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This is your valid opinion but speculative analyses like these always tend to overly focus on the negative. As do all media reports.
An alternative scenario could be that Harry is fairly happy enjoying freedom and fatherhood. He always appeared very much at ease interacting with young children, even before he married and had his own.
But of course I don’t know for sure. None of us do!
I don’t agree with how he went about leaving but I think he might be justified in feeling sad and hurt at how ruthlessly the establishment and his family turned their backs on him once he had left, having protected Andrew, a potential criminal, for years.
(Let’s be honest. Where Harry went wrong was that he didn’t keep quiet. If you keep quiet in the RF, virtually whatever you do, you will be protected. Once you break the omertà; or too much info leaks, you are out!)
I definitely think he needs to find more purpose, Flying a helicopter for a medical charity would be a good start. Just do one thing and do it well and stick with it. Quietly.
The truth is that neither of us know for sure what he is like or how he feels and I think it’s pretty silly to pretend that we do! But we keep on doing it!
We also tend to focus mostly on negatives when in reality most lives are a mixture of good and bad aspects.
I’ve met quite a few well known people during a former career - my role was in a very minor capacity I should add so they didn’t need to be polite to me - and many of them came across completely differently to how they were portrayed in the media. The ones you were dreading meeting were often lovely; and vice versa. Only a few were pretty much the same as anticipated.
Thanks to the odd way that the RF share their marriages, funerals, children with us the public, we all feel we know them and have some strange form of ownership over them. This is an illusion. Their lives as elite rich-as -Creusus -folk are in reality completely removed from our own. And you need wit, self-discipline and strength of character not to be corrupted by the life they lead too.
And in this 24 hr news culture and digital age, I don’t think it’s a productive set up for them or us.
Far better, imho, to let them go and live a comfortable life in peace and privacy, especially the children, and take all emotion out of the equation, and let us elect a steady, non-controversial intelligent, dare I say boring, Head of State, who isn’t protected by enormous wealth and privilege, whose actions are transparent and who is fully accountable for their financial arrangements and both are subject to independent public scrutiny. And then we can focus on what are the really important issues for the UK.
We can still honour our traditions and history but the RF can be gradually confined to that history, where imho, in a modern, accountable democracy, they belong.
So much attention and rhetoric is directed at and towards the royals! Why are we so focused on this toxic soap opera? Can we not raise the level of public debate? As a collection of countries, I think we can do better and we deserve better.