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The royal family

PR Disasters….Part 8

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AtIusvue · 15/04/2026 09:57

PR Disasters of the The Duke and Duchess of Sussex continued :

  • So far we have Meg using charity events/sick children/vulnerable adults to merch her fashion, with the launch of her new fashion platform
  • She will be appearing on MasterChef Australia
  • Harry claiming to have had therapy when Archie was born, even though he never sought MH help for his ill wife a few short months earlier.
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SixSevenShutUp · 16/04/2026 10:46

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:43

Maybe if they had considered Harry’s options carefully and he had not been blind-sided by a fair accompli, he may not have felt the need to publish his book. People do drastic things when they feel powerless and unheard a d pushed in to a corner. Especially when he had seen his Uncle Andrew being protected and privileged while operating HIHO for years!

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The more you post, the more I realise how pathetic H really is. He was in his mid 30s. He was responsible for weighing up his options. Not the grey suits that H didn't want to deal with.

corblimeygvnr · 16/04/2026 10:47

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:40

At this point H and M have very little control over what is printed, or broadcast about them, most of which is produced through a prism of bias. Even if they did something truly magnificent and selfless now, it would be turned in to something nasty by the global media. They cannot win. They are too lucrative a story. People are making their living off the back of disparaging them.

The nastiness has got way out of hand and is totally disproportionate to anything they have done.

How can you say this - people are making a living by disparaging them ? Maybe but they're not the only ones. Hallo! Spare, the documentaries, Harry in Australia now waaahing about life in the royals and how awful it was - in fact GETTING PAID to do so . What's good for the goose etc ..if they weren't out there spewing their poison then no one would talk about them 🤷‍♀️

Indianrollerbird · 16/04/2026 10:50

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:43

Maybe if they had considered Harry’s options carefully and he had not been blind-sided by a fair accompli, he may not have felt the need to publish his book. People do drastic things when they feel powerless and unheard a d pushed in to a corner. Especially when he had seen his Uncle Andrew being protected and privileged while operating HIHO for years!

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If Harry knew what Andrew had been doing for years, then why didn't he whistleblow? Why diid he say next to nothing about Andrew in his book? Why has he still not spoken out? Why did Harry, with power and influence and a huge platform, with all this knowledge about a massive scandal, leave it to a bunch of raped and abused women to speak out?

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 16/04/2026 10:51

@Ohpleeeease do you really think Camilla is as disliked as always?

I don't, I think she has been accepted as Charles Queen, I could be wrong though.

IAmATorturedPoet · 16/04/2026 10:53

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:43

Maybe if they had considered Harry’s options carefully and he had not been blind-sided by a fair accompli, he may not have felt the need to publish his book. People do drastic things when they feel powerless and unheard a d pushed in to a corner. Especially when he had seen his Uncle Andrew being protected and privileged while operating HIHO for years!

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He was heard, he just didn’t like the answer.
Since that point we have had one long drawn out tantrum.

He had an opportunity that wasn't available to his brother, he could walk away from the ‘goldfish bowl’, have the freedom he wanted and make a different, more private life for himself. He took that opportunity and he ballsed it up. 🤷‍♀️

Ohpleeeease · 16/04/2026 10:54

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:40

At this point H and M have very little control over what is printed, or broadcast about them, most of which is produced through a prism of bias. Even if they did something truly magnificent and selfless now, it would be turned in to something nasty by the global media. They cannot win. They are too lucrative a story. People are making their living off the back of disparaging them.

The nastiness has got way out of hand and is totally disproportionate to anything they have done.

In your opinion.

flapjackfairy · 16/04/2026 10:55

SixSevenShutUp · 16/04/2026 10:46

The more you post, the more I realise how pathetic H really is. He was in his mid 30s. He was responsible for weighing up his options. Not the grey suits that H didn't want to deal with.

yes someone in his position with huge wealth and privilege was never backed into a corner. He could live any nice life he wanted to if he didn't want to do the Royal stuff but that wasn't enough for them. He is a grown man who has to take responsibility for his choices and actions just like everyone else and his choice was to hurt his family and others to get a big pay out. Most peope find that despicable unsurprisingly especially when a lot of it was easy disproved lies.
And now we have to listen to him lecture us on mental health and how hard he and his wife have had it.
And if you make your life all about image and looks as Meghan has then of course people are going to comment. That is the cult of fame and celebrity and if you choose that path then that is the price you have to pay.

