I have to say , I do truly hope their's is a love story. After Trevor Engleson 's comment when he said something to the effect of "she'll close that deal " ( I am paraphrasing wildly there ) I do think that MM , who more than one person said she had come to look for a rich husband in the UK , thought , having met H , this is beyond pay dirt. I don't know and shame on me for thinking it but I thought she thought all her Christmases had come at once with Harry. Now , I am not saying she wasn't attracted to him , nor am I saying she does not love him - but I do think being a Prince of the Realm probably gave him a gloss which the man may not live up to. But I am not privy to their marriage. It's a personal opinion that H would not be as much of a catch if her weren't Prince Harry.
On another thread a poster said something along the lines of , Camilla puts up with the Royal flummery because of the man , Meghan puts up with the man because of all the Royal flummery.
But the truth is I do hope they are both in love , even if she doesn't express hers for him as much as she expresses his for hers. Not least because they have a young family - but going on the down low with the Duchess thing might be more indicative of loving the man not the title.
I'll take any criticism for this post because I can probably supply it myself. Just a thought.