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Tom Bower's book on Meghan Markle

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SmileyFaces12 · 13/07/2022 10:49

It's out next week, titled 'Revenge'. I've ordered it already!

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MaulPerton · 20/07/2022 23:41

mathanxiety · 20/07/2022 23:22

The other royals use the following formula in the context of the titles and other goodies invested in them by the people of UK:

Self-service + UK service

H & M use the following formula in the context of the titles and other goodies invested in them by the people of UK:

Self-service

In other words, they get everything, we get zilch out of the deal.

@MaulPerton
Maybe there are people here on MN who have never heard of the term 'soft power'?

If you think the Duke and Duchess of Sussex are not an asset to the UK even though they're abroad and have cut themselves free from the silly flummery of RF life, then you need to think again.

If you think removing their titles and whatever support they get would go over well (outside of the UK where a section of the population spits nails at the mention of Meghan Markle's name) you should also think again.

but why should they be treated worse than say PA who still has his titles? why are they deemed worse than someone like him?
@Samcro
It's pretty obvious.

Interesting point. Do you have examples?

38DegreesAndRising · 20/07/2022 23:57

KatharineofAragon · 20/07/2022 23:03

I really really struggle to understand what joy can be had from living their lives like this. I thought they wanted freedom? Trailing around being filmed and releasing PR statements bigging up their lives.. pretending to win a match before it’s even finished. If Harry felt like an animal in a zoo whilst in the U.K. what must he feel like now? The organ grinders monkey?

It’s worse than the Trueman show.

This is exactly the conclusion I have come to. It seems like it’s a posh reality tv show that they have carved out for themselves.
How is this freedom? I often wonder why they wouldn’t or couldn’t do a Julia Roberts - remember when at the height of her fame she just slipped off to live a quiet and private family life in the countryside. That’s the type of thing I thought they were after, but this reality tv “docuseries” for 100mm? I’m sorry to say I think they have sold their souls for Netflix gold.

StartupRepair · 21/07/2022 00:01

I read the opening of Bowers' book on preview. Doesn't paint a great picture of Doris's parenting. Also makes me see how as a child of parents with little in common how Meghan possibly learned to present herself differently in different contexts and evolve a pragmatic relationship with the truth.

MarshaMelrose · 21/07/2022 00:27

StartupRepair · 21/07/2022 00:01

I read the opening of Bowers' book on preview. Doesn't paint a great picture of Doris's parenting. Also makes me see how as a child of parents with little in common how Meghan possibly learned to present herself differently in different contexts and evolve a pragmatic relationship with the truth.

Aww, I don't like it when books go after parents and children to illustrate points about the subject unless it's positive. I haven't seen anything to suggest that Doria has traded off her relationship with MM since her marriage so I think she should be left alone with her privacy. No one can truly know what goes on in a family except the members and not always even then - if my sister's and my mismatched remembrances are anything to go by! 😁

mathanxiety · 21/07/2022 01:15

Examples of what?

StartupRepair · 21/07/2022 01:53

To be fair that was my extrapolation about Meghan after skimming the description of her parents' poor relationship.

KatharineofAragon · 21/07/2022 04:01

I have got the book on Kindle so will see if it has anything new to offer.
It has always appeared to me that Meghan has as dysfunctional a background as Harry, probably much more so. She may be presenting a view of his family to him based on her own unresolved issues and trauma. They are clinging together and reinforcing each other's sense of having been let down and wronged. It's not a healthy dynamic.

MaulPerton · 21/07/2022 07:58

mathanxiety · 21/07/2022 01:15

Examples of what?

How have they been an asset to the UK since leaving the UK?

CathyorClaire · 21/07/2022 08:20

I was agreeing with you although obviously too obliquely. An examination of RF murky finances should exclude some members according to some posters, namely H & M...

No probs Smile

I absolutely agree royal finances of any ilk should be under the spotlight especially as more and more emerges about how they've been conducted in the past.

KatharineofAragon · 21/07/2022 08:50

I’ve read part of the book so far as couldn’t sleep last night for a couple of hours. Not impressed so far. It’s not well written and full of stuff we mostly know already. It does give a clear sense though that Doria wasn’t a great mother and Thomas spoilt her. She became very controlling as a result , according to the book. It does make a convincing case. I just wish it was better written and had more new information. The author has clearly spoken to Thomas and Samantha.

