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Here’s my lifestyle; what breeds should I consider?

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BaoWow · 22/08/2021 21:53

I’m an experienced dog owner and, after the passing of our dog at a ripe old age a while ago, I’m beginning to start thinking about adding a new pooch to the family. Currently we have no dogs, for the first time in my life.

Our last dog was very clingy and didn’t like other dogs around and I don’t want to go through that again so the plan is to get a dog at some stage, and then add another after maybe a year. She wasn’t reactive, but just didn’t interact with other dogs at all and just wanted to be glued to us every time another dog was near her.

I’ve always had pedigree dogs and wouldn’t rule out a rescue at all, but would prefer a clear mix rather than a Heinz 57 so that I have some idea of what to expect. Realistically though, I think it’s likely we’ll look at a puppy from a breeder. I’ve bought from breeders before, know how to do my homework, and am prepared to wait for a puppy. That said, if there was a rescue that was quite young and a known cross, I’d very happily consider it.

My past dogs have been German Shepherds, Old English Sheepdogs, Border Collies, Cocker Spaniels, and Cavalier King Charles. To be fair, I’ve been lucky with all of them and haven’t lost any to anything other than old age- one had cancer but surgery was successful. Bloat was always a risk with the OES but raised bowls and limiting drinks appropriately meant we didn’t have any issues.
The GS, Cocker, and Collie needed a lot of exercise but I’m not in a position to give a dog that must activity these days.

I would love a giant breed but don’t think I could face getting something like a Newfie or St. Bernard that has such a short life expectancy.

We live in a large house with a very large, secure garden. Our dogs have always lived indoors but there’s lots of outdoor space. We both work from home full time, but would need a breed that’s happy to be alone for up to four hours twice a week, once it’s past the puppy stage.

We don’t have any children in the house, but have a cat.

We live close to a primary school. There’s a high wall and electric gates at the front of the house that’s additionally secured with wire between the bars etc so I’m not concerned about a dog getting out, or little hands getting in, but I am concerned about the perception of certain breeds and drawing any trouble given that there’s a school so close.

Our lifestyle is pretty sedentary. Plenty of time for playing, grooming, and training, but exercise is likely to be 2 x gentle 30min walks each day, plus as many garden zoomies as they fancy.

Not bothered by drool.
Have the ability to manage high costs- food, insurance, vet care, grooming etc.
My husband and I are both very tall and sturdy Grin so wouldn’t be concerned about a well-behaved large dog being too much for us to handle.

We tend to bring our dogs out and about with us a lot- village strolls, local cafe, occasional pub, weekend trips away. I don’t want to be in a position where I’m scaring people. Would also like something that’s happy to be in the car.

Breeds I’ve considers are-
Old English Sheepdog- again. I just love them. The last one absolutely broke my heart, though.
Bernese Mountain Dog, St. Bernard, Irish Wolfhound or Newfie- gorgeous but too short-lived
Leonberger- beautiful, but the only one I knew was horrendously stubborn.
Pyrenean Mastiff- have never met one but they sound interesting. But I am concerned about their guarding instinct so close to a school.

Outside of large/giant, a medium or small is also a consideration.
Thinking maybe a Corgi but have never met one, just like the look of the breed and what I’ve read about the temperament.
Australian Shepherd- don’t think I’d be able to offer it enough in terms of exercise.

So, if you were me, and wanted another great big ball of a fluffy couch-potato to love with the lifestyle above, what would you consider?

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BrilloPaddy · 22/08/2021 21:58

Tibetan Terrier - we rescued one when he was 8. He was the perfect 1st family dog...... loved to snuggle up with the kids, didn't like long walks and was a real character. He would often take himself off to bed when he'd had enough of us all too, was happy to be left. He was a nice size too.

I've got 2 spaniels..... they're a lot more maintenance in terms of clinginess and exercise needs. Every day is a training day and it's a bit exhausting at times, although I adore them.

Yahtze · 22/08/2021 22:10

Greater Swiss Mountain Dog. I prefer them to Bernese MDs. They have a bit more personality (they are proper characters) and a lot less fur. They are very dog and kid friendly but are a guarding breed and will alert etc. Ours is a wonderful pub dog and will happily be fussed by the whole place!

OneSwallowSummer · 22/08/2021 22:11

Pyrenean Mastiffs were on my list but they are just a pain in the arse to train and so stubborn. They also bark too much for me. Our last GSMD lived to 14 with very few health problems. They have far less than a Bernese.

Moonlaserbearwolf · 22/08/2021 22:13

I was also going to say Tibetan Terrier. My friend has one and it looks like a smaller version of an OES.

Clearlyunhinged · 22/08/2021 22:14

I love that you've gone from thoughts of a Newfoundland to a Corgi, brilliant!

BaoWow · 22/08/2021 22:16

@BrilloPaddy

Tibetan Terrier - we rescued one when he was 8. He was the perfect 1st family dog...... loved to snuggle up with the kids, didn't like long walks and was a real character. He would often take himself off to bed when he'd had enough of us all too, was happy to be left. He was a nice size too.

I've got 2 spaniels..... they're a lot more maintenance in terms of clinginess and exercise needs. Every day is a training day and it's a bit exhausting at times, although I adore them.

