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The royal family

What now for M&H

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OliviaBean · 11/09/2022 15:45

I find the whole family and royal family (The Firm) aspect of Megxit very interesting.

Just wondering what now for M&H? Will they continue on with the strategy of talking and writing about the royal family or will things now change? I think the half in half out strategy on their terms would have worked for M&H but I think the RF were right to knock it on the head, it would never have worked for the RF, Harry was ready to go and Meghan was never going to just slot in with the system.

Just looking at Harry, I think the guy really needs the whole circus of fighting with the RF in public to stop, for his own mental health. He obviously has issues that he needs to come to terms with, he really needs to do this in private but this is at odds with how they need to make money now. I really fear for him the person.

If they keep going with the fighting then I think that's it for them and the RF. If they are to reconcile with the RF, how then do they make a living? I would imagine QE has left quite a provision for Harry in her will so perhaps the money making aspect will be less of a priority. I could see Charles being more open to a reconciliation but not sure about William.

Not trying to start a thread to bash anyone, just interested in other opinions.

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Ommommomm · 12/09/2022 11:29

Greengianttrees · 12/09/2022 11:28

Oh really?! Are you saying that if we didn’t have a monarchy BoJo could not have been ousted?

I would love to hear your explanation for that!

honestly, say you like the idea of grandeur of the past and you want a monarchy to pretend Uk is still a power.

but the rest, that somehow monarchy helps us be accountable as a democracy (while being the antithesis of a democratic institution) is just nonsense.

My dear, it is not I that is speaking the nonsense.

Ommommomm · 12/09/2022 11:33

To answer your question about Boris, yes that is exactly so.

Imagine a system where it was possible for an elected and governing head of state to chuck out the leader whenever they felt like it.
Really think about it.

(hint: it could never work)

Greengianttrees · 12/09/2022 11:37

@Ommommomm i have no idea what you are talking about (and I wonder if you do either).

I suggest as a closest neighbour, you look at how the Republic of Ireland operates.

MetalScrews · 12/09/2022 11:44

BalloonSlayer · 11/09/2022 20:43

I think the King should offer them the Prince's Trust to run.

That's actually a genius idea!

Ommommomm · 12/09/2022 11:55

Serenster · 12/09/2022 11:09

Only one head of state, not their wife, kids etc paid by the taxpayer

Wow, sexist, much!

A problem with only funding the head of state is that presumably their partner will then have to continue working (unless you pay them a lot of money - as your Head of State will have to give up all their existing interests in order to be officially neutral) and that can lead easily to conflicts of interest, or perceived conflicts, which come to the same thing. Unless you insist that your Head of State can’t ever brings a plus one on any engagements or work travel (not a great incentive to take the job…) then you’ll also need to reimburse their expenses also, which will be considerable.

Plus they and their family would need protection, and once they retire from the position would continue to need protection, so you’ll quickly end up with a pool of people with open-ended security needs.

These are not insolvable issues, but they are real issues that countries have to grapple with. Acting like it’s simple thing to move from one onto the other isn’t accurate.

Exactly. We would end up where we are, ie with a pool of people to pay for that would quickly get out of hand if the HoS was regularly elected.

The point is that this is all part of our history and a “tried and tested” system that largely works.

The first King Charles literally lost his head to the republic movement that quickly turned into a dictatorship before evolving into the system we have held ever since. Having an elected government AND a monarchy where neither holds ultimate power largely works but of course nothing is set in stone and it could all change in time.

However, as you say, it would take a great deal of working out.

Readinginthesun · 12/09/2022 11:59

Meanderings · 12/09/2022 09:55

The UK is utterly brain washed. Globally, i've never seen more people call out the disgusting smears and racism against H&M than the past couple of days.

Interesting conversations going on about your monarch's legacy as a coloniser, she is not as feted as people in here think.

Not feted ?? Really ? So the thousands of people of ALL ages I witnessed ( and was part of ) lining the Scottish roads just fancied a few hours standing around .
I will try to attach photos from our local paper .
Only letting me post one .

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Ommommomm · 12/09/2022 12:04

Greengianttrees · 12/09/2022 11:37

@Ommommomm i have no idea what you are talking about (and I wonder if you do either).

