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Anyone else have a non cuddly cat?

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QueenOfIce · 27/02/2018 00:59

I read all these lovely stories about cats who love to snuggle, neither of mine do unless you're in bed. Girl cat will come to bed with us and curl up in any available space between your legs, behind knees..boy cat will once in a blue moon lie on your lap for all of 5 mins then bugger off again.

They're both quite affectionate but they don't snuggle, I have cat cuddle envy anyone else have cats who just don't give a shit about how much you love them or want a cuddle?

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QueenOfIce · 27/02/2018 12:17

Oh Honky she is so bloody gorgeous I would have the serious grump if she denied me cuddles!

I keep saying to dh I want another cat one that luffs me obviously I won't do that.

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HonkyWonkWoman · 27/02/2018 12:25

She luffs me in her own special way! 😹

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QueenOfIce · 27/02/2018 12:31

Mine loves me between the hours of 3 and 5am, she somehow manages to curl herself up between my legs so much so I wake up thinking I'm giving birth! I'm a side sleeper so I have no idea how she does it! I wake up all contorted and achy but she looks so small and cute and as it's the only love I get. I am the epitome of cat slave!

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Icequeen01 · 27/02/2018 17:21

Ive got 2 brothers. One is a cuddle bunny (when he's in but he spends much of his day in the fields) and the other has never sat on my lap but will set next to me on the arm of the chair. He is a real home bird and rarely goes out! Here is a photo of my cuddly boy with DH.

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lljkk · 27/02/2018 17:42

2 of our cats we had for 5 yrs before they became cuddly (suddenly).

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HonkyWonkWoman · 27/02/2018 17:57

Icequeen01
Is Cuddle Bunny waving to us as well?
Grrrrr! Cuddle envy!

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Icequeen01 · 27/02/2018 18:30

Yes HonkyWonkWoman, he knows how to win over the ladies

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Oldraver · 27/02/2018 19:59

Queen Ernie also loved to try and eta the lights and Christmas tree decorations...

He' not very cuddly..will sleep on the bed between my legs and will occasionally now come and snuggle next to you on the sofa

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Oldraver · 27/02/2018 20:00

Ermm..I didnt mean to post that picture lol

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moofeatures · 27/02/2018 20:02

Mine is called Jaws... for a blog day good reason!

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Bridechilla · 27/02/2018 20:06

Mine isn't a lap cat 😫 but he can be so affectionate. He's a rescue who's had a tough time so I'm hoping we can thaw him out gradually.