@MarshaMelrose i just lost my first answer to you. so, I’ll be quick. Yes it is about general respect.
Because so many people have proven themselves to be unworthy of the office, I no longer respect the office. I will respect the person who holds the office if they are worthy of it. They have to work for it now. I will be polite should I meet them, (unlikely) but it will just be the politeness I have for people generally. It was easier to respect the office when people were much more distant.
Our last PM in Australia proved himself not worthy of the office of Prime Minister. Respect for office and man were gone. Our new PM may prove himself worthy of respect, he’s done some good things so far, but not enough yet for me to say that I respect him.
i respected Queen Elizabeth, mostly, but no, I don't respect the office of the King, he’s got to earn my respect. I’ll be polite. If I should ever meet him :)
God, King and Country. I know there was no ‘then’ there. But it was my way of pointing out that I think there is meant to be hierarchy there, it’s not meant to be horizontal, we are meant to see it as a hierarchy.
The king ascends the throne. It’s a deliberate imagery that is created. Words are chosen for a reason.
The frisson you talk about. For me, it’s not respect, it’s excitement. Seeing someone I usually only see on a screen, there is excitement there. I’ve met a few famous people (famous in Australia), and felt that frisson, but in one case any excitement was quickly lost when the person turned out to be a rude, pretentious arsehole. When in London in the 90s, I had a second of it when I thought I saw Princess Diana in a car, but realised quickly it was Princess Michael of Kent. A frisson of excitement followed by a moment of disappointment and then her driver drove off.