Judging by all the posts through the night there are a lot of Americans on here! Maybe the thing they don’t grasp is Harry is a prince and that is very different from being a self-made billionaire. Public money is used to fund the Royals and so there are rules over how it is spent. It’s different from its being their own money. In fact Harry was very annoyed about having to spend his “own” pot - the cash he inherited from Diana after she divorced.
Meghan would not have married him if he was a humble Harry Windsor, ex-Army officer. She does have a bad relationship with her own family. Plus she is an ex-actress and has spent her life seeking to become a celebrity.
Lots of Brits welcomed her with open arms initially - she was new and fresh, intelligent and articulate and a face of modernity. But she hardly got started before she had had enough! The statement at the beginning of last year over “Megxit” was very much along the lines of “Royal money is ours to spend as we wish”. That was the danger point, I think! Because most countries don’t have Royal families - we’ve kept ours because they are constitutional and there are boundaries and although there are exceedingly rich they are not too personally blingy and don’t rub our noses in it too much.
The relationship between the people and the monarchy is one of the points where there could be conflict. And because the monarchy “rules over us” we have a free press which can report on it.
I think the suspicion here is that Meghan targeted Harry because she wanted fame and fortune and chose to say she didn’t understand about Royalty.
Meghan must have felt very low if she said so, but I just don’t believe she couldn’t seek treatment. She could just walk out of Kensington Palace if she wished and be in the heart of London. Diana used to do it and take her boys to McDonalds, Harry and Wills were regular at all nightclubs locally back in the day. Meghan must have a computer and phone and could surely contact people? She still had her own funds and bank accounts and must have had a way of getting herself help?