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2 racist royals?

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drowninginjelly · 29/11/2023 22:03

So who are the 2 royals who commented on Archie's skin now that Piers Morgan has named them on live tv

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Outnumbered1010 · 30/11/2023 12:52

boscabosco · 30/11/2023 12:34

Because Megan Markle is so insecure. Jealousy does not have a motive, it just is and it is the reason behind all the nasty behaviour towards Kate.

This is what I mean about people who apply different standards to ethnic people but claim they’re not racist. Why call her Meghan Markle? But it’s apparently disrespectful to call the other one by her maiden name but she must be referred to formally.

Why claim Meghan has been nasty to Kate, yet there are wide reports of Kate being the one who was nasty to Meghan in the run up to the wedding and zero reports of Meghan doing anything nasty to Kate?

Maybe challenge yourself as to why you’re so quick to believe everything bad about Meghan, yet nothing bad about Kate. Is it naivety believing everything you read in the Daily Mail? Or something more sinister….?

Blueroses99 · 30/11/2023 12:54

ScremeEggs · 30/11/2023 12:47

Because Megan Markle is so insecure. Jealousy does not have a motive, it just is and it is the reason behind all the nasty behaviour towards Kate.

😂
You don't know her. You only know the picture painted in your head by the narrative and tone the press has spun.
Honestly, some of these posts are utterly batshit.

Not all of it is the press. People have had the opportunity to listen to Harry and Meghan’s own words through various interviews, podcasts, documentaries etc, and are entitled to make up their own minds.

Hughs · 30/11/2023 12:57

CurlewKate · 30/11/2023 12:51

@Hughs not at all excusing Harry. But he at least showed some growth.

I suppose my point is, not much. It wasn't long ago that he denied what happened to Meghan was racism, or that he defended Lady Hussey.

Angrycat2768 · 30/11/2023 12:59

CurlewKate · 30/11/2023 11:15

@Sayitaintso33 "As far back as the 90s I sat on interview panels where we were instructed to appoint a black candidate. Whether or not it was tokenism, there were superior white candidates who missed out."

The kindest response to this is to say you misunderstood the brief. Also. Nobody banned Christmas.

Lol the C of E is only being kept going because of Black people going to church and the only white people in Catholic churches are likely Polish. The congregations otherwise would have collapsed even more than they are already if they were relying on White British people to keep Christianity alive! And the positive action ( not discrimination was aimed at forcing people who, for decades when faced with an equally or even less qualified White person and a Black or Asian person would automatically appoint the White person on the basis of their skin colour/ accent/ school.

Sayitaintso33 · 30/11/2023 13:05

Sparthan · 30/11/2023 12:51

This. It must have driven Meg insane to have to curtsey to Kate and constantly play second fiddle. And when Kate’s son becomes King and her grandchild too… while Meg’s son is only a Prince and her grandchild will have no title at all… she will have been seething.

They’ve done it now though. Accused the King of England of racism! They are going to get well and truly squashed.

I agree that it is shameful that Kate demands Meghan curtesy. What a ridiculous custom in a ridiculous family headed by a gent who goes by the nickname of: "Your Majesty"

Willyoujustbequiet · 30/11/2023 13:19

Ilovecleaning · 30/11/2023 09:47

Ok. About Meghan:

  • when she first came on the scene in the papers pre- engagement, I didn’t even know or notice she was mixed race.
  • when it was made clear she was mixed race I thought ‘Great, it’s about time the RF was more diverse. Might shake them up a bit and it’s good for the 15% of the uk who are non- white who are not represented in the RF.
  • I first got bad vibes when she had only ONE relative at her wedding. Weird.
  • she gave it a matter of months before she gave up and disappeared with Harry, although I do suspect that H was a willing follower
  • I thought it was strange that H had not schooled her in royal protocol at all.
  • My gut feeling is that a lot of people simply did not take to her: she seemed to enjoy the limelight too much. She seemed to bask in it. Something insincere about her.
  • perhaps many people would like to say ‘ Sorry, Meghan but we don’t trust you; you are attention-seeking, you seem insincere, your smiles seem false - this has nothing to do with your race, but it is easier for you to say it is racism rather than deal with your attitude and behaviour.

I agree

It's nothing to do with race. It's her behaviour.

Soozikinzii · 30/11/2023 13:20

Well our family have red hair and people do comment on that like- All The Time . So it's not that unusual really is it ?

DriftingDora · 30/11/2023 13:23

Rodelansier · 29/11/2023 22:17

Why are some things known/published abroad but censored in the UK?
It doesn't work. What's the thinking behind it?

Libel laws. Different countries = different laws.

Simples.

EnoughIsay · 30/11/2023 13:24

Myfabby · 30/11/2023 12:15

Wow, how do you manage your day job as your nose is stuck up so far up Waity's bony ass!

