You possibly won’t be surprised if I disagree with this Serenster.
First of all, none of us know precisely what happened at the Sandringham summit, although I bow to your superior knowledge about these things!
My suggestion fwiw is that had Harry been handled with a bit more emotional intelligence, and a bit more attention paid to his standing, things wouldn’t have escalated as far as they did.
Everyone who has had a bit of experience of life knows that when an adult child inherits a keepsake, some money, or even a house, from their parents, or is given a role within a family company, it represents more than the intrinsic value of that item or position. It also represents in their mind, how much they are loved and valued by their parents.
In almost every circumstance of this nature, siblings are usually very, very keen to ensure fairness among them.
Now we all know that the monarchy doesn’t work like that but there have traditionally been certain compensations so that the spares feel valued. Eg wasn’t Princess Margaret Counsellor of State for a period of time?
I am pretty sure there were faults on both sides and it was a stressful period of time for the RF with a changeover of power in progress plus Covid. But I also think they took their eye off the ball. And suffice to say, the situation with Camilla didn’t help.
What they failed to recognise was that this was Harry’s moment. Unlike his brother, he didn’t have any promotions to look forward to. His marriage was his zenith. And Harry felt hurt and humiliated in front of his wife.
Harry would also have been aware of his uncles living in £30 million pound mansions! And Princess Anne living at Gatcombe Park and felt that his lot was a bit miserly.
This is all relative obviously and bears no relation to how the rest of us live!
Also, many of the main players within the RF already have a “half in, half out” arrangement by any other name, but it’s hidden! As previously discussed, William and Charles run the Duchies, which are vast commercial enterprises which each make £20 million profit per year! Why does that not count as being half in and half out?
Add to that Meghan coming from a completely different world and leaving behind everything she had been familiar with in the US, plus attention from the particularly toxic British tabloids, I am not a bit surprised that they wanted a different sort of life for themselves and their dc.