Another aspect to blow up out of proportion. Gosh, the media has done a great job.
The court found that her communications with an assistant were not pertinent to the court case itself. I certainly see her as being brave enough to position herself for battle against a behemoth by bringing it.
What happened:
Write a letter to your father Meghan the senior members of the RF suggest.
She goes to great length to get it right and asks for support in doing that (from an employed adviser who is there to assist the principals).
She understands that trust regarding her father is a big issue. It could be leaked. She would hardly want to hurt herself regarding its contents.
Meanwhile, the media is still going to town about her and her father.
She then tries to put the loss of this relationship with a poor excuse of a father behind her. She writes said letter and is commended by the assistant for its right tone. She gets married - legally - in the gold fish bowl.
After the wedding:
Meghan endures years of abuse from the press and becomes traumatised by her experiences. Meghan has her baby. Meghan moves country again. Covid hits. She is busy trying to secure her family’s future and a home is bought. She also miscarries.
So much has happened, it is full on. So many huge changes occur and even just one of these can floor any individual. Yet, we still expect her to be some paragon of virtue with a flawless ability to remember every single thing. No, it is almost demanded of her to remember every single aspect of every single thing she did, say or write before marrying into the institution, developing suicide ideation, giving birth, being contrasted constantly with Kate, lectured to/bullied by William and blamed for anything that can be dredged up. The tabloids even give a name to handing in her Royal notice. Megxit!
…she won her court case the letter was not in the public interest. It was an invasion of her privacy.