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:56

Indianrollerbird · 16/04/2026 10:50

If Harry knew what Andrew had been doing for years, then why didn't he whistleblow? Why diid he say next to nothing about Andrew in his book? Why has he still not spoken out? Why did Harry, with power and influence and a huge platform, with all this knowledge about a massive scandal, leave it to a bunch of raped and abused women to speak out?

Maybe Harry did speak out? He certainly did not like his uncle by all accounts. Maybe he was told that it was not his place hierarchically to say anything about it? As you know his book covered events in his own life.

Maybe he rightfully expected those in the top jobs to do the right thing? Fhs, some people are still defending Andrew now when they know the facts! Harry wouldn’t have been believed or heard if he had raised it. Maybe this played a part in him leaving?

Ohpleeeease · 16/04/2026 10:58

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 16/04/2026 10:51

@Ohpleeeease do you really think Camilla is as disliked as always?

I don't, I think she has been accepted as Charles Queen, I could be wrong though.

I don’t think she is hated as she once was. But what was hatred has just translated into indifference. In polls she isn’t popular, despite everything she’s done since. People who remember her as the homewrecker don’t forgive, and younger people just don’t care.

AtIusvue · 16/04/2026 10:59

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:25

Or… Buckingham Palace has great contacts in the three main areas of the world where broadcasting and publishing rights are in English, a very healthy PR budget, friends in the Telegraph and the DM, and it serves certain members of the RF quite well to have H&M disparaged and discredited globally.

Especially when it has become known that the powers that be paid off a corrupt sexual abuser to avoid him going to trial. Someone they are still covering up for btw, while trying to spin that they are cooperating with police.

If it didn’t serve them well, there would have been a reconciliation by now.

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Yeh and I’ve heard too, that Mumsnet is full of posters that Buckingham Palace are paying to say mean things about Meghan and Harry. Their sources are everywhere!

These womans need to start womaning better! Be supportive womans!!!

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flapjackfairy · 16/04/2026 11:01

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:56

Maybe Harry did speak out? He certainly did not like his uncle by all accounts. Maybe he was told that it was not his place hierarchically to say anything about it? As you know his book covered events in his own life.

Maybe he rightfully expected those in the top jobs to do the right thing? Fhs, some people are still defending Andrew now when they know the facts! Harry wouldn’t have been believed or heard if he had raised it. Maybe this played a part in him leaving?

excuses excuses.
he has no trouble speaking up about anything else.

Mylovelygreendress · 16/04/2026 11:05

@Crumpledelist678I think it’s the hypocrisy that gets to people .
Whilst in her blink and you miss it time in the RF Meghan says she was forced to wear tights and neutral colours . Once she found her freedom she is photographed umpteen times wearing neutral clothes then today - tights .
She says her passport was taken off her yet she managed several overseas jaunts including her baby shower .
She says she had no support but she was offered help from Sophie , a lady in waiting and an equerry but they weren’t good enough and mean , boring Catherine wouldn’t help .
They wanted privacy for their DC ( admirable ) and refused to “ serve their child on a silver platter “ but then allow Netflix to film Archie in his bath ! And we now have a constant stream of photos of A and L .
Harry says he hated being a working Royal yet this tour is a desperate attempt to portray themselves as working Royals.
They cling on to their titles , inflict them on their DC and H says he is desperate to reconcile!
And you wonder why people dislike them ?

Riapia · 16/04/2026 11:06

drivinmecrazy · 15/04/2026 14:15

That photo is awful! I’m not one to comment on how old people look, but sadly she is showing age above her years.
the wrinkles are very apparent.
im a fair few years older than Meghan but don’t have as many creases in my face or neck that she seems to.