KatharineofAragon · 21/07/2022 08:53

One thing which is interesting is that Doria and Thomas had the same age gap as Charles and Diana .Doria clearly immature and not ready for parenthood.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 21/07/2022 08:55

I really really struggle to understand what joy can be had from living their lives like this

Ditto

For all I know they may be happy, and as with anyone else I hope they are - but their behaviour doesn't say "happiness" to me

LurkingMarauder · 21/07/2022 09:13

So Doria smoked weed after working 18 hour shifts, bit disappointed in these bOmBsHeLls 😐

KatharineofAragon · 21/07/2022 10:08

It’s getting better now actually.

Readinginthesun · 21/07/2022 10:17

So ……M did make Kate cry !

Meanderings · 21/07/2022 10:33

We've been told M made Kate cry a thousand times, next!

Even after Kate sent a note and flowers, which palace sources have claimed was an attempt to smooth things over.

I want bombshells 😏

Readinginthesun · 21/07/2022 10:42

The point is that M told OW in the interview that it was Kate who made her cry !

Serenster · 21/07/2022 10:55

The extract I have seen that did make my eyebrows rise was that Meghan and Harry made their announcement about Archie’s birth being treated as a private matter, with no notifications to the Press, not because they actually wanted it to be private, but because they were secretly brokering a deal with Oprah and Gayle King for an exclusive “Our First Year” documentary with CBS, including giving CBS exclusive access to the Queen’s first meeting with Archie

When Meghan discussed this with Oprah in her interview, she said that the wish for the birth to be private was because she wasn’t going to serve her son up on a silver platter when the Palace weren’t giving him a title or security. If Oprah and Meghan did indeed both know the negotiations that had been going on behind the scenes at the time, that’s an interesting take.

I wonder if anyone asked the Queen if she wanted a private family moment sold like that? I also wonder if that had anything to do with her alleged refusal to have the Sussexes’ photographer shoot her meeting with Lilibet?

(I found this particularly interesting because the shenanigans around Archie’s birth and what the Sussexes eventually agreed to tell the press - and then didn’t - was the tipping point for me. I started to realise that despite my desire to keep thinking the best of them, I just couldn’t rationalise it against their behaviours. I assumed there was a big old battle for control of the press narrative going on behind the scenes. The suggestion that actually it may actually have been because they wanted the exclusive for an American broadcaster - and what would have been the quid pro quo for that, we wonder? - is really interesting)

Serenster · 21/07/2022 11:00

Here the extracts I referred to above, by the way.

Tom Bower's book on Meghan Markle
Tom Bower's book on Meghan Markle
Samcro · 21/07/2022 11:13

surely their baby their choice, what has the queen got to do with it?

Meanderings · 21/07/2022 11:20

Someone tag me where H&M are exposed for hiring child actors to play Archie and Lili because reborn dolls etc

Doria's jail sentence too.

Oh and when proof is released that they're embezzling Archewell's charity funds for their own use.

That's what the derangers promised was coming from Bower's book.

Thank you.

Meanderings · 21/07/2022 11:21

Right.

Serenster · 21/07/2022 11:38

surely their baby their choice, what has the queen got to do with it?

Erm, her image rights, her choice. Her personal life, her choice as to whether its released for public consumption…?

Serenster · 21/07/2022 11:40

That's what the derangers promised was coming from Bower's book.

There’s a whole cottage industry of stupid out there, that’s certainly true. I’m more interested in what the book actually contains, rather than what various internet communities are hoping for.

LondonWolf · 21/07/2022 12:08

Meanderings · 21/07/2022 11:20

Someone tag me where H&M are exposed for hiring child actors to play Archie and Lili because reborn dolls etc

Doria's jail sentence too.

Oh and when proof is released that they're embezzling Archewell's charity funds for their own use.

That's what the derangers promised was coming from Bower's book.

Thank you.

Anyone with an ounce of critical thinking knew all those were utter nonsense and therefore wouldn't be in this book. Let's not try to imply that some of the really intelligent and well informed posters on this thread belong in that bracket.

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