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Angry neighbour went for my cat - what to do?

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HaleyDunphy · 15/12/2013 14:14

Started letting my 3yo female cat out this week, as we've moved to a lovely area away from main roads with lots of greenery, so feel safe letting her out here.

She's very confident and she's really loving it - not going too far either which is reassuring for me. However I've just been outside watching her and she was perched on my bottom fence, looking into another garden. She climbed into one of the trees of the other garden (probably because there is a lot of bird activity in that garden). The man who lives there came out straight away, really angry and swearing. I went down to the bottom of the garden and saw her just sort of frozen and he went for her. She bolted back into my garden and even then he carried on swearing. I should have said something but I was a little shocked at how angry he sounded and just wanted to get her inside.

I'm guessing from the sounds of it he has bird feeders in his garden and I get why he would be defensive, but she does wear a bell so I'm not sure what else I can do? Any tips on that?

I've kept her in as I hate the thought of someone hurting her, but she really needs to go out as she's having a hard time with my other indoor cat. H says he will go round and just say that he's welcome to shoo her away but that it's not fair to be aggressive. I don't think it's going to make a difference to someone like that tbh. Is this just how it is with some people? I feel really awkward about it.

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Woodsman001 · 15/12/2013 20:44

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Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:49

What's 'Kool Aid'?

DoesntLeftoverTurkeySoupDragOn · 15/12/2013 20:52

Domestic Cats in the UK spread Anthrax? Really?

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:53

No clickable links.

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DoesntLeftoverTurkeySoupDragOn · 15/12/2013 20:53

Cats attract rodents to your home

Utter bollocks.

Woodsman001 · 15/12/2013 20:54

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Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:54

Oh. Right

bonzo77 · 15/12/2013 20:55

woodsman if they're so dangerous how come so many of us live with them safely? And while pregnant.

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:55

No need to C&P on MN-it's v modern. Wink

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:56

I love the way we are being called 'daft'. Grin

DoesntLeftoverTurkeySoupDragOn · 15/12/2013 20:56

I didn't realize I was dealing with people who were too daft on how to copy and paste information

Even a 5 year old can create a clickable link on Mumsnet.

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 20:57

i think we are dealing with the champion of C&P judging by all that guff up there ^

OneStepCloser · 15/12/2013 21:01

Woodsman only ever comes on MN to tell us how to kill cats, I dont think he likes them very much Grin

DoesntLeftoverTurkeySoupDragOn · 15/12/2013 21:02

I realise that i have the intellect of a 5 year old, but if cats attract rodents, why did my mouse infestation vanish when I got cats?

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 21:02

I thought it was familiar One, not just from today. It's all the waffle.

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 21:03

In other words dear Nature got banned and came back promptly as Woodsman.

Actually I have a cat hating friend who is a right goady fucker.....might check if he has been online rbis evening.Grin

TamzinGrey · 15/12/2013 21:03

Oh dear, another troll appears to have infiltrated the cat lovers board. I wouldn't dream of barging onto a special interest board and immediately slagging off the subject of that group's interest.

What the hell is wrong with these people?

FiscalCliffRocksThisTown · 15/12/2013 21:08

I like cats, but not in my garden, so I run at them and shout Raaaaaaaaaah! Flapping my arms, or bang the windiws and say Raaaaaaaah.

I like cats, woukd not hurt them, but love the woodpecker, blue tits abd kingfisher (!!! By my pond) even more.

They have killed entires nests of baby birds in my hedge.

If anyone saw me they might think I am deranged and a cat hater. But I am just deranged ("Raaaaaaaaah!")

thecatneuterer · 15/12/2013 21:12

Jakebullet. How can you be friends with a cat-hater?

Sparklingbrook · 15/12/2013 21:15

I am friends with a 'cat not understander'. She thought the 'making the bed' that a cat was doing on her knee was the cat being vicious. Confused

I am educating her slowly.

HesterShaw · 15/12/2013 21:18

Dear God, what is going on here?

thecatneuterer · 15/12/2013 21:20

'Cat not-understanders' fine. Cat-haters, not so fine. I couldn't be friends with one.

Just like I once walked out on a date the second he mentioned that on his last holiday in Spain he went to a bullfight ...

JakeBullet · 15/12/2013 21:39

Well he IS a cat hater but wouldn't harm one iykwim.

He drives me nuts but is a nice bloke....plus he keeps my car on the road.

Tis okay though as my cats don't like him either Grin