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My darling boy killed in rta today

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Bialystockandbloom · 04/02/2023 21:57

I'm so devastated, we all are. He was only 15 months old, and he was my absolute baby. The most loving and soppy and beautiful cat, not very bright, would curl into me under my arm and under the duvet every night like a purring hot water bottle. Beautiful russian blue boy with big chunky paws and an industrially loud purr.

we had cat proofed the whole garden and the neighbours so he and his sister couldn't get into the front, but he found a way over a high gate about 5 houses up. Over the last few weeks we'd found him a few times sitting wailing on the front doorstep. But this time he'd tried to cross the road. A neighbour saw it happen, a van sped down the road, hit him and didn't stop. Only small mercy was it was instant, and the only sign was a bit of bleeding from his nose. My poor darling little boy. I've had cats all my life, but he was the most special one ever. He made friends with everyone, used to go into all the neighbours houses and make himself at home.

my children are devastated. He has a sister, I don't know how she's going to be without him. I'm kicking myself we hadn't realised he was out in the front, and that we hadn't asked the neighbour to block off his gate. All the what-ifs.

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Bialystockandbloom · 04/02/2023 22:01

Him on my lap just yesterday

My darling boy killed in rta today
My darling boy killed in rta today
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MyBloodyMaryneedsmoreTabasco · 04/02/2023 22:04

I'm so sorry. This happened to me last year and it's devastating. Your boy was so beautiful Flowers

catlovingdoctor · 04/02/2023 22:05

So, so sorry for your loss. He is beautiful and will be missed.
You gave him a wonderful life. He was so loving because he was so happy with you x

Johnduttonsbuttocks · 04/02/2023 22:06

I'm so sorry - he was gorgeus.

Having been through this, all I can say was grieve as heartily as you need to. They are as important to us as humans. 💐

Neverknowinglysensible · 04/02/2023 22:06

I’m so sorry. 💐

supiciousminds · 04/02/2023 22:08

I'm so sorry Flowers

Bialystockandbloom · 04/02/2023 22:08

Thank you. I just can't believe it has happened and can't stop crying. He was the runt of the litter and I had to feed him with a tiny syringe when we first got him as he didn't eat but once he'd discovered his appetite he grew into a beautiful big boy but don't think he realised how big he was. He'd plump himself on my lap then look surprised when he slipped off because he was too big.

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goldennotyetoldie · 04/02/2023 22:09

Heartbreaking

We've lost 3 to the road over the years. It's so sad.

Your boy looked absolutely beautiful

tortiecat · 04/02/2023 22:10

What an absolutely beautiful, precious boy. I am so sorry for your loss Flowers

RosesAndHellebores · 04/02/2023 22:10
Flowers
Bialystockandbloom · 04/02/2023 22:10

Thank you all so much, you're all very kind. I haven't been on mumsnet for years but just needed to talk about him. So heartbroken.

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Toomanybooks22 · 04/02/2023 22:11

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been through it too, I know how heartbreaking it is. 

Ludo19 · 04/02/2023 22:50

So very sorry for your loss. He was a beautiful boy, so much harder when you lose them young.

notsosoftanymore · 04/02/2023 23:05

Bloody van drivers. Really sorry for your loss, been there, it really hurts, so sad. 💐

Whoknowswhatanymore · 04/02/2023 23:12

So sorry for your loss. This happened to our beautiful maine coon boy when everything opened up again after the lockdown in 2020. Sadly, we never got to see him but it was probably for the best. We now have two maine coon sisters and they are indoor cats as we just can’t bare to lose them to the road. They have an outdoor Catio that we built off one of our patio doors with bridges and shelves that they can climb on so can still be outdoors but in a controlled environment. They are happy enough. I honestly know what you’re going through and it’s so heartbreaking. Wishing you much love ❤️

MerylSqueak · 04/02/2023 23:14

I'm very sorry about you lovely cat. Similar happened to my grey boy last year. I loved him so much.

We have his litter mate sister too.

She's happy. In fact I hate to say I but she's happier.

SlipSlidinAway · 04/02/2023 23:14

So sorry for your loss. We've also had 2 cats killed on the road in recent years. Quiet road so I think they got used to being able to stroll about without any problems. Teenage DS found one of the cats dead by the side of the road on his way to school which was very distressing for him.

Findyourneutralspace · 04/02/2023 23:18

I’m so sorry for you. We lost our little boy blue around the same age in the same way. My heart still breaks over him. You must be devastated. What a beautiful boy he was 💐

FenghuangHoyan · 04/02/2023 23:27

Really sorry to hear this. I'd be devastated too.

I've panicked in the past when our house cats have got out by mistake or have disappeared into a cupboard in the house. I'd be distraught if I lost either. Sorry.

badgergirly · 04/02/2023 23:32

Sending love 💙

middleager · 04/02/2023 23:40

I'm so sorry for your loss, he was a beauty.

I lost my 2-year-old boy to the road and so I know the devastation and pain you will be feeling.

Nsky62 · 04/02/2023 23:48

I’ve just my girl on Thursday heart failure( 13) it’s awful losing them, she was my one and only

PaleGreenFrontDoor · 04/02/2023 23:52

💐

hockeysticks89 · 04/02/2023 23:55

So sorry, thinking of you xx

Igmum · 04/02/2023 23:56

So sorry for your loss 💐 he is such a beautiful boy

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