I’m not excusing racism I’m just pointing out the difference between racists and people who inadvertently say racist things or things that others might regard as racist.
I had to tell my mum that some people think ‘eeny, meeny, miney moo, catch a tiger by the toe’ has racist connotations when she was using it with the kids and better to retire it. She had no idea. I just educate my mum if these things come up. I don’t berate her and call her racist.
Similarly my son has SEN, my mum is so afraid of using the wrong phrases too as the ones she used growing up are now offensive.
I try to educate her but I don’t take offense when she struggles to find the correct language.
If a member of the RF said something racist, was it racist or ignorant of the racist connotations to others.
If the latter then educate them and no need to go on OW, if the former and they refused to learn then I’m happy that they should name and shame clearly.
The allegations on OW weren’t clear for me to establish which it was