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Do you think Oprah didn't ask the right questions.

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Noidea2114 · 09/03/2021 21:59

Lots of subjects were spoken about but I felt that Oprah could have asked for further information.

What questions do you think she should of asked.

My question is to Harry 'why didn't you get Meghan help with her MH if you are a loving husband'

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Coronateachingagain · 21/03/2021 22:21

@OverByYer

Agree the Gayle King wading in has been more damaging , it feels like M&H always want to have the last word.
Thinking ahead I think the RF are better off dealing with some lowballs now but not having them under the tent anymore. In the medium term, it is probably better they left - and moved to a distant country. Imagine having to deal with her demands and expectations above her level and capacity on a daily basis. Unsustainable anyways, so probably did them a favour by leaving on their own. I am coming to the conclusion all this mess now is a blessing in disguise. They can go and try their luck in America all they want.
RubyViolet · 21/03/2021 22:52

@Blueberries0112

They are saying William pressured Harry wearing the suit. Yeah I know, no excuse but if it is true, William is not doing a good job protecting the monarchy.

I mentioned before, our governor of Virginia dressed up as Micheal Jackson standing next to someone who dressed as KK K . But his action seems to be that he is listening and doing his best to destroy racism.

Who is they ??? Harry wore the Nazi sign, he called someone a P, someone a Ra**. William didn’t do these things. I don’t know what to say about this, as l can’t possibly identify with H’s behaviour, it just wouldn’t occur to me to do any of these things ever. You have to be accountable for your own behaviour, that’s being a grown up. You can’t move on unless you take accountability, maybe H has been accountable to Meghan but maybe he should apologise to the public.
SoWhyNot · 21/03/2021 22:55

@Blueberries0112

They are saying William pressured Harry wearing the suit. Yeah I know, no excuse but if it is true, William is not doing a good job protecting the monarchy.

I mentioned before, our governor of Virginia dressed up as Micheal Jackson standing next to someone who dressed as KK K . But his action seems to be that he is listening and doing his best to destroy racism.

What about the time Harry was said to have gone go to someone and told them he was dating Chelsey who was from Africa but it was ok, because she wasn’t black. Did William force him to say that as well?
RubyViolet · 21/03/2021 23:21

[quote Blueberries0112]www.mercurynews.com/2020/10/06/harry-resented-his-nazi-costume-scandal-overshadowing-williams-colonials-and-natives-party-participation-book-says/[/quote]
Sorry can’t read that , it has a paywall.
People need to take responsibility for their own actions.
In my opinion, and it’s my opinion... there can be no excuse ever for dressing up as a Nazi.
Come on ! Check yourself.

Blueberries0112 · 21/03/2021 23:23

Never said Harry is not responsible, I wrote “no excuse”

I am just surprised a person who is supposed to be future king to do this

Truelymadlydeeplysomeonesmum · 21/03/2021 23:28

@Blueberries0112

Never said Harry is not responsible, I wrote “no excuse”

I am just surprised a person who is supposed to be future king to do this

Again no actual proof he did but photos of Haz. Not to mention the disciplinary Haz had at least twice in army training.
RubyViolet · 21/03/2021 23:40

@Blueberries0112

Never said Harry is not responsible, I wrote “no excuse”

I am just surprised a person who is supposed to be future king to do this

You are minimising, Harry wore the swastika. We can’t brush over this. It happened.
Blueberries0112 · 21/03/2021 23:41

William came to the party which theme was colonial and natives with Harry dressing like that . He didn’t even bother refusing to go because of his brother

Truelymadlydeeplysomeonesmum · 21/03/2021 23:45

@Blueberries0112

William came to the party which theme was colonial and natives with Harry dressing like that . He didn’t even bother refusing to go because of his brother
I think you are not taking into account the year that happened. Whilst the theme would have been a little convivial then. Now it is definitely not acceptable. Whereas the costume both them and now is unacceptable.
Blueberries0112 · 21/03/2021 23:49

2005? I am in my mid-forty and even Then I knew it was wrong... I just can’t figure out why people keep making these jokes

