Please can you delete this thread that I started as one of the posts is very outing or at least delete the post, i did report it but its still there [[https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5097114-first-date-is-this-not-a-bit-weird-of-him?reply=136030402 https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5097114-first-date-is-this-not-a-bit-weird-of-him?reply=136030402]]