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Angry neighbour went for my cat - what to do?

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HaleyDunphy · 15/12/2013 14:14

Started letting my 3yo female cat out this week, as we've moved to a lovely area away from main roads with lots of greenery, so feel safe letting her out here.

She's very confident and she's really loving it - not going too far either which is reassuring for me. However I've just been outside watching her and she was perched on my bottom fence, looking into another garden. She climbed into one of the trees of the other garden (probably because there is a lot of bird activity in that garden). The man who lives there came out straight away, really angry and swearing. I went down to the bottom of the garden and saw her just sort of frozen and he went for her. She bolted back into my garden and even then he carried on swearing. I should have said something but I was a little shocked at how angry he sounded and just wanted to get her inside.

I'm guessing from the sounds of it he has bird feeders in his garden and I get why he would be defensive, but she does wear a bell so I'm not sure what else I can do? Any tips on that?

I've kept her in as I hate the thought of someone hurting her, but she really needs to go out as she's having a hard time with my other indoor cat. H says he will go round and just say that he's welcome to shoo her away but that it's not fair to be aggressive. I don't think it's going to make a difference to someone like that tbh. Is this just how it is with some people? I feel really awkward about it.

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NatureAdvocate · 15/12/2013 20:11

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Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:12

Thing is Jake there are some really weird people about. I have learnt from MN that some are very ignorant of cat behaviour in general.

NatureAdvocate · 15/12/2013 20:13

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JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:13

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Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:15

I can only guess that a cat did something really bad to Nature at some point to make them quite so ranty.

NatureAdvocate · 15/12/2013 20:16

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JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:17

As my cats are all indoor cats you are wasting your foul venom on me.

I personally think its bloody hilarious that your nickname is NatureAdvocate and yet you talk of killing animals. Strange and a bit scary.....didnt Ted Bundy start out killing animalsHmm ?

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:18

Can't be arsed to read all that, just tell us what your beef is Nature.

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:18

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NatureAdvocate · 15/12/2013 20:19

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thecatneuterer · 15/12/2013 20:19

Gosh. What a sane and lovely person has deigned to grace our board with their delightful presence Grin

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:19

Yep. For the unclickable links if nothing else.

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:21

Am guessing you are Vegan then Nature

NatureAdvocate · 15/12/2013 20:22

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Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:24

I seriously think somebody needs help. Sad

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:25

Too many cats .....I think there should be mandatory neutering of cats except for those kept specifically for breeding. THAT'S why animal shelters have to put so many to sleep, Too many people go with the idea of "just one lot of kittens" without considering how many will result from those babies as adults.

All my cats were neutered at six months.

gamerchick · 15/12/2013 20:26

Jesus nature give your head a wobble man Hmm

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:27

Someone needs banning......not help. I have just been deleted for telling it to FO. Not my finest moment.

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:27

What a great expression gamer. I will use that in RL.

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:28

I would say that is your finest moment Jake, saying what we were all thinking. The deletion was worth it IMO.

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 20:29

I only ever had one cat years qgo who hunted, she caught, she killed instantly and ate Hmm Yuck.

gamerchick · 15/12/2013 20:35

Be my guest sparkling.. its especially handy for pointless rants.

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:36

DS1 (14) is the champion of pointless rants gamer. can't wait. Grin

BrianTheMole · 15/12/2013 20:42

I chase cats out of my garden when I see them as they shit on my veg patch. The bastards still come back though. Maybe I need to be more scary.

Woodsman001 · 15/12/2013 20:43

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