My sympathies for your diagnosis @drivinmecrazy and wish you good health going forward, as well as others dealing with a cancer diagnosis either of themselves or family.
As pointed out it doesn't have to be a race to the bottom. Problems in the NHS and wider care system are widespread, often cruel and difficult for even the most sympathetic politicians to resolve - I can't say I have much faith in this government any more than the previous one to resolve them.
It's certainly not up to the Royall family to resolve even if they could which they obviously can't.
As Catherine said life can change in an instant.
This week one of my patients was telling me about her son, who is severely brain damaged as a result of a drugs overdose. It wasn't suicide. Just teenagers on a camping trip messing around with drugs. He very nearly died and ten years on he is (in her words) like a five year old. She has to help him dress, supervise him at all times etc etc.
she herself is chronically ill with heart and respiratory problems often using oxygen at home. She gets 24 hours a week help with her son.
Her life changed in an instant. The NHS saved her son's life but ongoing care and support is minimal when she is barely capable of managing her own life.
It's not a race to the bottom. Anyone can suffer tragedy, wealth might cushion the bills but it doesn't make it any less painful and tragic.