I can well believe they wanted Windsor, for a variety of reasons, most of which would be exactly why they wouldn't be given Windsor. I would expect William to veto that in no uncertain terms. I recall when they were here, staying at Frogmore Cottage during the period leading up to The Queen's funeral, there was a photo of William stopping to talk to Harry as their cars passed going in/out of the park. The last thing William would want would be to bump into either of those two, or for his family to have to get out of the way while Harry's motorcade barrels down the road.
A dusty apartment at the back of Buckingham palace it is. And don't forget to sew name tags into your underwear if you want laundry doing while you are here! 🤗😂😂😂
As for the will they/won't they visit Diana's grave, whilst it would be unkind of Earl Spencer not to allow Harry to visit her grave, I don't see why he should be expected to have the entourage to stay, and entertain them for a weekend or even lunch. If he were agreeable to offer to host them I would think he would
- want to know his invitation has been accepted and 2. demand total secrecy.
The whole they might or they might not must be mightily pissing him off and I think probably means they won't. He is one person who I think could get on the blower and give Harry an icy blast of home truths. And withdraw any invitation that exists. Plus of course he won't allow any photography. He should put an extra padlock on those gates and tell him to stay away because...security. (In this instance highly relevant).