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2 racist royals?

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drowninginjelly · 29/11/2023 22:03

So who are the 2 royals who commented on Archie's skin now that Piers Morgan has named them on live tv

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BriocheBunn · 30/11/2023 15:32

One thing is for sure - Rachel really doesn't like Catherine.

Jealousy is never a good look.

JudgeJ · 30/11/2023 15:33

drowninginjelly · 29/11/2023 23:11

You may well ask what they did for her to dislike them so much hmm?

What did her own father do except support her through life until she became a bit successful on a TV programme and dumped him? The nonsense with the suit fittings etc happened long after she'd dropped him. Many on here go NC but do they cut all their family?

Angrycat2768 · 30/11/2023 15:34

I would kind of love it if Kate just said ' Yeah I did it, she was a b@#£%%%%h and I didn't want her to marry Harry!'

moose62 · 30/11/2023 15:36

I don't know why the press give this any room at all. It is all so boring and old hat. We gave probably all speculated about a child's colouring, looks etc when they are in vitro. It is natural curiosity, not necessarily racism. H & M trotting all this stuff out time and time again because they don't get the reactions they want is getting tedious. They wanted their freedom, why don't they just enjoy it instead of trying to wreck the institution because they can't get their own way.

Likewhatever · 30/11/2023 15:37

Tulipsroses · 30/11/2023 14:34

Our good friends are waiting for a baby girl. She is Asian he is English and ginger. I made a comment on how beautiful the girl will look as long as she not ginger. Now I don't know was it too much, can you make a comment like this nowadays.

If you’d speculated in a neutral way about what colouring the baby might inherit I don’t see why anyone would be offended. But that “as long as” made all the difference. They now know what you’ll think of their red headed baby girl, if that’s what they get. Not kind.

Angrycat2768 · 30/11/2023 15:39

There are at least 3 threads on this on Mumsnet alone. The press don't give a shit about the Royal Family as long as they provide material for them to sell ad revenue. That is why this is going on. The oress print it and the public lap it up. That's it.

Hughs · 30/11/2023 15:45

mantyzer · 30/11/2023 14:53

@Hughs The women in the court case said clearly that Charles staff made lots of black jokes. She talked about a general culture as well as a terribly racist example of what Fawcett said.

When you say women, did the secretary have witnesses to back her up then? I haven't seen that before if so.

As far as I know, there was a row about her not working the hours she was meant to, she resigned and then claimed constructive dismissal on the grounds of sexual and racial discrimination. The panel heard the evidence and found that not to be the case. I can't make the leap from there to Charles is a racist. Not that it means he isn't either, it doesn't tell us one way or the other.

Tulipsroses · 30/11/2023 15:47

@NonPlayerCharacter
The social conduct is so sterile now, I have no idea sometimes what is acceptable. When we had our kids my in laws always made comments hoping the kids looked like me. Look at your husband they said, we want our grandkids to look different! (My husband is very stereotypically Jewish with a weird ginger beard).

BethDuttonsTwin · 30/11/2023 15:53

Well one thing I know is, if anyone had directed genuine racism towards my baby I would not wish to have one single thing more to do with them. So no titles, no titles for my children, no invites to Sandringham for Christmas, no attending high profile royal occasions - jubilees etc and I would have come straight out and told the world why I was leaving and who was responsible and in what context. Are we expected to infantilise M & H so much that a similar robust and straightforward response cannot be expected from them? How people can defend their behaviour around this and not see it for the clear grift that it is is beyond me.

Scobie is either their attack dog or he went off piste with exaggerated details made more colourful by resentment, that they’d probably shared over a few martinis. I have to wonder if they’re looking on paralysed with fear because if they deny or distance themselves then Scobie will completely blow the lid off, but if they don’t then any meaningful attachment to the RF is finished. What a dilemma.

mantyzer · 30/11/2023 16:15

@Hughs I did not say the court case showed Charles was a racist. I said the woman's allegations about racism were about the staffing culture of racist jokes, not just one member of staff.

wordler · 30/11/2023 16:25

My view is there are two main tracks but unless the principals involved ever actually make a clear full explanation of what happened, we will never really know.