Blueberries0112 · 21/03/2021 23:54

Also, I wanted to point out , William saw his costume, and didn’t care and went to the party anyhow. He didn’t said “brother, your costume is wrong, change it . I can’t go to the party with your costume like that”

RubyViolet · 21/03/2021 23:55

@Blueberries0112

Also, I wanted to point out , William saw his costume, and didn’t care and went to the party anyhow. He didn’t said “brother, your costume is wrong, change it . I can’t go to the party with your costume like that”
How do you know this ? Where you there ???
Blueberries0112 · 22/03/2021 00:01

It’s common sense, if you know the party is bad , and you know what your brother wearing is bad, you don’t go

RubyViolet · 22/03/2021 00:09

Blueberries, l just can’t follow your logic. You weren’t there. You don’t know if William saw Harry’s disgusting costume or tried to dissuade him. You don’t know.
I am uncomfortable that you seem to be trying to defer responsibility from someone who thought is was a fun idea to wear a swastika.
I have nothing else to say on this.

Blueberries0112 · 22/03/2021 00:13

I am sure There are photos of William having a grand time with his brother at that party

dragonsmoke · 22/03/2021 07:30

Sorry if this has been mentioned before, I havent read the full thread but why say they got married 3 days before the public wedding if they knew that could be easily checked to be untrue?!

It just questions their credibility across the board for me.

Blueberries0112 · 22/03/2021 09:04

@dragonsmoke

Sorry if this has been mentioned before, I havent read the full thread but why say they got married 3 days before the public wedding if they knew that could be easily checked to be untrue?!

It just questions their credibility across the board for me.

It has been mentioned many times although some thread been deleted

In America, I got married in a garden with one witness and a pastor . I am legally married and have been for over 19 years.
Megan and Harry took their commitment to each other and To God in their heart on that day. Not everyone is Catholic nor follow the law of the land. A lot of my ancestors were married but they weren’t allowed to be married in a church because they black or native Americans. I have so many listed living together with no proof of marriage in a church

Meghan and Harry didn’t need over1,000 people to be married

SmidgenofaPigeon · 22/03/2021 09:11

@Blueberries0112 they got married in the U.K. Whatever rules and regulations there are surrounding American weddings is totally irrelevant Confused

Blueberries0112 · 22/03/2021 09:14

I guess you don’t get my point. Everyone keep focusing on law of the land and their own religion.

SmidgenofaPigeon · 22/03/2021 09:22

I think there are a few posters who are struggling to understand your points, if I’m honest.

reprehensibleme · 22/03/2021 09:27

So they were 'married' in the garden 3 days before the marriage at St George's Chapel but went ahead with the official wedding to placate the plebs who waited for hours to see them parade about in their carriage.

As said before on these threads I don't think anyone would have a problem if she'd said 'we has a private exchange of vows in the garden to make a special commitment to each other and considered ourselves married at that point' but she didn't - she made a big point of the 'secret wedding'.

The incidences you quote of people not being able to get married because of their situation (be it race/religion etc) but considering themselves married are totally different. Your own wedding was obviously a perfectly usual way of getting married. Harry and Meghan could have chosen a small intimate ceremony - I don't think there would have been any issue with that, especially given all the hoo ha with Megan's family. But they didn't. To then claim they were actually married 3 days before the wedding smacks a little of 'gotcha'.

Blueberries0112 · 22/03/2021 09:32

Yes, just because Meghan Harry made a vow to each other and to God on UK land doesn’t mean they aren’t married. If they confessed to everyone they are married that day, they probably are. Maybe not legally Just like ancestors did and they weren’t allowed to be married according to the laws of the land at that time.

They wanted to cherished their wedding vows together privately.

Blueberries0112 · 22/03/2021 09:38

Although there was a time my ex boyfriend and I made a private wedding vow to each other .
I never took it seriously because it was not legal nor done with a pastor but we did have a friend who was a witness. I just took it as semi-commitment? I don’t know. Anyway I broke up with him and to this day he still tell people he was married to me Confused people still asked about it so I had to tell them what exactly happened

derxa · 22/03/2021 09:38

They wanted to cherished their wedding vows together privately. Do you read a lot of Mills and Boon?