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Mother of Pat Tillman has criticised the decision to give Prince Harry the memorial award at ESPY

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PrincessMee · 30/06/2024 08:58

Mary Tillman says " There are recipients far more fitting. He publicly disrespected his family , ran away from service to his country. He is unworthy of this award"

She feels there are recipients far more fitting.

I think she speaks for many.

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MrsLeonFarrell · 30/06/2024 20:04

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 30/06/2024 19:59

Yes. Board has been quietish today so no need for interventions up till now. Well, apart from one early on who jumped the gun a bit.

All watching the football maybe!

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 30/06/2024 20:05

IcedPurple · 30/06/2024 20:02

Yes, why is someone bringing up the same tired allegations about 'briefings'? That was old news 4 years ago.

Perhaps they just have pre-prepared rants and that poster grabbed the first one in the file in their haste to post.

MrsLeonFarrell · 30/06/2024 20:05

IcedPurple · 30/06/2024 20:02

Yes, why is someone bringing up the same tired allegations about 'briefings'? That was old news 4 years ago.

Maybe they've reached the end of the script and have to start again from the beginning?

mythical6figures · 30/06/2024 20:05

@Mumofteenandtween Apart from Gretchen Evans and Kim Clavel none of the previous award winners, in my book have done anything extraordinary enough to deserve it. Marcus Rashford is a celeb and the Buffalo Bill team... well they were just doing their jobs?

Pat Tillman had everything and gave it up to serve his country.

However, all the recipients displayed exemplary conduct, which isn't the case for Harry! I understand why people are outraged. If he had even a shred of decency he'd decline it in favour of someone more deserving

IsoldeWagner · 30/06/2024 20:17

Becles · 30/06/2024 19:31

Pity they couldn't be arsed to help or support the first black member of the family and instead did deals with the papers to blacken her name and brief against both meghan and Harry.

I mean her job was to sit there and be grateful for the opportunity to be degraded by the press, supported by the institution she worked for. Balsck people in the UK and commonwealth, I know the Royal family are supposed to also represent you but know your place and shut up at spiteful, malicious briefings otherwise we (with the full complicity of Kensington Palace) brief against you and share personal details.

If you try to do the same with the truth or with the same weapons we'll share how unfit that makes you and how someone like you or your race should never have been allowed to do more than clean something in the presence of the saintly royal family (Andrew included)

This thread is not actually about Meghan.
It's about Harry.
Plus: this has all been completely debunked.

IsoldeWagner · 30/06/2024 20:18

MrsLeonFarrell · 30/06/2024 20:05

Maybe they've reached the end of the script and have to start again from the beginning?

It's really pitiful.
Imagine being so desperate to defend Harry and his lies.

Mylovelygreendress · 30/06/2024 20:19

IcedPurple · 30/06/2024 20:02

Yes, why is someone bringing up the same tired allegations about 'briefings'? That was old news 4 years ago.

Ah , let me explain . Anything that happened a few years ago that casts Meghan in a good light ( poor unsupported Meghan) is absolutely fine to discuss .
But anything that casts Meghan in a bad light ( OW etc) is not allowed !
However it’s fine to bring up interviews by Diana , Charles and anything to do with Andrew and Sarah irrespective of the fact that some posters weren’t born at the time !

IsoldeWagner · 30/06/2024 20:20

Plus: of course there were no "malicious briefings". As if. Harry just lied about that because he couldn't explain their failures and couldn't take any kind of responsibility.

RocketsMagnificent7 · 30/06/2024 20:20

mythical6figures · 30/06/2024 20:05

@Mumofteenandtween Apart from Gretchen Evans and Kim Clavel none of the previous award winners, in my book have done anything extraordinary enough to deserve it. Marcus Rashford is a celeb and the Buffalo Bill team... well they were just doing their jobs?

Pat Tillman had everything and gave it up to serve his country.

However, all the recipients displayed exemplary conduct, which isn't the case for Harry! I understand why people are outraged. If he had even a shred of decency he'd decline it in favour of someone more deserving

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Not sure I agree the Buffalo Bills training team were "just doing their job". Their job would be muscle pulls, sprains, concussions, conditioning etc not performing CPR and saving the life of one of their players.

Vespanest · 30/06/2024 20:22

I am surprised that in deciding Harry they bypassed the founders of the Warrior games or warrior games athletes and to top it all announced during the warrior games. There’d be no Invictus without the warrior games.

TallestSally · 30/06/2024 20:37

Vespanest · 30/06/2024 20:22

I am surprised that in deciding Harry they bypassed the founders of the Warrior games or warrior games athletes and to top it all announced during the warrior games. There’d be no Invictus without the warrior games.

Well quite.

And there would certainly have been an Invictus games without Harry.

mythical6figures · 30/06/2024 20:40

RocketsMagnificent7 · 30/06/2024 20:20

Not sure I agree the Buffalo Bills training team were "just doing their job". Their job would be muscle pulls, sprains, concussions, conditioning etc not performing CPR and saving the life of one of their players.

Not true - athletic training staff must know first aid and CPR. They're usually first responders in sport-related emergencies (granted, the ones that occur during training). Sudden cardiac arrest is one of the leading causes of death for young athletes.
https://commons.emich.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer=&httpsredir=1&article=1375&context=honors

https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/211294248.pdf

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC164314/

Granted, during a match (as opposed to training) it wasn't their actual job, that would be the sports paramedics, but they were doing what they'd been trained to do. If it was a random member of the public or something THAT would be massive.

