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Cesarina · 01/09/2024 16:18

Or was it his great-grandmother the Queen Mother?

CarmelaBrunella · 01/09/2024 16:19

IcedPurple · 01/09/2024 15:48

One of the Queen's sisters was an alcoholic who was refused permission to marry the man she loved.

"One" of the Queen's sisters? She only had one.

And no, Margaret was not refused permission to marry. She could have married Townsend and retained all her royal privileges other than her place in the LoS, which was increasingly irrelevant in any case given that the Queen already had two healthy children. However, she chose not to.

The Crown is not history.

I know. They really need to have a huge banner disclaimer across the titles.

ComeTheFckOnBridget · 01/09/2024 16:19

Hughs · 01/09/2024 16:07

Yes, because saying ' you can marry him if you give up your job and the only life you have known' is not coercive at all.

I was wondering where on earth you get this sort of shite from while at the same time not knowing how many siblings the queen had, and then I realised - you've watched The Crown!

Spoiler alert - it wasn't like that. All Margaret had to give up was her place in the line of succession, which was pretty meaningless as the chances of her becoming queen were tiny by then. Here's an explanation of how the tv version is different from real life. Eden and the Queen were actually pretty sympathetic by all accounts.

^The Crown shows Prime Minister Sir Anthony Eden stressing the cabinet's opposition to the marriage and threatening the princess with exile for five years if she goes ahead.
The Queen tells her sister chillingly that if she marries Townsend she will no longer be a member of the family.
But in fact, papers available in the National Archives since 2004 show that the Queen and Eden drew up a plan in 1955 under which Princess Margaret could marry Townsend while keeping her royal title and her civil list allowance of £6,000 a year plus another £9,000 on marriage. She could live in this country and even continue with public duties if the public approved, as was highly likely.^

I do wonder if Margaret's reluctance to give up her place in the succession was influenced by the familial fall-out of her uncle's abdication, which was looked upon as an appalling dereliction of duty which caused his brother's (Margaret's father's) death from cancer.

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:19

Hughs · 01/09/2024 15:47

One of the Queen's sisters..

Do you know anything about the royal family?

Quite and Margaret could have married Townsend. She didn't want to give up her title and lifestyle.

I do wish people would at least fact check before they tell us how wrong we are!

ET put hands up and admit I didn't know the info re Margaret's title outlined above. I will iron my ears! I certainly think she didn't want the loss of the life she knew, though.

CarmelaBrunella · 01/09/2024 16:20

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:19

Quite and Margaret could have married Townsend. She didn't want to give up her title and lifestyle.

I do wish people would at least fact check before they tell us how wrong we are!

ET put hands up and admit I didn't know the info re Margaret's title outlined above. I will iron my ears! I certainly think she didn't want the loss of the life she knew, though.

Edited

Most irritating.

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:22

<Writers of the Crown, reading MN, kicking themselves they didn't add a third sister into their fantasy storyline, wondering if they can shoehorn this into the next series...>

CarmelaBrunella · 01/09/2024 16:23

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:22

<Writers of the Crown, reading MN, kicking themselves they didn't add a third sister into their fantasy storyline, wondering if they can shoehorn this into the next series...>

😂

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:24

Hazeby · 01/09/2024 16:05

That the ‘media’ print this shite and that people read it and believe it is what’s caused all the trouble in the first place.

So you don't think eg Harry's book (etc) has caused any of the trouble at all?

CarmelaBrunella · 01/09/2024 16:24

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:24

So you don't think eg Harry's book (etc) has caused any of the trouble at all?

Or all their interviews, or the Netflix series....

Hughs · 01/09/2024 16:27

It is a bit irksome when posters are talking bollocks and being unpleasant. One or the other is bad enough but the two simultaneously, urgh. One of the Queen's sisters ffs.

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:29

Maybe Meghan can play the Queen's secret second sister in the next series of the Crown?

CarmelaBrunella · 01/09/2024 16:32

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:29

Maybe Meghan can play the Queen's secret second sister in the next series of the Crown?

😂
Maybe there could be a dramatic scene where Meghan points out how to improve the weekly meeting with the Prime Minister, through the lens of philanthropic endeavour and collaborative initiatives.

samarrange · 01/09/2024 16:35

"Tabloid writes unfalsifiable silly-season story about man who once sued them" shocker.

(I have no time for any of these people, FWIW.)

MiscellaneousSupportHuman · 01/09/2024 16:36

Blinkingbonkers · 31/08/2024 22:58

I’m assuming this is bollocks - no one could f* their family over in the way he has and seriously expect anyone would want to touch them with a barge pole again?? He’s made his bed and should take the quiet life he requested and lie in it….More fool anyone who lets him into their lives to spill the exaggerated beans the moment he gets bored (which given the intellect displayed to date won’t be long!!).

I think it's bollocks.

Pure, unadulterated silly season bollocks.

There are always filler articles of this sort over the summer - starts with the will they/won't they Balmoral stories, and when that runs out of steam, it becomes "what's a new angle on reconciliation"

I don't put any credence on any of them

Manypaws · 01/09/2024 16:37

It's too easy to blame everything on trauma, lots of people have been through trauma in life, not all of them behave like selfish twats

Sometime it's time to grown up, own your behaviour and make changes . If anyone can access the best support and help then it will be Harry

SadOrWickedFairy · 01/09/2024 16:37

I thought he hardly ever went to Balmoral? He certainly hasn't been there since he married Meghan. He's also only spent brief periods in Africa.

I don't think Balmoral would be/would have been Meghan's cup of tea at all. As far as I can make out he still went to Balmoral regularly prior to his engagement and marriage to Meghan.

Pipsquiggle · 01/09/2024 16:42

I can't believe how naive and how badly advised H&M have been.
Or maybe they were advised differently but chose to ignore it - in which case they are stupid.

