I am totally fascinated by the whole thing - I couldn’t possibly analyse it to this level to an actual person and I find most other posters’ takes on it very interesting. I too can’t see the way it has come to this;
full on adoration across every national paper, endless talk of the Markle Sparkle, then slowly the Marie Antoinette approach to the clothing budget (so rarely British labels - pick a French label for your wedding dress whydontcha), hiding your baby and lying about giving birth - this only upset fans of H&M, it just played right into the hands of the critics, then complaining in a documentary at a point when criticism had fallen away completely after a successful Africa tour. They had totally nailed it then sent a PR wrecking ball at it by making it all about how awful poor Meghan’s life is.
Lengthy holiday at taxpayers’ expense (fine actually - she didn’t have a massive mat leave), then come out and kick the Queen in the teeth by ignoring her request to sort out the details of their new role in private before releasing details.
Put website up with grandiose statements and ludicrous vernacular, backtrack repeatedly as the Palace point out the details needed thrashing out privately for a reason - reason being, the taxpayer has been pissed off a LOT.
Now they’re all “oh we want to support military causes and homeless people” - but they could have done that beautifully if she hadn’t just chucked it all in, in a flounce! It is barking mad. Bad press rolls into good ALWAYS - look at Camilla! She had so much worse for years and years and years. Now she’s practically a national treasure!
MM didn’t deserve all the negative press she got - I don’t care about her badly fitting clothes - though I despaired of her constantly not picking British labels as it really does help them to be showcased like that. I don’t mind bump touching or teeth or anything about looks etc. I think Harry is loyal and loves her and she wanted to go back to Canada and he is backing her to the hilt. As any good husband would do for their unhappy wife.
But she could have tried a bit harder. She really good. And all the last three months and the EGO of it has been so unattractive. They’re on the defensive and it could have been so different. They could have worked hard and played hard and really represented the Queen across the Commonwealth bringing attention to causes that are close to them.
Or they could have quietly retreated to a lovely country estate and had a fantastic private family life on his £30m and pitched up like Zara at the odd event.
It’s a crying shame, and frankly, I am gripped by it! I love a royal biography etc so am reasonably interested anyway but their behaviour and statements and actions are gobsmacking. So I love this thread - mostly. I scroll on by the personal insults towards either of them as I don’t want to get bogged down in whether she looks good (she looks excellent a lot of the time) or conspiracy nonsense but they give out plenty of material for discussion.