It's obviously not made up by just Scobie because it was brought up in the Oprah interview as an incident/incidents.

So it's either:

Option 1: Something really bad was said with an intentional context that was shocking and harmful by one or more specific people and either

  • Harry and Meghan didn't want the names exposed to protect future family relationships but needed the incident information out there to explain their upset and exit.
or
  • They were holding the names back as potential leverage

Option 2: Something innocent or clumsy was said along the lines lots of people have speculated so far and either

  • The person that told Harry about the conversation misrepresented it in some way
or
  • Harry misunderstood or misremembered the conversation and conveyed it to Meghan in a way that made it sound worse
or
  • In the midst of all the other emotions and issues that were flying around this was mistakenly connected to misunderstandings about titles and security issues and it became a mountain out of a molehill which now things have calmed down M&H are seeing it differently and are embarrassed about making such a fuss about this particular thing but had forgotten in their initial anger they had told various people a lot of indiscrete detail.
Samcro · 30/11/2023 16:26

all these posts. no one except the people passing the comments will know what is said.
there is a shed load of difference in the parents discussing it, and a couple of randoms discussing it when the mother is not part of the conversation.

PrestonHood121 · 30/11/2023 16:27

I know we are talking about the new Book but let's not absolve Harry of his past racism just because he married a Black woman.

BriocheBunn · 30/11/2023 16:31

PrestonHood121 · 30/11/2023 16:27

I know we are talking about the new Book but let's not absolve Harry of his past racism just because he married a Black woman.

Rachel isn't black.

PrestonHood121 · 30/11/2023 16:33

Sorry, mixed race. Or African American.

PrestonHood121 · 30/11/2023 16:35

Harry needs to look in the mirror if he is looking for a Royal Racist

Seagrassbasket · 30/11/2023 16:38

LuluBlakey1 · 30/11/2023 00:03

Quite- Meghan said it was when she was pregnant, and that other things were said at the same time and the examples she gave were : 'So there were all these concerns - concern about how dark his skin would be and how he wouldn't have any security guards and how he wouldn't be given the titles'HRH' or 'Prince'.' She used the word 'concerns and concern'.

She then drew Harry into the conversation and he said 'Oh it was when we were first seeing each other' quite dismissively.

She showed there that she has no understanding of how the system works. Only the children of a monarch or grandchildren of the son of a monarch are given the HRH title and Prince or Princess. At that time, Harry was not the son or a monarch so Archie was not entitled to either. Only children of the heir to the throne now have security- Archie was not that either and will never be. If it was felt he was at risk, Scotland Yard would have the power to allocate security. Andrew paid for security his daughters after it was withdrawn some years ago. Meghan seemed to understand none of this and saw it as a sleight linked to the fact that she is mixed-race- it was no such thing. Whatever race Harry's wife was, a child would not have had security, been called HRH or titled Prince/Princess at that point. Harry seems not to have made that clear to her and allowed her to continue to take it as an insult. Perhaps neither understood, or perhaps they chose to be offended.

I find this quite interesting and a possible explanation for how a conversation was either misunderstood or weaponised.

Meghan seems to align the ‘concerns’ over skin colour with the fact that the baby would get neither an HRH title or security. She talks about the two things as if they are linked in the Oprah interview.

As @LuluBlakey1 has said he would not get a title as he was not the grandchild of the reigning monarch (at the time of his birth) and no security either as not entitled according to the rules of the royal family.

Could it be that Charles was concerned about the optics of an obviously mixed race child not getting those things and the general public misunderstanding (which to be fair is almost what’s happened) and was talking about how to proceed with that?

And Meghan has either genuinely or wilfully misunderstood in order to weaponise the conversation?

Livelovebehappy · 30/11/2023 16:53

Bales23 · 30/11/2023 15:28

Are you sure you're not in need of help? You sound kre- kre 🥶

Wow! What a super intelligent response..

Blueroses99 · 30/11/2023 16:55

mantyzer · 30/11/2023 11:24

@Nushyboots Exactly! Despite what people say on this thread this does not happen with two white parents having a baby.

It does happen. This article is from 2013 before George was born and speculates on eye colour and skin colour.