The sycophancy is so off the charts nauseating

there does seem to be a serious dislike of Kate though from harry and Megan and a desire to tarnish her. Which is odd as she did obviously get on well with harry prior. But it is dislike of both of them. Is Kate simply collateral damage?

This I do not undderstand! In the Oprah interview MM said that PoW is a good person. She likes her.

So why insist on creating this story line?

Mirabai · 30/11/2023 13:25

Hughs · 30/11/2023 12:46

Omg yes, poor Harry who had no idea it was racist to call someone the p word, how could he possibly know, he was only in his twenties? It wasn't Harry's fault. And how could he know it was offensive to dress up as a Nazi for fun? It wasn't his fault, they made him do it.

Not sure how to get around him dismissing his wife's account of racism as unconscious bias, or sticking up for Lady Hussey because "she didn't mean it". Not sure whose fault that it is, but definitely not Harry's.

Harry’s family are clueless on race, thus he never got any racial education from them.

His own father had a secretary who took Highgrove to tribunal for experiencing racial abuse from staff. She lost then but I don’t think she’d lose now as awareness has improved over the intervening 20 years.

Myfabby · 30/11/2023 13:25

MumoftwoGirls11 · 30/11/2023 12:23

+1 to this. The very same sentence with a different intonation can have very different emotions behind it. Unless you have faced the racism it's hard to understand. I'm inclined to believe that the intonation behind what was said by Kate was what led Meghan to feel that it was racist. Whilst she is young, Kate has led a privileged and sheltered life, so I am more inclined to believe that she is indeed racist and perhaps refuses to accept that she is. Needs education, as Harry said.

Most of the people piling on the hate for Meghan cannot understand what she has experienced even a bit. I have a lot of respect for her, how she's refused to shrink when stepped on by a stuffy, racist establishment, with an adversary as strong as the Daily Mail and the other tabloids. I watched the same things (e.g. touching baby bump) being painted as positive when Kate did it and being painted as negative when Meghan did it. The silence and inaction from the Royal Family when they were vilifying Meghan was deafening.

A lot of the lies the tabloids have spun have now become widely-known "truths" it's so sad.

You've articulated this so nicely - Thank you!

When you are subject to daily microaggressions, having you assess what should be simple civil conversations, it gets tiring. When it is insinuated that you are not where you are because of merit or that your children get into a good uni on a contextual offer. When there is blatant racism and people try and gaslight the facts, it is the most frustating thing ever!

No one thinks Meghan ,Duchess of Sussex is perfect. No one is perfect quite frankly. It is the issue that people are ok with imagining her being dragged naked through the streets pelted with poo. Yet we have an adulterer King who treated the wife of his youth very badly and caused untold damage to his poor sons, Andrew and his dalliances with underaged children but none of that quite frankly revolting vitriol is reserved for them.

Plenty of hate is sent Meghan's way because she refused to keep her head down and just be grateful to be a part of the BRF. All the racists and racist apologists on this thread are affronted that she dares to turn their back on their white privilege and dysfunction.

Mirabai · 30/11/2023 13:27

Hughs · 30/11/2023 12:57

I suppose my point is, not much. It wasn't long ago that he denied what happened to Meghan was racism, or that he defended Lady Hussey.

Did he deny it or was he trying to calm a storm and be precise. He specified “unconscious bias” which is a form of racism.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/11/2023 13:28

Willyoujustbequiet · 30/11/2023 13:19

I agree

It's nothing to do with race. It's her behaviour.

Me too, behaviour.

But I don’t actually dislike Meghan and before eg the Netflix documentary which I saw, I was torn between sort of not liking her behaviour and feeling she’d been treated badly and was pleased she’d stuck up for herself.

Now, I honestly don’t know what to think, or it doesn’t cross my mind to think about the RF. But the RF if they’re looking to build bridges with M&H and all this negative publicity comes out, well what are they to think? Or do they take heed of it at all? None of us know really.

EnoughIsay · 30/11/2023 13:31

Blueroses99 · 30/11/2023 12:54

Not all of it is the press. People have had the opportunity to listen to Harry and Meghan’s own words through various interviews, podcasts, documentaries etc, and are entitled to make up their own minds.

Would you mind pointing me in the direction of insecurity, jealousy and nastiness?

To me she seems easy in her skin, competant and comfortable in a public role, a decent public speaker, seems like a hard worker who is well prepared for her events, the clothes she wears sell out quickly (implies people admire her "look") and so on.

I never saw insecurity as such. Definately no nastiness or jealousy.

But I may have missed it.

Mirabai · 30/11/2023 13:33

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/11/2023 13:28

Me too, behaviour.

