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Discussing the things we liked about Harry and Meghan's Netflix documentary series

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MrsMaxDeWinter · 08/12/2022 14:22

There are so many threads on things posters hated about Harry and Meghan, the Netflix series, and fair play to those posters, so I thought I would have a go at stating a thread discussing some of the things that posters liked about the series.

I'll start.

I liked that this was supposed to be this bomb detonation, but has actually been a measured, warm, and loving look at H and M's relationship, and the pressures that the press put on them, and also on other royals. I genuinely did not notice anything incendiary. Maybe that is still to come.

I enjoyed the thoughtful insights shared on the invisible contract, especially, as Harry says, having to perform for a press that you know has said hurtful things about people you love.

I loved the warm memories of Sandringham, and meeting the Queen. And Meghan's memories of growing up. I think it was a wise, though sad, that they did not include Thomas. I really loved hearing Doria: my favourite bit is when a journalist offered her money, for an interview about Meghan and she said, "That's my child!"

I also learned for the first time about Meghan's relationship with her sister Samantha's daughter Ashleigh. I had no idea that she had been raised by her grandparents who adopted her, or that she had such a warm and caring relationship with Meghan. Along with Doria's, that was my favourite interview.

I enjoyed hearing from her childhood friends, as it is often said here that she had no friends who came to the wedding etc, just celebrities. They seem a tight nit grip who have been here fr years, and I am glad she has them.

I was gobsmacked that she needed security in Toronto after the relationship was announced.

I also thought the discussion on racism, in its wider context of colonialism and imperialism, was very well done, but then again it was led by David Olusoga and Afua Hirsch, who are always great, and I love their writing.

Most of all I love that Harry confronted head on the Nazi uniform debacle, and what he learned from it. And I loved, loved, loved, the segment on his life in Lesotho where they gave him the Sesotho name, "Mahale". A wonderful name.

“It was one of the biggest mistakes of my life,” Harry said. “I felt so ashamed afterwards. All I wanted to do was make it right. I sat down and spoke to the chief rabbi in London, which had a profound effect on me. I went to Berlin and spoke to a Holocaust survivor. I could have just ignored it and made the same mistakes over again in my life. But I learned from that.”

I predicted on another thread that Harry would address this and other episodes head on in his book. I was scoffed roundly for this. I expect him to say more in is book, and I am happy to be proved right.

If only for this, I am very glad they did this.

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derxa · 15/12/2022 15:42

For people who hate cameras so much they seem to spend a lot time being filmed in their private life.

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 15:47

Elisabetty · 15/12/2022 13:08

Can't stop thinking how stupidly the Royal Family has acted in all of this. They could have easily just sent Harry and Meghan to represent them in the Commonwealth countries and so daddy Charles could still control them from purse strings. Cutting their funding was an enormous mistake for the RF, but really good for Harry and Meghan. Now they can really separate themselves from the court and start living their own life.

When she first met the Queen, she said that she was most interested in the Commonwealth. The Queen saw a role for her and it's why she made them Youth Ambassadors to the Commonwealth. They did do tours. But these are their own countries. The queen is head of the Commonwealth by consent, she can't just place people in those countries and give them a role.

They are living their own life. And they portray themselves as being happy. But how content are you when you're still harbouring all this bitterness 2½ years after leaving?

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:02

Beautifully said @MarshaMelrose

Unifolorn · 15/12/2022 16:16

Elisabetty · 15/12/2022 13:08

Can't stop thinking how stupidly the Royal Family has acted in all of this. They could have easily just sent Harry and Meghan to represent them in the Commonwealth countries and so daddy Charles could still control them from purse strings. Cutting their funding was an enormous mistake for the RF, but really good for Harry and Meghan. Now they can really separate themselves from the court and start living their own life.

The biggest issue is that they wanted to be free to pursue their own projects alongside their duties, the half out and half in was the issue rather than the location. Cutting their funding seems fair enough, they were able to move abroad it's them that have kept dragging up the same story and changing their lies.

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:21

I'm watching episode 4, and I'm really moved by Doria crying about Meghan being suicidal.

I don't quite know why it's moved me so much... Doria often reminds me of my own mum.

Roussette · 15/12/2022 16:23

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:21

I'm watching episode 4, and I'm really moved by Doria crying about Meghan being suicidal.

I don't quite know why it's moved me so much... Doria often reminds me of my own mum.

I agree. It moved me too. Sadly, it's been ridiculed on another thread, more the pity.

She comes across as a lovely Mum.

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:24

I'm also glad that Harry admits to dealing with it as "institutional Harry" and not "husband Harry".

I felt watching the Oprah interview, that Harry didn't protect Meghan fully tbh.

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:25

@Roussette

Omg really? That has been ridiculed?

I'm sincerely glad that I'm not part of that thread. That is vile, and it's sickening that many of those mocking her will be mums themselves. God help them.

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 16:31

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:21

I'm watching episode 4, and I'm really moved by Doria crying about Meghan being suicidal.

I don't quite know why it's moved me so much... Doria often reminds me of my own mum.

I suffered from depression in my 30s and I know it was one of my mum's dreads. I think that's quite a natural fear of parents and really doesn't deserve mocking.

Roussette · 15/12/2022 16:35

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:25

@Roussette

Omg really? That has been ridiculed?