I assumed the gaunt look was due to living on the unsold spread.
Can’t be very nutritious. 😉.

Indianrollerbird · 16/04/2026 11:06

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:56

Maybe Harry did speak out? He certainly did not like his uncle by all accounts. Maybe he was told that it was not his place hierarchically to say anything about it? As you know his book covered events in his own life.

Maybe he rightfully expected those in the top jobs to do the right thing? Fhs, some people are still defending Andrew now when they know the facts! Harry wouldn’t have been believed or heard if he had raised it. Maybe this played a part in him leaving?

Bollocks. If he respected the hierarchy, he would never have left, never done Oprah, never have done Spare and never have done Netflix. His entire book and constant whinging is about the RF not "doing the right thing". There's no reason whatsoever why he couldn't have written about Andrew, or indeed, spoken out about him then or now. Let's not pretend that Harry left for some noble reason.

Starryfifty · 16/04/2026 11:16

Indianrollerbird · 16/04/2026 10:50

If Harry knew what Andrew had been doing for years, then why didn't he whistleblow? Why diid he say next to nothing about Andrew in his book? Why has he still not spoken out? Why did Harry, with power and influence and a huge platform, with all this knowledge about a massive scandal, leave it to a bunch of raped and abused women to speak out?

it suited him not to say anything as he was close to Andrew's daughters and their hubbies. All dropped now of course because it doesn't suit their agenda

BeebeeBoyle · 16/04/2026 11:21

LondonRidge · 16/04/2026 08:40

The whole BS about lack of therapy and support for MM after Archie was born… when he now says he was having it himself, has really angered me. He has no idea that people in the real work have to wait months or years any kind of counselling, if they can even access any at all.

Also - what on earth was going on with them that they both had so many MH problems and needed that much therapy just for… having had a baby?? With all the help on hand they needed in the world, but no… having a baby for them was definitely harder than it was for anyone else.

They are each others worst enemy. It’s like one of them has a MH problems, the other has to one up them to make it worse…??

When he was living his best life as his brother and Catherine's sidekick, Harry let it be known that he very much wanted his own family, couldn't wait to have kids. Surely a man - whose hormones are unaffected by pregnancy - doesn't suddenly become terrified of having a baby having wanted one for so long? I'd have thought he would be very excited.

Rhaidimiddim · 16/04/2026 11:23

garlicandsapphires · 16/04/2026 10:21

Third option: they’ve investigated and found them to be without substance.

The Birkenhead footage is nothing but substance.

MrsLeonFarrell · 16/04/2026 11:27

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:43

Maybe if they had considered Harry’s options carefully and he had not been blind-sided by a fair accompli, he may not have felt the need to publish his book. People do drastic things when they feel powerless and unheard a d pushed in to a corner. Especially when he had seen his Uncle Andrew being protected and privileged while operating HIHO for years!

Edited

Harry and Meghan released a statement saying how things were going to be before they had agreed anything with the palace. It wasn't Harry who was blindsided by events. His problem was that the palace didn't agree with what he wanted to do and said no.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 16/04/2026 11:29

MrsLeonFarrell · 16/04/2026 08:09

Possibly if Chiseled is still in charge but I think Harry has completely burnt his boats with William. Camilla took a lot of time and effort and patience, working with her charities, quietly accepting she couldn't have public recognition for her relationship, for years and years. I cant see Harry doing that at all.

We'll have to wait and see how William handles things, MrsLF, but I wouldn't expect Harry to need public recognition of his relationship if he did come back because I very much doubt Meghan would be prepared to come with him

MrsLeonFarrell · 16/04/2026 11:30

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:56

Maybe Harry did speak out? He certainly did not like his uncle by all accounts. Maybe he was told that it was not his place hierarchically to say anything about it? As you know his book covered events in his own life.