I’ve never heard of a Tibetan Terrier so googled. What little beauties! Think I may have met some in the past and mistaken them for Bearded Collies.
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MrsWooster · 22/08/2021 22:17

Greyhound. Big, lazy, gorgeous. Or big Lurcher- hybrid vigour.

BaoWow · 22/08/2021 22:19

@Clearlyunhinged

I love that you've gone from thoughts of a Newfoundland to a Corgi, brilliant!
Grin

I know! At one stage we were considering a Great Dane and later adding a Dachshund but then had a little word with ourselves.

I think we’re just keen to get something that will fit our lifestyle and be happy. But I just always wanted a giant so I keep gravitating towards larger dogs.

My dream dog would be a Bernese but I’m so heartbroken after our last dog, I can’t imagine going through that every 6-8 years.

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overthethamesfromyou · 22/08/2021 22:20

What about a Pointer or a Setter?

icedcoffees · 22/08/2021 22:22

Greyhound
Whippet
Cairn terrier
King Charles Cavalier (if you're lucky enough to find a healthy one)
Bichon Frisé
Miniature poodle

BaoWow · 22/08/2021 22:23

@overthethamesfromyou

What about a Pointer or a Setter?
Aren’t they both quite active breeds? I don’t think I’d be able to give them enough exercise, activity, and stimulation.
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awkwardusername · 22/08/2021 22:24

Have you thought about a golden retriever?

icedcoffees · 22/08/2021 22:24

Oh and I would earn massively against a mastiff type dog. They are seriously prone to guarding and have a very nasty bite on them.

As a dog walker I've tried to look after one - it would not let me in the home without the owners present - severe guarding of its' territory and if I was inexperienced or stupid enough I am in no doubt that I would have received a very nasty bite.

Motorina · 22/08/2021 22:25

Pointer would struggle with that little exercise. Deerhound or wolfhound, maybe?

You don’t need to decide between a known breed puppy and a cross, by the way. There are plenty of breed specific rescue organisations.

coachmylife · 22/08/2021 22:26

We have (our first) little dog - a very atypical cavapoo, who looks more like a little terrier. Friends who have always known/been brought up w big dogs have been really struck by how differently strangers relate to our dog, than to bigger ones - said they hadn't realised how intimidated lots of people are by big ones. So this is just to say: don't rule out a littlie.

overthethamesfromyou · 22/08/2021 22:26

I'd love a Great Dane, that would be my dream, Pointers are amazing but can be nuts so I've decided a Setter is next for me Smile

BaoWow · 22/08/2021 22:27

King Charles Cavalier (if you're lucky enough to find a healthy one)

The dog we lost recently was a Cav and we were so lucky with her. She was 13 and, until her last six months, had no health issues. We were so conscious of heart murmurs and syringomyelia that we did as much vetting of the breeder as we could and it paid off, and we were lucky. I just don’t know if I’d have the heart to get another Cav again- she was one of a kind.

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GettingItOutThere · 22/08/2021 22:35

irish wolfhound. hands down the most beautiful dogs!

I would honestly go for a large breed in your shoes, your home and lifestyle sound wonderful and the dog is going to be the luckiest thing alive!

Failing a wolfie, how about a great dane, swiss mountain dog, bernese? Newfoundlands are beautiful but hairy!

Ylvamoon · 22/08/2021 23:00

I guess you like hairy dogs, but would you consider a Chinese Crested Dog? Powderpuff is the hairy version. They are sweet and easy going, not demanding and playful.

If you want something a bit bigger, go with the Tibetan Terrier.

I owned both, (and have recently adopted a X-poo 🤦🏻‍♀️)

Tibetans are still my favourite in terms of size and temperament, although the X-poo is growing on me simply because my Tibetans are a bit lazy and don't appreciate long walks.

Whitney168 · 22/08/2021 23:11

Rough Collie, if you’re happy to do a bit of grooming each week (nowhere near as onerous as people imagine)?

Largely speaking a healthy breed with a good lifespan, few serious health problems (most of which can be DNA tested for, although I don’t claim that all breeders on board with them yet). Will walk as far as you like when old enough, but won’t climb the walls with what you state for exercise/games/training plus plenty of company.

Pippioddstocking · 22/08/2021 23:14

I think a Pointer would struggle on that amount of exercise. Ours has happily done 18 miles today and he is 8, this is him ‘ slowing down ‘.

Netaporter · 22/08/2021 23:21

I can confirm that the Leonberger you met previously was not the only horrendously stubborn one Grin also generally not great with cats. Those issues aside, they are very sociable and would fit into your lifestyle quite well .

ArchbishopOfBanterbury · 22/08/2021 23:39

Border terrier perhaps? I second the Tibetan terrier suggestion, mkaybe a JRT if you'd consider one so small. Big dog attitudes.

It's also worth considering the sighthound options, an (older) whippet or a greyhound could fit right in.

Hairyfairy01 · 22/08/2021 23:42

How about a French mastiff / dogue de Bordeaux? I had one years ago. Was a lovely dog but quite drooly. Never barked either.

Walkinginawingingwonderland · 22/08/2021 23:46

Bouvier de Flandres might fit the bill?