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Here’s my lifestyle; what breeds should I consider?

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BaoWow · 22/08/2021 21:53

I’m an experienced dog owner and, after the passing of our dog at a ripe old age a while ago, I’m beginning to start thinking about adding a new pooch to the family. Currently we have no dogs, for the first time in my life.

Our last dog was very clingy and didn’t like other dogs around and I don’t want to go through that again so the plan is to get a dog at some stage, and then add another after maybe a year. She wasn’t reactive, but just didn’t interact with other dogs at all and just wanted to be glued to us every time another dog was near her.

I’ve always had pedigree dogs and wouldn’t rule out a rescue at all, but would prefer a clear mix rather than a Heinz 57 so that I have some idea of what to expect. Realistically though, I think it’s likely we’ll look at a puppy from a breeder. I’ve bought from breeders before, know how to do my homework, and am prepared to wait for a puppy. That said, if there was a rescue that was quite young and a known cross, I’d very happily consider it.

My past dogs have been German Shepherds, Old English Sheepdogs, Border Collies, Cocker Spaniels, and Cavalier King Charles. To be fair, I’ve been lucky with all of them and haven’t lost any to anything other than old age- one had cancer but surgery was successful. Bloat was always a risk with the OES but raised bowls and limiting drinks appropriately meant we didn’t have any issues.
The GS, Cocker, and Collie needed a lot of exercise but I’m not in a position to give a dog that must activity these days.

I would love a giant breed but don’t think I could face getting something like a Newfie or St. Bernard that has such a short life expectancy.

We live in a large house with a very large, secure garden. Our dogs have always lived indoors but there’s lots of outdoor space. We both work from home full time, but would need a breed that’s happy to be alone for up to four hours twice a week, once it’s past the puppy stage.

We don’t have any children in the house, but have a cat.

We live close to a primary school. There’s a high wall and electric gates at the front of the house that’s additionally secured with wire between the bars etc so I’m not concerned about a dog getting out, or little hands getting in, but I am concerned about the perception of certain breeds and drawing any trouble given that there’s a school so close.

Our lifestyle is pretty sedentary. Plenty of time for playing, grooming, and training, but exercise is likely to be 2 x gentle 30min walks each day, plus as many garden zoomies as they fancy.

Not bothered by drool.
Have the ability to manage high costs- food, insurance, vet care, grooming etc.
My husband and I are both very tall and sturdy Grin so wouldn’t be concerned about a well-behaved large dog being too much for us to handle.

We tend to bring our dogs out and about with us a lot- village strolls, local cafe, occasional pub, weekend trips away. I don’t want to be in a position where I’m scaring people. Would also like something that’s happy to be in the car.

Breeds I’ve considers are-
Old English Sheepdog- again. I just love them. The last one absolutely broke my heart, though.
Bernese Mountain Dog, St. Bernard, Irish Wolfhound or Newfie- gorgeous but too short-lived
Leonberger- beautiful, but the only one I knew was horrendously stubborn.
Pyrenean Mastiff- have never met one but they sound interesting. But I am concerned about their guarding instinct so close to a school.

Outside of large/giant, a medium or small is also a consideration.
Thinking maybe a Corgi but have never met one, just like the look of the breed and what I’ve read about the temperament.
Australian Shepherd- don’t think I’d be able to offer it enough in terms of exercise.

So, if you were me, and wanted another great big ball of a fluffy couch-potato to love with the lifestyle above, what would you consider?

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XelaM · 01/11/2021 22:38

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BaggingAria · 01/11/2021 23:28

Another vote for a basset hound - if you don't mind drool that's their only negative point dealt with! Gentle, affectionate, hugely characterful, and happy with two shortish walks or a very long one. You've got to be a bit careful finding the right breeder, as there are health issues to watch out for (and the cuteness of the puppies makes them a puppy farmer's favourite) but they're wonderful companions. I miss our old girl so much I can't actually bear to have another for a few years, as it wouldn't be her.

StillMedusa · 01/11/2021 23:57

Eurasier... if you like hairy, decent size (mines a 24kg girl.. boys are larger) and not too active..
Utterly devoted to family, uninterested in anyone else. Lives with our cat fine , Very easy to train but do have their own minds and opinions. And chasing squirrels are life goals.
People generally think she's a shorter GSD with a cury tail!

Here’s my lifestyle; what breeds should I consider?
Here’s my lifestyle; what breeds should I consider?
Lifeisaminestrone · 02/11/2021 05:56

I think they mean King Charles Spaniels are vulnerable rather than Cavalier King Charles Spaniels.

The KCS is slightly smaller with a squishy face!
They look more puggy! Interesting if they have health problems like cavs?

tabulahrasa · 02/11/2021 08:02

“Interesting if they have health problems like cavs?”

They had them first because they’re more extreme - though cavs have become more extreme now, there’s not a huge difference between them anymore.