But I don’t actually dislike Meghan and before eg the Netflix documentary which I saw, I was torn between sort of not liking her behaviour and feeling she’d been treated badly and was pleased she’d stuck up for herself.

Now, I honestly don’t know what to think, or it doesn’t cross my mind to think about the RF. But the RF if they’re looking to build bridges with M&H and all this negative publicity comes out, well what are they to think? Or do they take heed of it at all? None of us know really.

All I can say is that if I was running a globally recognised “firm” I’d make damn sure that a disgruntled partner was dealt with in house so they wouldn’t defect and brief against the firm.

It’s just piss poor management.

CurlewKate · 30/11/2023 13:33

@Willyoujustbequiet "It's nothing to do with race. It's her behaviour."

Do you have any concrete examples of this behaviour which isn't rumour, gossip or speculation? Actual things she did wrong?

YoucancallmeAI · 30/11/2023 13:34

OK - haven't read the full thread but the Dutch paper I saw the other day named them as King Charles & Princess Michael of Kent - Kate wasn't mentioned at all?

BoohooWoohoo · 30/11/2023 13:37

YoucancallmeAI · 30/11/2023 13:34

OK - haven't read the full thread but the Dutch paper I saw the other day named them as King Charles & Princess Michael of Kent - Kate wasn't mentioned at all?

Edited

It’s definitely the King and Princess of Wales who are named in the book.

Strictlyfanoftenyears · 30/11/2023 13:38

NonPlayerCharacter · 30/11/2023 08:20

Because a) they're usually lying b) it's a classic thing said by absolute racists to validate themselves, and c) they're saying it to speak for a minority of which they are not part.

It's like an MRA on here telling us he's not being sexist because some of his best friends are women.

But none of this you know for definite, isnt it all speculation anyway? I dont have any black friends as it happens, does that mean that I am racist? (Genuine question, I have no idea what people think of me in general.....)

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/11/2023 13:40

Mirabai · 30/11/2023 13:33

All I can say is that if I was running a globally recognised “firm” I’d make damn sure that a disgruntled partner was dealt with in house so they wouldn’t defect and brief against the firm.

It’s just piss poor management.

@Mirabai i don’t know why you keep quoting me but…

I think it’s easy to say what you say, but in the case of the RF, Meghan hasn’t been briefed on protocol etc or if she has she’s chosen to ignore some of it and do her own thing (I’m just surmising here) and Harry sadly probably hasn’t prepped/briefed her well.

Then you get the established RF who probably think M is an upstart and has rubbed people up the wrong way. How can you deal with these people (presumably K&W) especially if they’re in line to the throne? You can’t. Or not easily.

Of course you may mean that the disgruntled partners and H&M. So do you just let them have their way so they don’t defect and brief against the firm (eg RF)?

Clytherow · 30/11/2023 13:40

32 pages of total drivel on both sides of the spectrum. Who gives a shit - genuinely, who cares about any of these people? Bunch of overprivileged navel gazing bellends, the lot of them.

Blueroses99 · 30/11/2023 13:41

EnoughIsay · 30/11/2023 13:31

Would you mind pointing me in the direction of insecurity, jealousy and nastiness?

To me she seems easy in her skin, competant and comfortable in a public role, a decent public speaker, seems like a hard worker who is well prepared for her events, the clothes she wears sell out quickly (implies people admire her "look") and so on.

I never saw insecurity as such. Definately no nastiness or jealousy.

But I may have missed it.

Missing the point that I was making. Some people do believe that she is insecure, jealous and nasty - as evident from this thread. But it is not all just because they are mindlessly brainwashed by the press, there are enough direct sources available for people to make up their minds that have nothing to do the press.

SheriffofRottingham · 30/11/2023 13:42

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snowbird21 · 30/11/2023 13:44

OhNoOhNo · 30/11/2023 08:18

In reality it’s Harry and Meghan treating the Windsors with caution because the Windsors have shown themselves to be racist about their own grandchild and nephew by being concerned about the colour of his skin as a prince.

Whilst none of us know what really was said on both sides or how both feel given the documentary, book and interview it would seem that racism was only one of a whole host of complaints that were levelled at the RF. Airing your private family issues in public is in my view not the way to seek peace and harmony. Do I believe they were unhappy - yes, but there are two sides to every story, different perceptions and perspective. I think the racism allegation has put the RF in a very difficult position - they don't normally comment, if I were them I would stick to to that as getting involved in media storm is not going to improve relations for anyone.

Lilybetsey · 30/11/2023 13:44

It is a fact that Meghan denied any collusion with OS over Finding Freedom. This was proven in Court to be a lie.

Meghan told Oprah that she and Harry were 'really married' in the garden of their house in Windsor. This is untrue.

There are other examples, but for me this proven dishonesty is enough to make me view what she says with a healthy scepticism.

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