@BeardyButton Paedophilia is a paraphilia and/ or Paraphilic disorder. Paraphilia’s include voyeurism, exhibitionism, necrophilia, AGP (the one we are not supposed to mention) sexual masochism etc. People can have one or more paraphilia’s.
Peadophilia is about attraction to pre pubescent children not young people who have or are going through puberty. Physically there is normally quite a stark difference in physical appearance between the two.
There are two key issue one is age and whether or not the other person can consent. Gillick competence or the law determine that pre pubescent children cannot consent so it is always abuse. Young people e.g. 13 upwards are normally competent to consent or not to sex and so non consent is rape.
The second issue you may not be aware of is that there is a movement by Paedophiliacs to replace it with the term Minor Attracted Persons (MAP). When we don’t use the correct language we are playing into their hands.
Whilst we might find the idea of a 40 year old man having sex/raping a 17 year old it is very different to a 30 year old man abusing a 7 year old.