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Cat has just come home with a collar on!

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kirinm · 04/10/2024 22:19

My cat has just come in with a collar on. She doesn't have a collar. I feel like someone is trying to claim her. What are we meant to do to signal that she has a home?

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Runnerinthenight · 05/10/2024 01:08

ForGreyKoala · 05/10/2024 01:05

Once again, someone who knows little about cats. Most cats like to take their kills home to proudly show their owners. I have had numerous cats over the years, and they've all done this.

Yes, I have had in the past three cats who had outdoor access, and none of three of them ever killed birds! In fact our last boy was so little of a threat that the birds ignored him when congregating the garden and availing of the feeding stations!

oakleaffy · 05/10/2024 01:08

ForGreyKoala · 05/10/2024 01:02

Please tell me how it is responsible to have pet insurance, but not responsible to actually pay the vet fees from your own money - you idiot!

I don't live in the UK, your vet fees look to be far in excess of what we pay here. I had five cats at one time, if I had insured them all over the many years I had them I would have paid more in premiums than what I ever did in vet bills, they were rarely ill. The first one had surgery at a time before pet insurance was a thing, and the others didn't need care until they were at the end of their lives.

Vet insurance is a real pain.
The premiums are high, but I worry in case of accidents ( I have a dog)

Dogs attacking is a real worry as so many idiots can’t or won’t train their dogs.

Vets fees have risen massively over 20 years in U.K. partly due to massive chains buying up the little independent practices and creating a cartel.

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:09

TeenLifeMum · 04/10/2024 23:50

You don’t understand uk law on this then. Whether you care or not is beside the point, the law isn’t on your side here. (Full disclosure, I don’t own a cat but if I did I would care for them as advised by animal welfare experts and not by you.)

Cats having the right to roam doesn't preclude people from taking cats without collars to a shelter, and if those cats are not microchipped, they will be rehomed. If you believe a cat is a stray, you can hand it in to a rescue organisation. Personally, if I see cats entering my garden, I just go outside and push them off the fence or throw a bucket of water over them.

Lightdarkshade · 05/10/2024 01:10

get one of those collars where you unscrew and slip in paper. Then write this is my cat leave it alone. I used to slip message into some cats collar

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:11

Please tell me how it is responsible to have pet insurance, but not responsible to actually pay the vet fees from your own money - you idiot!

Name calling is not allowed on MN but as your lack of understanding of why one would take out insurance is indicative of your intellect I Will let it go.

The purpose of insurance is to safeguard your pet in the event the owner doesn’t have enough money to pay necessary bills. All responsible pet owners should have insurance. You had it when you needed it. However less than 10% of pet owners have insurance in the UK, hence your earlier post about the cost of cat insurance is irrelevant.

Runnerinthenight · 05/10/2024 01:11

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:09

Cats having the right to roam doesn't preclude people from taking cats without collars to a shelter, and if those cats are not microchipped, they will be rehomed. If you believe a cat is a stray, you can hand it in to a rescue organisation. Personally, if I see cats entering my garden, I just go outside and push them off the fence or throw a bucket of water over them.

Horrible! I love when random cats visit my garden!!

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:12

kirinm · 04/10/2024 22:19

My cat has just come in with a collar on. She doesn't have a collar. I feel like someone is trying to claim her. What are we meant to do to signal that she has a home?

Collars can be really dangerous. https://www.london-inner-city-kitties.org/post/why-collars-can-be-dangerous-for-cats

In your situation, I would put a paper collar on the cat with a message for the people interfering with your cat.

Why collars can be dangerous for cats

The dangers of collars: Whilst this can help, there are a few dangers that come with collars to consider.

https://www.london-inner-city-kitties.org/post/why-collars-can-be-dangerous-for-cats

Runnerinthenight · 05/10/2024 01:13

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:09

Cats having the right to roam doesn't preclude people from taking cats without collars to a shelter, and if those cats are not microchipped, they will be rehomed. If you believe a cat is a stray, you can hand it in to a rescue organisation. Personally, if I see cats entering my garden, I just go outside and push them off the fence or throw a bucket of water over them.

I can't stand cat haters!

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:13

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:09

Cats having the right to roam doesn't preclude people from taking cats without collars to a shelter, and if those cats are not microchipped, they will be rehomed. If you believe a cat is a stray, you can hand it in to a rescue organisation. Personally, if I see cats entering my garden, I just go outside and push them off the fence or throw a bucket of water over them.

You sound lovely.

Runnerinthenight · 05/10/2024 01:14

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:13

You sound lovely.

Hateful!

MooseBeTimeForSnow · 05/10/2024 01:14

In this bit of Alberta cats must be leashed if outside, otherwise they are considered “at large” and can be impounded. Mind you, with wolves and coyotes and lynx about, they aren’t top predator here.

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:15

Runnerinthenight · 05/10/2024 01:11

Horrible! I love when random cats visit my garden!!

I know someone who keeps a pile of stones to throw at visiting cats. Either cat owners don’t care because out of sight is out of mind or they are actually insane to let them roam.

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:17

ForGreyKoala · 05/10/2024 01:05

Once again, someone who knows little about cats. Most cats like to take their kills home to proudly show their owners. I have had numerous cats over the years, and they've all done this.