BTW I'm not denying how commendable their actions were - they saved a man's life. I'm just saying that they were not really 'ordinary' people jumping into action doing something that totally wasn't within their remit.

Uricon2 · 30/06/2024 20:40

MrsLeonFarrell · 30/06/2024 20:04

I find it strange.

I mostly blame Harry for the debacle. He was the one who knew what it was like to be a working royal. He knew that other girlfriends hadn't wanted to deal with that life. He must have known Meghan didn't really understand what she was marrying into. He let her go on Oprah and say things that weren't true and the way he wrote about her in his book was weird. I think she is very normal for Californian actress/ celebrity types and he should have tried to help the woman he claims to love acclimatise better.

Totally agree with this. He really should have been able to support her better and I think let her down massively.

IsoldeWagner · 30/06/2024 20:41

TallestSally · 30/06/2024 20:37

Well quite.

And there would certainly have been an Invictus games without Harry.

It might be currently better if someone else had taken the helm and focused on that rather than self aggrandisiment.

BasiliskStare · 30/06/2024 20:45

@LifeExperience 💐I am with you on this 👏

RocketsMagnificent7 · 30/06/2024 20:56

@mythical6figures

Regardless of them having received training, performing CPR isn't something they do regularly, if at all, other than this occasion. I'd go as far as to say it wasn't something they'd ever have truly anticipated having to do.

PrincessMee · 30/06/2024 21:03

To justify a numbskull like Harry getting this we knock down previous recipients? Well that is a bit bizarre....

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PrincessMee · 30/06/2024 21:09

Noosnom · 30/06/2024 19:23

Royals are meant to be handing out awards. Not receiving them.

This is the main point of it all but something that Harry has yet to grasp. After all he styles himself like a Royal clinging onto his titles and conducts himself like a Royal as he sees it.

Mother of Pat Tillman has criticised the decision to give Prince Harry the memorial award at ESPY
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JADS · 30/06/2024 21:10

I disagree about Marcus Rashford. He may be a professional footballer, but his story is real rags to riches. He stood up to our shitty government at a time when they were throwing cash at their cronies while letting kids go hungry. I thought he was really brave.

MR fought the establishment, PH had the establishment come up with the idea of Invictus, bankroll it and do all the admin while he baskets in the glory.

Tigger1895 · 30/06/2024 21:11

AutumnCrow · 30/06/2024 09:08

Out of MailOnline's Los Angeles office in the US, by Caroline Graham. 1.6k comments, including quite a few from veterans.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13584099/Prince-Harry-award-honour-war-hero.html

Put his name in a headline and you will get a pile on, it’s a sick hobby for some people

IsoldeWagner · 30/06/2024 21:12

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 30/06/2024 19:37

Bullshit.

In a nutshell! 😂

mythical6figures · 30/06/2024 21:20

PrincessMee · 30/06/2024 21:03

To justify a numbskull like Harry getting this we knock down previous recipients? Well that is a bit bizarre....

If this is in response to my comments - there's nothing bizarre if you'd read my post properly. I explicitly said that Harry's conduct makes him unworthy of the award.

@JADS I don't think criticizing the government, in the UK , for not doing something is 'fighting the establishment'. He lost nothing from making that statement - it was in line with public sentiment. What consequences did you think he was going to face? Especially as a player for Manchester United - a team, and a city that's somewhat anti-establishment.

I think, what I am really trying to say, in a long winded way is that this award does seem to be somewhat politically/popularity motivated. Not necessarily, as the PP I was replying to put it, for 'ordinary people doing extraordinary things'. MR's rags to riches story is irrelevant here, at the time of his actions leading to the award he was a rich celebrity.

The outrage is about Harry's conduct as a person IMO. Not his background and/or the suitability of his work. If he was not a liar who sold his family out for money and was constantly trying to hog the spotlight, this wouldn't be a problem. Oh, and also, never giving credit to anybody else!

TallestSally · 30/06/2024 21:21

I would love anyone to explain just how Harry holds up to the Pat Tillman Foundation values before there is talk of pile-ons.

See below.

OUR VALUES

Pat inspired us all to live our lives to fullest, and we've shaped this foundation around key principles that mattered to Pat the most.

SERVICE
Dedicated to service beyond self in and out of uniform
SCHOLARSHIP
A lifelong learner, passionate about intellectual growth
HUMBLE LEADERSHIP
Selflessly committed to leading by example
IMPACT
Determined to unite others and
advance ideas that change the world

If his mam cannot see it, then how is anyone else supposed to?

Me? I’m fucked if I can.

Rhaidimiddim · 30/06/2024 21:27

Vespanest · 30/06/2024 20:22

I am surprised that in deciding Harry they bypassed the founders of the Warrior games or warrior games athletes and to top it all announced during the warrior games. There’d be no Invictus without the warrior games.

Has Harry ever attended the Warrior Games since that first time, do we know?

Vespanest · 30/06/2024 21:29

Rhaidimiddim · 30/06/2024 21:27

Has Harry ever attended the Warrior Games since that first time, do we know?

at least once, he was there with Jill Biden

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