Harry can't really win on this one can he?
He rushes to see his dad=attention seeking
But if he had stayed away that would have been cold and heartless.
When he flew home, if he had ignored other travellers he would have been rude and above himself.
But he was chatty and friendly but that, apparently, was a sign that he wasn't really that bothered about his father being ill.
Likewise:
He offers to step up if the RF need somebody to do so = trying to bleed them dry/get a foot in the door.
Refuse to help them and do his own thing = cold, heartless and betraying the family.
I mean no he hasn't covered himself in glory over the last few years but equally I do think he constantly ends up (with the media at least) where he will be slagged off no matter what he does.