to maximise scandal and revenue rather than credible facts. If he wanted to attack Charles, which he clearly does, he needed to do it earlier.

He has form for waiting inordinately lengthy time for bombshell disclosures.

He did the same when he disclosed the background to the 1995 Panorama interview with the only rather tenuous link being it was the 25th anniversary of said interview.

Very little rhyme or reason to his outbursts as far as I can see but it's interesting that the latest instalment (I haven't read it yet) has the currently apparently close with CS Harold veering out of control.

I can't see that going down well in Billionaire's Rest.

DancingFerret · 18/09/2026 20:19

HoldMyWine · 18/09/2026 19:42

Lol at the school kids totally ignoring Hazza. Chopping his crotch again. Leave it alone . https://x.com/thefabbooklover/status/2101006270849282105?s=46

That's absolutely toe-curling. Even the teacher is struggling to keep a straight face.

CathyorClaire · 18/09/2026 20:21

HoldMyWine · 18/09/2026 19:42

Lol at the school kids totally ignoring Hazza. Chopping his crotch again. Leave it alone . https://x.com/thefabbooklover/status/2101006270849282105?s=46

Has he run out of nipples to tweak and resorted to his own?

jeffgoldblum · 18/09/2026 20:22

CathyorClaire · 18/09/2026 20:21

Has he run out of nipples to tweak and resorted to his own?

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Cismyfatarse · 18/09/2026 20:22

How someone dresses is not just about convention. It shows how you feel about your hosts. Full rig for Invictus dinner (with medals) and jeans for school kids, no tie, casual shoes.

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 18/09/2026 20:24

DancingFerret · 18/09/2026 20:19

That's absolutely toe-curling. Even the teacher is struggling to keep a straight face.

He really hasn't grown up has he.

He is putting on the role of class clown, he is a middle age father of two.

HoldMyWine · 18/09/2026 20:24

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 18/09/2026 20:16

Can Spencer etc be discussed elsewhere please.

Please !

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/09/2026 20:24

Is he high on something in that video clip?
He looks completely manic and frankly it's painful

HoldMyWine · 18/09/2026 20:27

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/09/2026 20:24

Is he high on something in that video clip?
He looks completely manic and frankly it's painful

I’m embarrassed for him

Ratherhaveacupofteaandabiscuit · 18/09/2026 20:30

Jonny Spencer was initially engaged to Lady Anne Glenconner, then Lady Anne Coke.

Lady Anne was a maid of honour to HMTLQ carrying her train at the wedding and also great friend to Princess Margaret.

It was actually Anne and her husband Colin Tennant who gave Margaret land on the island of Mustique which became her favoured retreat throughout much of her life.

Jonny dropped Anne without even having the basic decency to inform her and was seeing the extremely juvenile Frances, daughter of the formidable Baroness Fermoy who was lady in waiting to the late Queen mum, behind her back.

Baroness Fermoy was a truly awful woman who famously put her personal ambitions and social standing before loyalty to her own daughter by supporting Jonny Spencer against Frances when she tried to gain custody of the then very young Diana and Charles and slightly older Sarah and Jane.

Jonny was a nasty bully who met his match in Raine McCorquodale , daughter of romantic novelist Barbara Cartland.

Raine was a very brash woman, universally hated by the children (who called her Acid Raine) and said to be absolutely sex mad which suited philandering Jonny very well.

Diana allegedly pushed her down the stairs on one occasion.

diddl · 18/09/2026 20:33

But ETA I've just seen comment elsewhere,.but can't confirm it, that members of the Royal Family get a salute..(I guess H still is, despite everything)

I thought it was senior(?) working Royals or those with honourary titles?

TheRealHousewife · 18/09/2026 20:36

Aprilfountain · 18/09/2026 16:21

I think Harry has decided to ignore everything he was told in the Sandringham agreement and instead wants to pretend that he is still fully royal, he'll never really accept his new status!

Harry status isn’t new though; it was agreed in 2020 after he’d taken a year to think about the consequences of walking away. King Charles has only reiterated what the Sandringham Agreement had already outlined.

notimagain · 18/09/2026 20:44

diddl · 18/09/2026 20:33

But ETA I've just seen comment elsewhere,.but can't confirm it, that members of the Royal Family get a salute..(I guess H still is, despite everything)

I thought it was senior(?) working Royals or those with honourary titles?

Maybe, I'm sure it's in a suitable manual.

Not sure if the background to this is that someone was seen banging up a salute to H last night but given the context I would have expected any service personnel to have been briefed and well aware of the correct protocol.

Many years back I was somewhere military when Princess Margaret came to visit and I do recall her being saluted by the base big wigs on her arrival and departure (oh, and before anyone asks, she was absolutely charming - must have seen her on a good day).

Starryfifty · 18/09/2026 20:47

What age group are the kids H was tweaking to ? Why does he keep gesticulating to his crotch ???

Starryfifty · 18/09/2026 20:47

Also, I do know a thing about it from a family member. H is high AF in that video

Williaminagingerwig · 18/09/2026 20:52

Starryfifty · 18/09/2026 20:47

What age group are the kids H was tweaking to ? Why does he keep gesticulating to his crotch ???

I honestly can't bear to watch 🫣

Gonners · 18/09/2026 20:55

BillyBites · 18/09/2026 19:30

Can anyone with armed forces connections confirm this one way or the other? I was under the impression that you do not salute a superior officer if they are not in uniform or wearing their cap?
And of course, Harry isn’t even a superior officer these days.

In my experience - 18 years service as an army brat and several more (on and off) between the ages of 21 and about 26 as a girlfriend to more than one 😆- there was relatively little saluting. Imagine the chaos on an army camp or battlefield! Out of uniform, the more civilised officers were on first-name terms with soldiers they knew well, regardless of rank and in both directions. One of them once said to me "You're Hugh's girlfriend, aren't you? You want to hang on to him. He's a good bloke."

diddl · 18/09/2026 20:59

Many years back I was somewhere military when Princess Margaret came to visit and I do recall her being saluted by the base big wigs on her arrival and departure

I think she was a Colonel in Chief of a few regiments wasn't she?

I would have expected any service personnel to have been briefed and well aware of the correct protocol.

Indeed!

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 18/09/2026 21:16

I can only assume the new tactic is to flood the thread with irrelevant background information with tenuous links to the RF, in order to stop the criticism of H&M.

It certainly is working.

Starryfifty · 18/09/2026 21:20

I cannot seem to post link but CS states there was no care for H after Diana's death. No mention of William whatsoever. Definitely a H and Spencer collab going on

MrsLeonFarrell · 18/09/2026 21:21

LaMarschallin · 18/09/2026 20:17

That's mortifying.
What on earth is he doing?
No wonder the pupils are trying to pretend he's not there.

They do seem disconnected from what Harry is doing but it is a short clip.

HoldMyWine · 18/09/2026 21:21

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 18/09/2026 21:16

I can only assume the new tactic is to flood the thread with irrelevant background information with tenuous links to the RF, in order to stop the criticism of H&M.

It certainly is working.

It’s looking that way

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