I am always bemused by the shouting that she doesn't work hard enough.
She is a woman who is wealthy via family money, and who married a very wealthy man. She has three children who, i think its pretty clear, she take a very active role in parenting (vs outsourcing it as her grandmother in law did). One assumes she has all the social expectations of a woman in her position, which, ridiculous as it may seem to the rest of us, is nonetheless a "thing".
Meanwhile she also does a wide variety of expected events and appearances, not all of which are public (meeting Melinda French gates this week, for example).
And for these events, I am confident that for every hour she spends at one, there's time spent in prep and planning. Last week at a corporate event I attended with many of my colleagues, you might have thought it was jist a jolly with free drinks and food. But the hours and hours we spent working on it were invisible. Even our ceo, who obviously was not involved in the logistics, would have spent st least 3-4 hours prepping - the initial brief where she gave approval to go ahead, the mid-way meeting to discuss where we needed her to assert some influence to get some specific guests, the week when before we worked with her on her speech and presentation and the day before when the head of client relations took her through key guests, messaging and any issues. Then of course the event itself.
Dont get me.wrong, I dont think she's working 50 hout weeks, juggling multiple tasks and worrying about deadlines, but shes not "just" doing the hours we see. And quite frankly, the hours she must spend just on hair, make up, clothing decisions... practically a full time job in itself.