If we could go back to 2018 and take the Harry and Meghan that we thought we had then I’d maybe agree with you that their step away was a loss to the monarchy.
However - even discarding every single unsubstantiated rumour about the pair (tiaragate, bridesmaid row, who made who cry, etc) if we look at a core few things we know have happened because we’ve seen them with our own eyes and ears -
— clearing the paid for seats at Wimbledon
— the ego driven, truth adjacent, wingefests of the Oprah interview, the Netflix documentary, and Spare
— the need for a bullying investigation in the UK, followed up by the sourced and researched HR article on the bullying in the US
— releasing that ridiculous statement after the ‘car chase’ in New York which had been wholly created by their and their own security team’s actions
and me for the absolute worst
— using a school shooting tragedy - unconnected to her in any way - for an intrusive and inappropriate photo shoot
all of this shows just how absolutely unsuitable these two people are to be engaged in domestic and international diplomacy on behalf of the head of state.
They’ve displayed a whole catalogue of poor judgement and indiscreet behavior over the last five years alone. And if even a fraction of the ‘anonymous’ royal source stories that came out during the first two years after the wedding are true it’s even worse.