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Cat has just come home with a collar on!

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kirinm · 04/10/2024 22:19

My cat has just come in with a collar on. She doesn't have a collar. I feel like someone is trying to claim her. What are we meant to do to signal that she has a home?

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Esgaroth · 04/10/2024 23:38

God people are being so unpleasant.

OP I hope you find out who put it on and can let them know it's your cat. You're not doing anything wrong.

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:39

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:37

😂😂😂 cats can roam, doesn’t mean you should feed them.

I wouldn't. I would hand it in as a stray at a shelter if found in my garden or inside my house.

workplaceshenanigans · 04/10/2024 23:42

MumChp · 04/10/2024 22:53

How is law? In some countries the law says you need to keep your cat in your grounds. Just curious.

In the UK, cats have the legal right to roam.

hth

TheShellBeach · 04/10/2024 23:42

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:08

Not true.

Of course it's true.
I don't know a single cat owner who accompanies her cat here, there and everywhere.

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:43

TheShellBeach · 04/10/2024 23:42

Of course it's true.
I don't know a single cat owner who accompanies her cat here, there and everywhere.

Okay. If you know all cat owners...

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:43

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:39

I wouldn't. I would hand it in as a stray at a shelter if found in my garden or inside my house.

Then you’re a bit weird. Cats in your garden are not stray, they are cats being cats. Don’t want them there, I guess you can chase them off, but why waste the time of a shelter by handing in a cat that just lives locally and was hanging out in your garden? You know they hang out then go home again right? They are territorial and set up their own territory (which might include your garden). Cat owners can’t give them a map 😂🙄

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:44

workplaceshenanigans · 04/10/2024 23:42

In the UK, cats have the legal right to roam.

hth

I don't care if it poos in my garden or walk into my house. It's handed over to a shelter.

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 04/10/2024 23:44

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:39

I wouldn't. I would hand it in as a stray at a shelter if found in my garden or inside my house.

Yes. As an adult I have done this twice now. The first cat was definitely rehomed as an indoor cat. The second cat was just taken to a shelter as I didn’t have the time or money to find somewhere to guarantee its care.

ReadWithScepticism · 04/10/2024 23:46

I'm amazed at all the people saying that cats shouldn't be allowed to roam. If someone chooses to keep an indoor cat, fine. But it is quite odd to be so judgemental about people who make a different choice. Cats have always roamed. Surely it is the default way of keeping a cat?

I haven't got a cat and, yes, sometimes other people's cats are annoying. They occasionally poo in the garden and I guess they kill birds. But sometimes my human neighbours are annoying too (in different ways admittedly). Live and let live! Tolerate small nuisances in the hope that others will be similarly kind when you or your pets or children cause a small nuisance

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:46

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:43

Then you’re a bit weird. Cats in your garden are not stray, they are cats being cats. Don’t want them there, I guess you can chase them off, but why waste the time of a shelter by handing in a cat that just lives locally and was hanging out in your garden? You know they hang out then go home again right? They are territorial and set up their own territory (which might include your garden). Cat owners can’t give them a map 😂🙄

I don't care. If you care about your pet don't let it destroy or enter my property.

MonsteraMama · 04/10/2024 23:47

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:44

I don't care if it poos in my garden or walk into my house. It's handed over to a shelter.

Mate can you not. Shelters are overloaded and understaffed as it is without having to deal with meddling busybodies like you handing in perfectly fine, owned cats who happened to wander into your fecking garden.

If you don't like cats roaming, either cat proof your garden or move somewhere where they're not allowed to.

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:47

MumChp · 04/10/2024 22:53

How is law? In some countries the law says you need to keep your cat in your grounds. Just curious.

Which countries have these laws? Curious as a quick google didn’t find any.

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:48

MonsteraMama · 04/10/2024 23:47

Mate can you not. Shelters are overloaded and understaffed as it is without having to deal with meddling busybodies like you handing in perfectly fine, owned cats who happened to wander into your fecking garden.

If you don't like cats roaming, either cat proof your garden or move somewhere where they're not allowed to.

Owners can catproof their garden or take the risk of other people not wanting them in their gardens and houses. Cat owners choice.

BitOutOfPractice · 04/10/2024 23:49

kirinm · 04/10/2024 22:40

She's caught a few mice (never killed them) but she's never caught a bird or anything like that.

Not in your garden maybe…

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:49

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:47

Which countries have these laws? Curious as a quick google didn’t find any.

Denmark is one. My native country.

TeamPlaying · 04/10/2024 23:49

TheShellBeach · 04/10/2024 23:42

Of course it's true.
I don't know a single cat owner who accompanies her cat here, there and everywhere.

Yes, the default in the UK is that cats are allowed to roam, but there are plenty of indoor only (or catio) cats around - I’ve seen estimates of 10-25%. Just because you don’t know these cats doesn’t mean they don’t exist!

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:50

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:46

I don't care. If you care about your pet don't let it destroy or enter my property.

You don’t understand uk law on this then. Whether you care or not is beside the point, the law isn’t on your side here. (Full disclosure, I don’t own a cat but if I did I would care for them as advised by animal welfare experts and not by you.)

ReadWithScepticism · 04/10/2024 23:50

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:39

I wouldn't. I would hand it in as a stray at a shelter if found in my garden or inside my house.

Wow. All the times cats come into my garden to stare at the fish in my pond and fantasise about murder I have never ONCE thought of kidnapping them and lying about them at a (probably overstretched) shelter.

(I have only worried that there might be fisticuffs with my dog.)

MonsteraMama · 04/10/2024 23:50

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:48

Owners can catproof their garden or take the risk of other people not wanting them in their gardens and houses. Cat owners choice.

That doesn't solve the problem of you taking cats to a shelter unnecessarily though does it.

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:51

ReadWithScepticism · 04/10/2024 23:50

Wow. All the times cats come into my garden to stare at the fish in my pond and fantasise about murder I have never ONCE thought of kidnapping them and lying about them at a (probably overstretched) shelter.

(I have only worried that there might be fisticuffs with my dog.)

I am amusing myself imagining the poster chasing the cat around her garden just to catch it and prove her point.

RenoDakota · 04/10/2024 23:51

MumChp · 04/10/2024 22:41

Tbh how do you know if your cat walks around without supervision?

Supervision? Of a cat? I have really heard it all now.

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:51

ReadWithScepticism · 04/10/2024 23:50

Wow. All the times cats come into my garden to stare at the fish in my pond and fantasise about murder I have never ONCE thought of kidnapping them and lying about them at a (probably overstretched) shelter.

(I have only worried that there might be fisticuffs with my dog.)

I don't lie. Since it lingers at my garden and enters my house it's most likely lost.

MumChp · 04/10/2024 23:55

MonsteraMama · 04/10/2024 23:50

That doesn't solve the problem of you taking cats to a shelter unnecessarily though does it.

It's not in my garden or house. Which is the point.

I have no wish having random cats (or dogs, children or other uninvinted guests) lingering around. They are not welcome to hang out. A lot of cats seem to think every garden or house is a free place of theirs.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 04/10/2024 23:57

Well it is to them. How are they going to know 🙄

BitOutOfPractice · 04/10/2024 23:57

It’s not “nature” though is it, when cats kill so many birds and small Mammals because it’s not “nature” for the uk to be home to so many millions (10+ million) of cats. They are here in such numbers by dint of pet ownership. It’s not “nature”. It’s human intervention and they Kill hundreds of millions of animals a year.

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