I find the whole situation utterly bizarre.
For the most part, I think the whole "megxit" thing is of Harry's making. I can fully believe she didn't really understand what marrying into the royal family would entail - let's be honest, that would be a huge shock to anybody, let alone someone not from this country. So I have huge empathy for her in that respect. Even if she did research it, the theory and the reality would still be a collosal head fuck.
However, Harry's last two girlfriends both dumped him because they couldn't cope with the pressures. Therefore, he should have made damn sure that M knew what she was getting into. That's on him No one else. It was his responsibility.
I've always thought that H had the hot-headedness Spencer trait. Let's be honest, Diana was well known for cutting off people who she believed had 'wronged' her.
I think that he always had the royals to talk him down and calm him down to prevent him acting irrationally. I suspect Kate and William in particular knew how to "manage" him. But with Meghan, I don't think she's ever done that. I think rather than saying "look calm down, lets figure it out", whenever he's taken offence, it's very much "I agree, you have been wronged, let's fight it" - so there's now two people who are egging each other one which IMO has created this whole situation.
For this court case, it's staggering that they've egged each other one to get to this point. Her "forgetfulness" certainly relates back to the Queen's "recollections may vary" statement, and surely she's now been proven to be a legally unreliable witness?