All they had to do was wait a few years until the Queen died and then maybe some of their ideas could have been a reality.

They should have realised that no substantial change would happen whilst the Queen was still on the throne

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:47

Although Margaret certainly had her rackety moments which were well publicised even back then, she didn't rubbish her family publically and wage war against her sister/Monarch. I don't think she was a particularly happy woman, perhaps she did resent being in second place, but how you deal with these things has at least in part got to be down to personality. The oft given example of Anne is valid.

Imanontoday · 01/09/2024 16:49

Pipsquiggle · 01/09/2024 16:42

I can't believe how naive and how badly advised H&M have been.
Or maybe they were advised differently but chose to ignore it - in which case they are stupid.

All they had to do was wait a few years until the Queen died and then maybe some of their ideas could have been a reality.

They should have realised that no substantial change would happen whilst the Queen was still on the throne

I’m not sure I agree with you. It’s commonly and widely reported that both William and Charles were dead set against them monetising being royal, in fact in spare harry makes the queen sound like a feeble old woman just agreeing with them, which is clearly more Harry nonsense, but simply he wants to blame his dad and brother, not her. They were all aligned. The queen dying would have changed nothing.

snd they are not poorly advised or naive. They have had some of the top advisors in the world. Who have reported they don’t listen. They only listen to each other.

its arrogance, entitlement and self grandiosing.

Abouttimeforanamechange · 01/09/2024 16:53

I've said before on these threads - if Margaret had posted on the Relationships board 'I'm 23 years old. I'm in love with a divorced man sixeen years older than me who has two children. We want to get married, but my sister has asked us to wait a while. Our beloved father died last year, and as a family we are still adjusting to the great changes this has brought,' everyone would be telling her to listen to her sister.

Grieving and traumatised children were forced to walk behind their mother's coffin in front of a mass of wailing strangers. What sort of family makes kids do that?

You mean what sort of Prime Minister. It was reportedly Tony Blair's idea.

What the family wanted to do was keep the boys in the privacy of Balmoral for as long as possible. It was that 'mass of wailing strangers' that demanded they all come back to London.

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:55

I think it a great pity that Harry has so little interest in history, even that of his own family, because he could have learned something from the words of his many times great grandfather (Spencer side) Charles I, meeting his children for the last time. He could have learned how the succession actually works and what is expected

"Charles then turned his attention to the eight-year-old boy sitting on his knee. For little Henry, his message was direct and uncompromising. ‘Sweetheart,' he said, ‘now they will cut off thy father's head; mark, child, what I say.' By this time, the king certainly had his youngest son's complete, even fascinated, attention. ‘They will cut off my head, and perhaps make thee a king; but mark what I say, you must not be a king, so long as your brothers, Charles and James, do live; for they will cut off thy brothers' heads (when they can catch them), and cut off thy head too at last; and therefore I charge you do not be made a king by them.' To which the child, anguished but unshaken by this gruesome depiction of his family's and his own future, burst out: ‘I will be torn in pieces first.' His reply ‘made the king rejoice exceedingly'.

(From "Royal Renegades" by Linda Porter. Charles' words well recorded at the time)

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:55

but simply he wants to blame his dad and brother, not her.

Because Harry wanted to try to stay on side with his granny (who controlled the purse strings, held the power, and whom he has completely convinced himself loved him the most of all her grandchildren).

Now the blame has shifted to William and William alone, with Charles wanting to reconcile, but afraid of William's reaction.

Any betting that, when William is monarch, it will be Catherine who is the big baddy grudge bearer, stopping him from reconciling with Harry and allowing George the much needed support of his uncle.

It's a media game being played from Montecito.

GorgeousTulips · 01/09/2024 17:03

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:55

but simply he wants to blame his dad and brother, not her.

Because Harry wanted to try to stay on side with his granny (who controlled the purse strings, held the power, and whom he has completely convinced himself loved him the most of all her grandchildren).

Now the blame has shifted to William and William alone, with Charles wanting to reconcile, but afraid of William's reaction.

Any betting that, when William is monarch, it will be Catherine who is the big baddy grudge bearer, stopping him from reconciling with Harry and allowing George the much needed support of his uncle.

It's a media game being played from Montecito.

Yes indeed. Totally manipulative.

GorgeousTulips · 01/09/2024 17:04

Uricon2 · 01/09/2024 16:47

Although Margaret certainly had her rackety moments which were well publicised even back then, she didn't rubbish her family publically and wage war against her sister/Monarch. I don't think she was a particularly happy woman, perhaps she did resent being in second place, but how you deal with these things has at least in part got to be down to personality. The oft given example of Anne is valid.

She was famously extremely loyal to her sister.

smilesy · 01/09/2024 17:07

Pineapplesandthegovernmentandpunkrock · 01/09/2024 16:55

but simply he wants to blame his dad and brother, not her.

Because Harry wanted to try to stay on side with his granny (who controlled the purse strings, held the power, and whom he has completely convinced himself loved him the most of all her grandchildren).

Now the blame has shifted to William and William alone, with Charles wanting to reconcile, but afraid of William's reaction.

Any betting that, when William is monarch, it will be Catherine who is the big baddy grudge bearer, stopping him from reconciling with Harry and allowing George the much needed support of his uncle.

It's a media game being played from Montecito.

I absolutely agree with this. I can’t believe how transparent it is that they want to curry favour with the person who is in charge. I’m still left wondering if the original alleged “racist” remarks about any potential children didn’t actually come from Prince Philip. They were so quick to insist it wasn’t him or the late Queen after the Oprah interview. It still strikes me as odd that it would be a conversation involving Charles and Catherine. It seems that they (or Meghan at
least) will take any opportunity to have a swipe at the Princess of Wales.

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