I think the whole family has probably had to tread on eggshells with Harry for most of his life. I think he is probably very quickly to take offence and to assume negative intentions. It’s not surprising, given he was always going to be second fiddle to William, whose star would always bring the ascendant as his, due to succession would always be in decline. Pre-Meghan they could probably manage Harry to a certain degree - by pandering to him and by protecting him from the press. Constantly talking him down.
I think Meghan provided the validation he was looking for, encouraging the paranoia and feeding it.
I absolutely agree with this. Contrary to royal tradition, Diana apparently brought the boys up the as equals rather than managing both boys expectations. Harry is a result of this childhood coupled with his not being able to get past his mother dying so young. He seems to have turned into an angry and begrudging man. Perhaps more recently, vindictive. He definitely has found the perfect wife to feed his appetite for revenge. They are perhaps more similar than I had realised. For him, the royal family is everything she is not.
Diana was only 36 when she died. She was only then really coming into her own. It would have been interesting to see how she had developed. In a way, MM, now 38, is starting age wise where Diana left off. According to MM, she met Harry shortly before she turned 35.
This is the timeline for anyone interested. It appears they dated for a couple of years. www.ajc.com/entertainment/celebrity-news/prince-harry-and-meghan-markle-relationship-timeline/YOoadcrxmfwcW3HBcnCdBK/ I also took a screenshot of a palace statement dated shortly after they met. Both this statement and the statement at the end of the timeline, which finishes on the announcement to sue the MoS emphases PH does not like the intrusion on his home and family life. Looks like he has a lot to get used to then. There is going to be a lot of push / pull between them. And as we know, what Meghan wants, she gets.
I was speaking to dh yesterday. He said he’d read article about the types of properties they are viewing. According to a former SS agent (or similar), apparently they’re wholly unsuitable due to the lack of security and the person predicted if they bought anything, they’d be selling it 6 months later and buying something in a secure compound. I can’t find the article. But thought it ironic they cannot even take advice when it comes to the safety of their child.