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I think I've officially adopted him now.. or he's adopted me?!

56 replies

StillMedusa · 26/02/2021 18:47

Our street has been feeding a stray for about 3 years..maybe more, now. When he first appeared he was a skinny, unwell entire male.
Gradually he got less skinny, and I managed to flea treat him, but he stayed outside at all times..til he got really unwell and I caught him, took him to the vets..no chip...had him patched up and neutered.
He still wouldn't come in so we made him a hutch and he started sleeping in that. Eventually he started coming into the hall, then the kitchen.
Then 3 weeks ago, I opened the door, he marched in, snuggled up on the sofa and stayed!
Since then he's been on the sofa..or my lap!!!! He bites, he is terrified of house noises and he likes to swipe the dog (who has taken it in her stride!) but he is also very affectionate.

Last night I went to bed, the dog came with me as usual..she sleeps on the floor. At 1am I stirred, rolled over and discovered said cat.. IN my bed..between dh and me !!!!!!!!!! When I moved a little he purred.

I think he's our cat now?!

I took him for a check up tonight (he didn't like that!) as I thought his teeth looked iffy, and yes he needs a dental. Vet thinks he's about 8 years old, and bless her refused to charge me for the consult. He's also slightly overweight now...not surprising as he has a 'desperate for any food' mentality.

His name is now officially Sebastian :) and he likes my heated throw Grin Isn't he beautiful? From skeletal scabby and flea ridden to plump beastie!

I think I've officially adopted him now.. or he's adopted me?!
OP posts:
Fluffycloudland77 · 26/02/2021 18:51

He IS beautiful, he’ll be eating even more when his teeth aren’t sore.

You needed a strong willed cat though now Portia isn’t there to run the house.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 26/02/2021 19:01

There really is something very special about cats who choose you. Brilliant news Grin

ofwarren · 26/02/2021 19:05

Awww, lovely story and a really lovely cat

Doggotired · 26/02/2021 19:10

He’s looking very smug there 😊 so lovely he’s picked you

thecatneuterer · 26/02/2021 19:11

That's a lovely story. He's a lucky boy to have found you.

FurrySlipperBoots · 26/02/2021 19:14

Awww, bless him! Lucky kitkat to have found his hoomin at last! Enjoy him!

WTF99 · 26/02/2021 19:14

He looks regal! You are very fortunate to have been chosen Grin

Snowymcsnowsony · 26/02/2021 19:17

A purrfect ending!!

Wanderlusto · 26/02/2021 19:20

Definately looks like a sebastian.
Congrats on becoming a cat mummy.

violetbunny · 26/02/2021 19:32

Yay! This warms my heart 💕

FoffeeCoffee · 26/02/2021 19:35

Yep, that's your cat now! Such a beautiful cat.

Congratulations!

Firkinhavinalaugh · 26/02/2021 19:37

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Wolfiefan · 26/02/2021 19:37

He’s not your cat.
You’re his staff. He’s spent ages training you just right!
Lovely story and a handsome boy.

swampytiggaa · 26/02/2021 19:38

💕 how lovely!

FoffeeCoffee · 26/02/2021 19:38

Yes, maybe a Sebastian.

Or James. He looks like a Bond cat.

He definitely needs a sophisticated name for a tuxedo boy. I love a happy ending.

We ended up adopting our big ginger chunk because nobody else wanted him, he was a bit of a dick at the time. But we invested the time and love and now after 5 years he's our big purring chunk of love. Strays and rehomed cats are so worth it.

HighHeelBoots · 26/02/2021 19:39

He's very handsome. I love the little splodge on his nose 🐈‍⬛❤

GigantosaurusRex · 26/02/2021 19:41

Yep, you've definitely been chosen. Prepare to cater to his every whim from now on!

TheChampagneGalop · 26/02/2021 19:44

Congratulations! Post more photos please.

Cliffdonville · 26/02/2021 19:47

Ah this has made me really happy

KarensChoppyBob · 26/02/2021 19:48

Your Sebastian is very beautiful and also very clever as he found you 😸.

Ellmau · 26/02/2021 19:53

Sebastian is very handsome.

GenuineKlatchianPottery · 26/02/2021 19:55

I’m not crying, you’re crying.
There’s something in my eye, that’s all.
It’s the onions, someone’s peeling onions.
Is it smoky in here?
Congratulations on your serfdom OP. Flowers

extentioncord · 26/02/2021 19:56

You deserve this cat so much. Thank you fair neutering him even when he wasn't yours

TableNiner · 26/02/2021 20:03

Love this! He trusts you now

EarringsandLipstick · 26/02/2021 20:05

I am the least cat person in the whole world, but I ❤️ this story.

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