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cozietoesie · 29/03/2017 17:42

......will one day falter.

I'm afraid that Seniorboy died late this afternoon. At the vet's. I have some very very fine whisky waiting to salute him with and I am just going to go and light a candle for him. I probably won't be around for a few days - or if I am, you'll have to bear with some rather tipsy posting.

My Darling old lad.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/03/2017 12:06

How are you feeling today?.

cozietoesie · 30/03/2017 13:15

The hangover is distracting me to be honest.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/03/2017 13:36

That's the trouble with expensive alcohol, it fools you into thinking you can have one more.

Catches Dh out every Christmas and birthday.

Northumberlandlass · 30/03/2017 13:45

oh Cozie
I am so sorry. I shall light a candle for SeniorBoy tonight.
Sad

cozietoesie · 30/03/2017 13:54

Thanks, Northumberland. He was an extraordinarily formidable presence for a little cat. I keep being caught out - thinking 'I must do X, Y or Z' when I don't need to anymore.

(And the world's supply of Lick E Lix arrived on time, earlier. Gawd knows what I shall do with it. Grin)

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LanaorAna1 · 30/03/2017 14:44

There's nothing like a really filthy hangover to reset the brain, I find. Waiting it out is disgraceful but that's the work taking place.

Reow · 30/03/2017 15:07

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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/03/2017 19:47

It's the nights though, isn't it?.

cozietoesie · 30/03/2017 20:08

They're hard, Yes.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/03/2017 20:19

Are you having a ceremony for him?.

cozietoesie · 30/03/2017 20:51

No. Just my way.

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Fluffycloudland77 · 30/03/2017 20:58

We never did ceremony's either, they all got a burial.

The last surviving cat was literally ticking them off a spreadsheet.

cushioncovers · 30/03/2017 21:03

So sorry to hear you lost a fur baby 😰

cozietoesie · 30/03/2017 21:04

Thank you, cushion.

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hugoagogo · 30/03/2017 21:12

So sorry to hear of your loss. I will always remember your kindness when I lost my little cat to cancer a few years ago.Star

chemenger · 30/03/2017 21:24

So sorry to hear this, my mother's last cat outlived her by 15 years, when the cat went it did seem to close off something that linked us to her. He will leave a space that can never be filled, but the next one will carve out their own niche.

cozietoesie · 30/03/2017 23:58

The family are very glum but to their credit - and rather unexpectedly - they're leaving me alone on this one. Just as well too.

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RubbishMantra · 31/03/2017 01:15

Cozie, I'm so sorry to read you've lost your beautiful and elegant boy. I started crying when I read your post, and all the heartfelt posts following. I'm feeling extra grateful for my two tonight.

Wishing you strength.

cozietoesie · 31/03/2017 01:18

Thank you, Mantra. I'm mourning his loss but I don't regret that I intervened.

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isadorable · 31/03/2017 01:39

I toasted him in Laphroaig earlier. Sometimes, you just know there's only one thing to do. Right for them but desperately sad for you.

Broken11Girl · 31/03/2017 02:22

I'm sorry to hear that, he sounded amazing Flowers

Broken11Girl · 31/03/2017 02:24

You could donate the treats, any leftover food, etc to a local rescue when you're ready.

Toddlerteaplease · 31/03/2017 07:23

You did the right thing. But you already know that. It wouldn't have been fair on him to loose any of his (enormous) dignity. Toasted him with my latte and will light a candle for him tonight.

RubbishMantra · 31/03/2017 10:10

You did the best thing for your darling Seniorboy, by making that very difficult and kindest decision for your lad. He's very much loved, and always will be, even from us that weren't fortunate enough to know him. Thank goodness he had you.

I feel your pain, and am crying tears for your loss (again) this morning. [drippy nose] I've asked a certain person (you know who) to watch over SB. And they bloody will! Or else I'll beat them with a baguette about the head and ears one day!

LanaorAna1 · 31/03/2017 11:11

I don't think there's any harder doing-the-right-thing than that, but you did it Cozie, thank God - the last thing Seniorboy can thank you for.

Hope last night was a bit better than the one before.

We've had a Siamese-induced fiasco in Clapham. Everyone's piled in, the 200 residents of the flats, the gastropub, the guys who work in the tube, all the Czech ladies in Costa, etc.

Merlin, the vast clotted-cream coloured Siamese, is loving it. You may remember he was a stray (who I posted you about asking if you had any spare room).

Every morning for two years he has yowled for England on the garden wall, mewling his heart out with piteous hunger. My neighbour, the caretaker, the tube inspectors, any soft-hearted Claphamite, rushed downstairs to the garden bearing Felix.

Merlin took to arriving at 11 on the dot to see a queue of loyal servants. Bloodcurdling shrieks of joy at 11:01 daily (I used to know I would be late for work if I heard the Merlin siren). So far, so good.

Then Merlin got ill... rolled up looking really rough, fudgy cream fur covered in smuts. So he was taken in state to Battersea Dogs' up the road and treated, paid for at vast expense by my neighbour and her demented mother who are on benefits.

Battersea discovered Merlin was chipped. His home is a large villa in the next street. Battersea insisted on returning him to the villa, not the garden. That was last week. No sign Merlin. The community is livid.

Yesterday at 11:00 sharp the four-minute warning went off, and lo and behold it was elevenses in the garden again for a certain Siamese. Word went round like wildfire.

Merlin now has a series of bowls, regularly filled by London Transport operatives, and, er, a key to the flats.

It turns out that Merlin has been dining nightly at the gastropub - 20 quid for a burger - so he comes in after supper too now. He has a cushion in the caretakers' office and caretaker doesn't shut the main doors until Merlin is in for the night, snoring in the office which is heated to 90 degrees.

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