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/07/03/health/royal-baby-appearance/index.html

What -- and who -- will the royal baby look like? | CNN

Bets are already being placed on the appearance of the royal baby – the future king or queen of England.

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/07/03/health/royal-baby-appearance/index.html

Livelovebehappy · 30/11/2023 16:58

moose62 · 30/11/2023 15:36

I don't know why the press give this any room at all. It is all so boring and old hat. We gave probably all speculated about a child's colouring, looks etc when they are in vitro. It is natural curiosity, not necessarily racism. H & M trotting all this stuff out time and time again because they don't get the reactions they want is getting tedious. They wanted their freedom, why don't they just enjoy it instead of trying to wreck the institution because they can't get their own way.

Absolutely agree. The majority of people just dont care what was or wasnt said. It's all getting boring. Really boring. But whilst H & M can earn a few more dollars out of the story, they'll carry on.

Livingtothefull · 30/11/2023 17:03

'Meghan seems to align the ‘concerns’ over skin colour with the fact that the baby would get neither an HRH title or security. She talks about the two things as if they are linked in the Oprah interview.'

It is documented that Meghan faced 'disgusting and very real' security threats when she married into the family; due mainly to right wing extremists she was at least as much, maybe more, at risk than any other member of the RF. So of course she & Harry would be worried about the risk to their son.

Why would the family begrudge him that protection? Shouldn't such decisions be made on the basis of risks to individuals, rather than their status? Of course we don't know how security is managed for RF members, or the costs of it to taxpayers - because it is all kept a secret from us.

SerafinasGoose · 30/11/2023 17:11

Ah, well. Makes a change from Laurence Fox ... 😂

Mirabai · 30/11/2023 17:15

Hughs · 30/11/2023 14:44

I see your preoccupation with Harry and no attention to racism in the RF; I see an attempt to minimise racism at Highgrove.

I must say, I am baffled when people defend Harry, given what he has said and done.

I disagree that you can infer racism on the part of Charles (you named him, not Highgrove) from a woman going to tribunal over a remark not made by him several years earlier, a tribunal which she lost. I think it's wrong to do that. Charles may well be racist. If you have evidence of that, by all means share it, but you look a bit desperate coming out with the tribunal story, and run the risk of people thinking, if that's all there is, there's nothing actually there.

I am also a bit bemused that with all the outright racism directed at Meghan on this thread, you have chosen to make a remark like that to me, merely for pointing out the facts. I have indeed drawn attention to racism in the royal family, both on the part of Harry, and also the experience that Meghan described on Oprah.

I named Highgrove in fact:

His own father had a secretary who took Highgrove to tribunal for experiencing racial abuse from staff.

If you’re trying to claim that Charles secretary repeatedly lied to a tribunal about the racism she experienced, then say so. Otherwise the claim there is “nothing actually there” is simply dismissing a legitimate complaint.

A person characterising their interpretation as “facts” will inevitably draw skepticism.

As to your bemusement - you asked, the others didn’t.

Mirabai · 30/11/2023 17:19

Livingtothefull · 30/11/2023 17:03

'Meghan seems to align the ‘concerns’ over skin colour with the fact that the baby would get neither an HRH title or security. She talks about the two things as if they are linked in the Oprah interview.'

It is documented that Meghan faced 'disgusting and very real' security threats when she married into the family; due mainly to right wing extremists she was at least as much, maybe more, at risk than any other member of the RF. So of course she & Harry would be worried about the risk to their son.

Why would the family begrudge him that protection? Shouldn't such decisions be made on the basis of risks to individuals, rather than their status? Of course we don't know how security is managed for RF members, or the costs of it to taxpayers - because it is all kept a secret from us.

Indeed the outgoing Metropolitan Police assistant commissioner, Neil Basu, commented that the threats were “disgusting and very real”, for which people were prosecuted. He also commented that he’d understand if Meghan had felt "under threat all the time".

I understand the problem of funding security in the US but I also understand why the couple felt security was needed.

Twonewcats · 30/11/2023 17:24

has anyone mentioned how delighted MM is when she says her daughter has blue eyes?

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