Thank you. Enclaves of the ‘successful’ south will tell you with some pride that their children are reflections of themselves. The most beautiful girl gets the Quarterback from the old money family like the Buchanans in Great Gatsby. You can only join the ‘best’ sorority if your family have money, status & you’re conventionally attractive - yes, really, despite what’s said - ‘of course she was most welcome in Alpha, Alpha but she decided she’d be more comfortable in Gamma Gamma Loser’. Taylor Swift felt it I think ‘a monster on the hill’ ‘I’m on the bleachers’ despite being middle class even. Did the ‘daughters of Gwyneth’ types at Sacred Heart etc make Meghan feel less than. Racist words were used against her mother & this explains some of what we see.
In M’s defence IF you’ve ever felt fat, plain, gawky, poor & outsider in this environment & suddenly have a hugely winning hand an ‘I’ll show them’ attitude can prevail. Like a poor kid from a comp in 70s/80s at a top Oxbridge college, if you later get a chance revenge is sometimes a dish best served very cold. Thinking of the student Boris allegedly destroyed who’d come for an interview whose ‘people’ were mechanics.
If you’re a winner in this toxic system people are very kind & life is very sweet. Trad wife with a black Amex & husband who genuinely worships every hair on head, who wouldn’t be tempted if only for a bit? What M might miss is rather than just living well the best ‘revenge’ is genuine altruism & using your resources to make a genuine difference in area you care about.