I suggest as a closest neighbour, you look at how the Republic of Ireland operates.

I believe you. You don’t know what I am talking about. However, I do.

I also understand how the Republic of Ireland operates. It would not work here any time soon because there is a completely different history, and the present is built on the foundations of historical events.

complexdebate · 12/09/2022 12:14

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Byebyebigbelly · 12/09/2022 12:28

Meanderings · 12/09/2022 09:03

Please don't be delusional about how media coverage shapes the way people are viewed/decisions are made. There's a reason why Brexit happened - and Brits are suffering now, America voted for Trump and Hilary lost. H&M are by no means perfect but the vitriol is unhinged.

My opinion of M and H is completely and entirely based on the way they have behaved, behaviour I have seen and heard with my own eyes and ears. I always liked H and really liked her at first.

However much you might like to frame their detractors as frothing haters who only read the Daily Mail and listen to Piers Morgan, it is incontrovertible fact that:

They gave an interview to Oprah full of provable lies and slurs upon the RF, in the weeks his grandfather was dying and when the queen was preparing to lose her husband of 70 years.

M had an interview running last week in which she made veiled threats ‘I can say anything’ and slagged off the RF again, when the queen was frail and as we now know, dying.

M has shown herself time and again to be self serving, ruthless and prone to lying. She has all but sneered at the British public - the day of her wedding, which cost UK taxpayers millions, the streets were filled with well wishers. She later dismissed the wedding as a thing, a spectacle and claimed it was not even a real ceremony (later proved to be a lie). She recently compared herself to Nelson Mandela and claimed a South African person had told her they were celebrating in the streets in South Africa (a country she has recently annoyed by describing the beautiful residence they accommodated her in as a housing unit). This has also turned out to be untrue.

She has caused distress to two very elderly people in their final years and has done so wilfully. That is why people dislike her. Nothing to do with racism or the tabloids.

skullbabe · 12/09/2022 12:34

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Ommommomm · 12/09/2022 12:34

I reckon Meghan will be doing a lot of soul searching right now.

Who hasn’t fallen out with members of the in-laws? It happens all the time, albeit not in such a public way for most of us. You fall out, you make up and put it behind you. That’s what grown ups do.

Prince Harry clearly has emotional and mental health issues, and Meghan also comes from a place of hurt as evidenced from her broken relationship with her father.

This could actually be the making of them both. A watershed moment where they both grow up.

luckylavender · 12/09/2022 12:35

Wanda616 · 12/09/2022 10:07

I just don't understand how things went downhill so badly, so quickly. The country was thrilled about the wedding. Charles walked Meghan down the aisle. She had spent Christmas with the RF before she had even married Harry, and gone to Pippa Middletons wedding reception. The RF and the country had (other than some ignorant throwback morons) welcomed her enthusiastically as a breath of fresh air. Then there was a lot of nonsense about Archies birth, when they said she had gone into labour hours after he was already born, and it seems like minutes later they were leaving the RF to live in Canada - and people on MN were shot down for saying Canada was a stepping stone to living full time in California, which is exactly what happened.

Exactly this.

luckylavender · 12/09/2022 12:38

EdieLedwell · 12/09/2022 10:12

She got lambasted for her choice of dress for the engagement pics
She accused of literally having a tiara tantrum
Making Kate cry
Her fathers pap walk

That's before they were married

Kate also got very bad press before she was married. Doors to manual, waity Katie, work shy, a mother who plotted her romance, her uncle and on. I'm just giving some balance here.

StartupRepair · 12/09/2022 12:39

Don't think she's the soul searching type. More likely to move on with her own truth. I imagine she must be struck by the hugeness of this historic moment and possibly wondering if she got the best part of the deal, finding herself playing pranks in Ellen's car park rather than being part of the dynasty.

luckylavender · 12/09/2022 12:42

I don't think anyone has mentioned the whopper she told on Oprah about the Archbishop of C marrying them privately before the wedding. What was the point of that if not to rile people about the huge expense of their very beautiful wedding?