I'm sincerely glad that I'm not part of that thread. That is vile, and it's sickening that many of those mocking her will be mums themselves. God help them.

Yes, it's vile. @Quirkyme I better not repeat it, it might be against Talk Guidelines... however anyone who spoke up about how wrong it is to ridicule someone worried about their child's state of mind is called a 'mental health mourner'. Nice.

Roussette · 15/12/2022 16:37

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 16:31

I suffered from depression in my 30s and I know it was one of my mum's dreads. I think that's quite a natural fear of parents and really doesn't deserve mocking.

A few years ago, my adult DD had a period after a really upsetting breakup of getting some counselling and help, and I was worried sick about her.
All is well now, thank god.

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 16:43

Aww Doria's joy at being a new grandma. I just love her. Honestly

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 16:46

Honestly, even if your child isn't really intending to commit suicide, as a parent your mind can't help but go there.
I'm glad your daughter has got through it.

Elisabetty · 15/12/2022 16:58

Unifolorn · 15/12/2022 16:16

The biggest issue is that they wanted to be free to pursue their own projects alongside their duties, the half out and half in was the issue rather than the location. Cutting their funding seems fair enough, they were able to move abroad it's them that have kept dragging up the same story and changing their lies.

You really don't get the point. Cutting their funding was good for Harry and Meghan as now they are free to speak the truth without needing to depend on someone else. The royal family lost their only method of blackmailing them into submission. They are propably making millions from this documentary and if they run out, they can always publish more.

And they do have lot of supporters, especially among the young and educated. I believe they are telling the truth, all the actions of the Royal Family and the yellow press match their story. The press can twist and bend, but the truth will still be there.

Ohnonevermind · 15/12/2022 17:11

@Elisabetty

They are speaking ‘their truth’ not ‘the truth’ - it’s important to distinguish between the two

Roussette · 15/12/2022 17:31

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 16:46

Honestly, even if your child isn't really intending to commit suicide, as a parent your mind can't help but go there.
I'm glad your daughter has got through it.

Oh yes. And having worked with suicidal people for 10 years, I am very aware. But it's diffferent when it's your own.

Roussette · 15/12/2022 17:43

I meant to say, thank you. @MarshaMelrose
I hope your dark times are behind you too. Flowers

onlylarkin · 15/12/2022 18:44

I fully understand what bit means to be in Dorias shoes. It is the worst thing ever to go through as a family.

I haven't watched any of 4 - 6 yet and it is killing me. But I need to be a grown up and clean ny kitchen and fold laundry.

Quirkyme · 15/12/2022 19:52

Just finished watching the last 3 episodes. I enjoyed it thoroughly. Good on them.
Good on Meghan.

BellePeppa · 15/12/2022 19:55

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 16:31

I suffered from depression in my 30s and I know it was one of my mum's dreads. I think that's quite a natural fear of parents and really doesn't deserve mocking.

My s

BellePeppa · 15/12/2022 19:57

BellePeppa · 15/12/2022 19:55

My s

My son suffers from depression and alludes to suicide - it’s very worrying and stressful. Even though I am living with that cloud every day I just can’t reconcile it with Meghan. I may be wrong but I’m not completely buying it. I do think she didn’t want to be living that particular life but I don’t necessarily believe she was willing to die for it.

lollipoprainbow · 15/12/2022 21:07

Why can't Charles put out a statement instead of just ignoring the elephant in the room. This constant never complain, never explain is so tiresome and old fashioned. All of them out in force tonight at the Carol service all smiles as if nothing as happened.

Aspiringmatriarch · 15/12/2022 21:14

BellePeppa · 15/12/2022 19:57

My son suffers from depression and alludes to suicide - it’s very worrying and stressful. Even though I am living with that cloud every day I just can’t reconcile it with Meghan. I may be wrong but I’m not completely buying it. I do think she didn’t want to be living that particular life but I don’t necessarily believe she was willing to die for it.

I find this really strange. Why on earth would you disbelieve her? She's a human being, why is it difficult to 'buy' that she felt like that? Because she's an actress? Because you don't think she had a good enough reason? Even more odd to have that reaction if someone close to you struggles with the same thing. I would imagine you'd have a bit of insight.

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 21:46

lollipoprainbow · 15/12/2022 21:07

Why can't Charles put out a statement instead of just ignoring the elephant in the room. This constant never complain, never explain is so tiresome and old fashioned. All of them out in force tonight at the Carol service all smiles as if nothing as happened.

In the documentary the day after the OW aired here the Queen not out a statement. Short and non critical. But H&M had cameras waiting so that they could fit their reactions. Because the Queen is smart, there was nothing to react to. Otherwise the two of them would have dragged it out even more. And that's,why Charles doesn't say anything. Because it gives others the chance to keep it going, twist words and meanings, and add other (imagined or not) slights.
Just by all appearing together, they have addressed the documentary quite well.

MarshaMelrose · 15/12/2022 21:49

Roussette · 15/12/2022 17:43

I meant to say, thank you. @MarshaMelrose
I hope your dark times are behind you too. Flowers

Aw, thanks. Thats kind of you. Comes and goes but I consider myself to be very lucky with all the help and support I've had and still get. x

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