I don’t think the way some in the media have treated M would have gone unchallenged for so long in America. Case in point PM shouting ‘go back to America’, whilst another presenter called her ‘uppity’ and you had people defending this. There were countless stories alluding to her being controlling, demanding and breaking royal protocol, to me this was just like nit picking.
Meghan had the disadvantage of not being a POC who was born and bread here, otherwise like some of us she would have been able to know how to navigate ‘white spaces’ and realised that what some of the tabloids were doing to her would have been no surprise to a POC here. I find that for some minorities in the U.K. it’s better to be quite passive. Keep your head down even in the face of unfairness. The is fear is being labelled as having a big chip on their shoulders or playing the race card whatever that means🤷♂️
It’s often fruitless to debate biases in the U.K, it can become exhausting isolating and frustrating. I remember Raheem Sterling and Stormzy being brave enough to talk about this. The onslaught of abuse they got was demoralising. I don’t think even if H & M had stayed things would have gotten better( of course I may be wrong). It is my belief that she was never going to be good enough for the tabloids. Wether the massive tabloid scrutiny was driven by biases or profits we don’t know.
Of course in America there is bound to be initial interest in them, and some of it may be negative. But I believe at least some of the stuff that crosses the line will be challenged better. Michelle Obama was defended in the mainstream press as well as online bogs from attacks on her person by right wing groups, presenters etc. I’m aware M is not Michelle Obama , they are totally different people but my point stands. To me there was no difference in how she carried her duties to Kate, she showed up each time and did what was expected of her in her role. I get that some people would be more aware of royal protocol like opening car doors, wearing tights or crossing/ not crossing legs. But why was all the breaking of this protocol deemed awful when she did yet some in RF would have at one point or another done the same?.