LondonWolf · 12/09/2022 12:51

workinmums · 12/09/2022 09:25

Jobless looneys like yourself OP will continue to run thread after thread about them.

You sound so kind and stable yourself there.

NorthernMountainCaribou · 12/09/2022 12:51

I was thinking of this and thought what a sliding doors moment meeting Meghan potentially was for Harry.

If he had still been an active part of the Royal Family he would surely be fairly front and centre during both the Jubilee and the proceedings following the Queen's death. Given his popularity with the general public. I am sure he would have been given an elevated title (maybe Duke of Edinburgh??). He would have almost certainly been given more military responsibilities.

Feel quite sad for him. I understand a lot of this is of his own making. I am not blaming Meghan at all but I think it was the combination of their two personalities that led to this estrangement.

Must be very odd and lonely for him to be at the middle of this vastly global event focussed on his beloved grandmother and to have so little role and relevance in it. Is almost as if he is confined to Frogmore cottage for the duration.

I hear he won't be able to wear military uniform.

They will have to think long and hard how they go forward. I think there will be little sympathy/interest if they continue with attacks in the media after the funeral.

susan12345678 · 12/09/2022 12:52

She got lambasted for her choice of dress for the engagement pics

Yes, she threw a 'Sayonara Zara' party and proceeded to celebrate her engagement in a £56,000 dress. How uncharitable of people to consider that in poor taste! 🙄

Greengianttrees · 12/09/2022 12:52

of course every country has history. But change is inevitable. If we all stuck with history (the devil we know), we would never have inventions or progress.

I think it is time for soul searching without knee jerk ...”but what about Boris? What about Trump” (both are no longer in power precisely because of democracy) as a lazy excuse for a non-democratic, religious and class-based HoS.

LondonWolf · 12/09/2022 13:02

bloodyplanes · 12/09/2022 09:45

@Meanderings why are you such a bitter hateful person?

It's so often this way. The nastiest, most creatively spiteful comments come from those claiming to be speaking in kindness & defence of their preferred side/belief. It's fascinating actually.

NorthernMountainCaribou · 12/09/2022 13:08

I can't see how Harry can possibly release the memoir anytime soon, especially before Christmas.

I remember the Carol concert the now Princess of Wales hosted last year and the song by Tom Walker 'For those who can't be here' that she played the piano on. It was such a poignant song for me last year. How poignant that song will be this year and her involvement in it. There will so much focus on all the 'firsts' without the Queen this Autumn and in the lead up to Christmas. Remembrance Sunday, the annual dinner at Buckingham Palace, Sandringham, the Christmas Day church service, the 'Kings Speech' etc. etc.

To release and publish a book slagging off a mourning family in the lead up to Christmas would be crass beyond belief. To do it before then would be unthinkable.

Meanderings · 12/09/2022 13:08

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EdieLedwell · 12/09/2022 13:10

susan12345678 · 12/09/2022 12:52

She got lambasted for her choice of dress for the engagement pics

Yes, she threw a 'Sayonara Zara' party and proceeded to celebrate her engagement in a £56,000 dress. How uncharitable of people to consider that in poor taste! 🙄

"According to a Hollywood source"

Meanderings · 12/09/2022 13:11

NorthernMountainCaribou · 12/09/2022 13:08

I can't see how Harry can possibly release the memoir anytime soon, especially before Christmas.

I remember the Carol concert the now Princess of Wales hosted last year and the song by Tom Walker 'For those who can't be here' that she played the piano on. It was such a poignant song for me last year. How poignant that song will be this year and her involvement in it. There will so much focus on all the 'firsts' without the Queen this Autumn and in the lead up to Christmas. Remembrance Sunday, the annual dinner at Buckingham Palace, Sandringham, the Christmas Day church service, the 'Kings Speech' etc. etc.

To release and publish a book slagging off a mourning family in the lead up to Christmas would be crass beyond belief. To do it before then would be unthinkable.

I hope he does. The family's behaviour in the last couple of days has been utterly disgusting, they deserve no respect.

Meanderings · 12/09/2022 13:11

EdieLedwell · 12/09/2022 13:10

"According to a Hollywood source"

They'll believe anything out of sheer hatred, desperados.

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