Meghan brought up the “Waitey Katey” label in her Oprah interview and insinuated that that was the extent of the mistreatment Kate received from the press, completely minimising all the physical harassment, abuse and gross invasions of privacy her sister in law did have to live through for 10 years.
I agree with your entire post.
It's so fascinating to watch the games Meghan plays. It's a nasty trick, isn't it, to say something like 'People call her Waity Katie, but that's so mean!'
I've witnessed people say things like that followed by performative sympathy They get 2 points for this: the disingenuously repeated insult and then claiming to be shocked and sympathethic.
It's like saying 'People say Kate's mean, hard, snobbish, cold etc etc, but I think that's just mean!' Then why bring it up in the first place?
I remember from the OW interview Meghan said 'But Kate's a good person really'. Hmmm. Damned by faint praise etc Very manipulative stuff.