Okay - you still can't say for sure that the things they are showing you are all they're killing unless you watch them or have a camera mounted on them. It's not unthinkable that a neighbour may have seen them preying on birds (maybe unsucessfully) and thought they needed a bell to protect the wildlife.

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:19

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:15

I know someone who keeps a pile of stones to throw at visiting cats. Either cat owners don’t care because out of sight is out of mind or they are actually insane to let them roam.

Then, if your acquaintance is UK based, they will face prosecution for animal cruelty if they deliberately injure a cat.

Are you USA?

PuttingOnTheKitsch · 05/10/2024 01:20

I cannot believe there are so many cat haters and cat owner haters on the litter tray!

As for someone claiming dog owners are more caring?! Many dogs are poorly bred (look at pugs!) and live miserable lives of limited stimulation and exercise.

I am neutral on the outdoor/indoor cat debate, I've had both in different circumstances and both were happy. I do only let my current cat out during daylight hours and that is recommended for reducing the risk of death on the roads and harm to wildlife.

Also can't believe the people claiming to not know the difference between a stray and a friendly cat/Six Dinner Sid.

OP someone is trying to steal your cat. You have my sympathies and I would recommend a paper collar.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 05/10/2024 01:21

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 04/10/2024 22:47

Keep her in.

When I was a kid, we took in what we thought was a stray cat. She was lovely but liked to roam. She came in every evening for her dinner. We named her and had her in our house for a few years. Imagine our surprise when a neighbour happened to be in our house and exclaimed that her cat was in our house. Neighbour had also been feeding the cat and the cat lived between both houses.

If they had cared about her that much, they should have kept her in.

Nonsense. It's not kind to deny a outdoor access.

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:21

Runnerinthenight · 05/10/2024 01:11

Horrible! I love when random cats visit my garden!!

My next door neighbour whose garden is seperated from mine with a 4 foot fence has a cat who considers my garden to be part of his domain, he is very small and feeble and is usually attacked by invading cats, so I have to dispatch them swiftly when I see them to stop him being bullied. If he wasn't a factor I think I would still do it however, cats weeing and pooing in my garden isn't pleasant, if their owners just put a trellis up on their fence they could keep all of that joy for themselves.

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:23

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:19

Then, if your acquaintance is UK based, they will face prosecution for animal cruelty if they deliberately injure a cat.

Are you USA?

They are in the UK. And they have done this for many, many, many years to their (presumably) neighbour’s cats. They have asked neighbour’s to keep their cats in their own garden but neighbours believe in their right to roam. Presume their aim isn’t as good these days as they are quite old now. Never been prosecuted.

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:26

MooseBeTimeForSnow · 05/10/2024 01:14

In this bit of Alberta cats must be leashed if outside, otherwise they are considered “at large” and can be impounded. Mind you, with wolves and coyotes and lynx about, they aren’t top predator here.

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Geppili · 05/10/2024 01:27

Fit her up with a Go Pro and get evidence!

RogueFemale · 05/10/2024 01:27

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:23

They are in the UK. And they have done this for many, many, many years to their (presumably) neighbour’s cats. They have asked neighbour’s to keep their cats in their own garden but neighbours believe in their right to roam. Presume their aim isn’t as good these days as they are quite old now. Never been prosecuted.

If they were my neighbours I'd be reporting them to the police.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 05/10/2024 01:28

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:00

I feel you are missing the point of that post. If you have an indoor cat, you can say it doesn't kill birds as it never has the opportunity. If your cat free roams, you cannot claim it doesn't kill birds because you are not supervising it while it has the opportunity to kill birds.

Cats bring their catches home.

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:28

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:23

They are in the UK. And they have done this for many, many, many years to their (presumably) neighbour’s cats. They have asked neighbour’s to keep their cats in their own garden but neighbours believe in their right to roam. Presume their aim isn’t as good these days as they are quite old now. Never been prosecuted.

If the police and CPS were wasting time investigating and prosecuting cats having pebbles thrown at them, presumably mostly hitting the ground around them to startle them into leaving, I would hope there would be public outcry. Cats have the right to roam, I have the right to deter them in any way which doesn't constitute cruelty. Throwing gravel is probably not deterrent enough, which is why I prefer the bucket of water, or trench whistle, which I keep by my back door.

OptimisticMermaid · 05/10/2024 01:33

My wee cat cant keep a collar on. His instinct is to go out hunting at night. It’s just in his nature. He’s so adorable apart from that.

Grabyourpassportandmyhand · 05/10/2024 01:33

batt3nb3rg · 05/10/2024 01:28

If the police and CPS were wasting time investigating and prosecuting cats having pebbles thrown at them, presumably mostly hitting the ground around them to startle them into leaving, I would hope there would be public outcry. Cats have the right to roam, I have the right to deter them in any way which doesn't constitute cruelty. Throwing gravel is probably not deterrent enough, which is why I prefer the bucket of water, or trench whistle, which I keep by my back door.

I agree.

Not gravel though, bigger stones. Thrown to hit the animal. Had tried many times to talk to neighbour about keeping them
in but neighbour refused.

Personally I’d prefer (and have) borrowed a cat carrier and taken to a shelter.

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