Maybe he rightfully expected those in the top jobs to do the right thing? Fhs, some people are still defending Andrew now when they know the facts! Harry wouldn’t have been believed or heard if he had raised it. Maybe this played a part in him leaving?

Andrew was one of the few members of the Royal family Harry did not attack in his book. When another book accused Harry of hitting Andrew, Harry was quick to release a statement denying it.

If Harry did know about Andrew and disapproved these facts from his own mouth don't make sense.

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 11:31

MrsLeonFarrell · 16/04/2026 11:27

Harry and Meghan released a statement saying how things were going to be before they had agreed anything with the palace. It wasn't Harry who was blindsided by events. His problem was that the palace didn't agree with what he wanted to do and said no.

Well whoever was blindsided, other members of the royal family had been living high on the HIHO hog for years! And if they weren’t it’s because they have had lucrative income from the Duchies! It was only Harry apparently who had to abide by the so-called rules!

MrsLeonFarrell · 16/04/2026 11:33

Puzzledandpissedoff · 16/04/2026 11:29

We'll have to wait and see how William handles things, MrsLF, but I wouldn't expect Harry to need public recognition of his relationship if he did come back because I very much doubt Meghan would be prepared to come with him

If I was Meghan I'd definitely stay away, who would want the increased press attacks and constant comparisons with Catherine? Harry seems to think he can come back and all will be forgotten, he would do well to consider how Camilla is still attacked decades later.

MrsLeonFarrell · 16/04/2026 11:36

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 11:31

Well whoever was blindsided, other members of the royal family had been living high on the HIHO hog for years! And if they weren’t it’s because they have had lucrative income from the Duchies! It was only Harry apparently who had to abide by the so-called rules!

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Please name a current senior working royal who also has commercial ventures. The Royal Duchies don't count they are established to provide income for the monarch and the Heir.

Andrew definitely bent the rules which is why i think they have refused to let Harry to do the same and get themselves into the same mess.

jeffgoldblum · 16/04/2026 11:39

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:25

Or… Buckingham Palace has great contacts in the three main areas of the world where broadcasting and publishing rights are in English, a very healthy PR budget, friends in the Telegraph and the DM, and it serves certain members of the RF quite well to have H&M disparaged and discredited globally.

Especially when it has become known that the powers that be paid off a corrupt sexual abuser to avoid him going to trial. Someone they are still covering up for btw, while trying to spin that they are cooperating with police.

If it didn’t serve them well, there would have been a reconciliation by now.

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Buckingham palace made Harry and Meghan behave badly in a sinister plot to make people criticise them!!! 🤣🤣🤣

TheAutumnCrow · 16/04/2026 11:41

Crumpledelist678 · 16/04/2026 10:18

I was just waiting for that answer!

But it still doesn’t mean that it’s ok for women on a website that’s supposed to be supportive of other women, to make silly, nasty posts about someone’s legs fhs.

Btw, I was posting on another thread how 'I have hidden the 'Sex' board [on MN] ... as it's full of weird male fetishists who are very obviously sitting at a screen typing with just one hand iyswim. Absolutely revolting.'

Mumsnet is not a 'mumsy' place - it is a business, and we are the product. Our conversations on here are the product. Some parts of the site will not suit each individual and it is possible to hide threads and boards.

I come here because I find the calibre of most of the comments on the RF board to be better (and wittier) than what's written in the BLT comments (and often by the journalists themselves) in the press. It tends to be pretty grown up on the whole. No-one is forced to read posts or forced to engage. If someone wants to say Meghan looks 22 and post AI images of her 'in support', effectively reducing her worth to her looks, then they can, knowing that such public behaviour is on them.

I'm more interested in the shenanigans of the Head of State of this country and Realms. I'm not orginally from the UK - it is my adoptive home - and I'm of mixed ethnicity. I am very fond of this country and its people and I found M&H's egregious lies in pursuit of their mission to tradduce it quite disgusting, actually. I spent a couple of years waiting for them to speak out about Andrew and his victims - but crickets. Their silence on the whole York debacle says such a lot.

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