Dragonfire282 · 02/11/2021 19:09

We have a cocker cross terrier (cocker jack). Fantastic dog. Nice medium size, no grooming required, doesn't need a tonne of exercise (am and pm for 30 mins and a big garden to explore would be perfect). Spends the rest of the day snoozing. Mirrors us so will potter about the house if we are but settles nicely when we're working/relaxing. Loves car rides, no separation anxiety at all, nice and healthy. High prey drive so tricky off lead but is great with our 2 cats.

lastqueenofscotland · 02/11/2021 21:28

Seen setters recommended upthread, My mum has setters, admittedly working lines but if they only got 2x30 mins gentle stroll a day i can say with some confidence that they’d likely trash the house!

I though greyhound from what you’ve said…

lastqueenofscotland · 02/11/2021 21:30

Also RE the endangered list, King Charles spaniels and cavalier King Charles are different breeds. I’ve never seen a King Charles outside of a show, whereas cavs remain popular.

VeganCheesePlease · 02/11/2021 21:55

What about a Golden Retriever? They will fit right into your lifestyle, enjoy exercise, but also enjoy being cuddled up with you. Generally well behaved too, and decent health wise too.

lovemyaussie · 02/11/2021 21:57

Defo don't think an Aussie would be happy with that amount of exercise, at least not as a pup. Whenever ours is awake she has to be doing something!

Juanbablo · 03/11/2021 02:29

We have a JRT and he's a fab little dog. I know you said you would consider small. They are generally friendly dogs with few health issues. Ours is 2 and a lazy toad at home that loves to snuggle under a blanket. Walks as much or as little as we want.

BlackAmericanoNoSugar · 03/11/2021 10:55

I have a Glen of Imaal terrier who would fit your lifestyle very nicely. My dog is not compatible with cats now but would have been fine if there had already been a cat in the house when he was introduced as a puppy.

Whatevertheweather · 03/11/2021 13:24

Boxers rarely get suggested but they make the most wonderful goofy companions! Our boy is 10 months old now, loves a cuddle, sleeps a lot in the day but does love to play once the DC are home! He makes us laugh every day, minimal grooming and has 2 x 30-45min walks a day. Loves to be off lead, worked on recall from day 1 as he does love other people and dogs but has been fairly easy to train. Zoomies are hilarious - they are the clowns of the dog world! He’s happy to be left for around 3hrs (he just sleeps!). One downside is he is still prone to jumping up when excited at visitors so we do have to manage that carefully!

Here’s my lifestyle; what breeds should I consider?
Xiomara22 · 03/11/2021 13:27

Haven’t read all the suggestions but what about a Dogue De Bordeaux?

We have one and he’s as daft as a brush but very lazy too, doesn’t like massive walks and prefers a snooze over a play.

Airfixkitwidow · 03/11/2021 13:37

Another leonberger owner here. She'd fit your criteria well as and as someone has said their lifespan isn't as short as some of the other giant breeds. Ours is six now and still very healthy. A short walk to sniff things is all she needs although an occasional trip to the beach is always welcome. Every single evening she looks at me and says "today was the best day of my life". So happy and loving and not at all demanding.

Stellaris22 · 03/11/2021 13:47

Yet another vote for basset hounds!

Fantastic breed, incredibly laid back and will love any attention they get. Would love living near a school as they are brilliant with young children, and I’ve yet to meet a young child that doesn’t love ours.

Big personalities and would suit your exercise in OP. Being scent hounds they are stubborn and need a different type of training but are far from the lazy, untrainable dog people think.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 03/11/2021 14:03

Would a retired greyhound not fit the bill perfectly? You'd be rescuing rather than buying, they're happy with a couple of shortish walks and generally pretty chilled out dogs.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 03/11/2021 14:05

@BaoWow

Lots of people suggesting greyhounds and lurches. Had definitely thought of those. I live in an area where greyhound racing is still popular so loads of former racing and breeding dogs abandoned to rescues, sadly.

I have researched them before but almost every greyhound-specific rescue I’ve looked at (and many also have Lurchers) have ruled us out as soon as we’ve mentioned having a cat.
As a child, we lost more than one pet cat to an escaped greyhound so I’m not sure it’s be a runner.

Great breed choice though- affectionate couch-potato.

My friends adopted a greyhound and they have a cat, it's not always an issue.
merrygoround51 · 03/11/2021 14:07

Going by your lifestyle being not terribly active I would again go for a cavalier

sillysmiles · 04/11/2021 10:39

[quote frumpety]How about rescue's ? These two would fit into your lifestyle perfectly Smile

www.dogsblog.com/olly-and-may/[/quote]
How gorgeous are they!

sillysmiles · 04/11/2021 10:41

@BaoWow as you are clearly very dog experienced are there any small rescues close to you that you can let them know you are interested in rehoming a dog.
Potentially they might have a dog that would suit you rather than a breed that would suit you - if you understand what I mean by the difference.

Dozycuntlaters · 05/11/2021 14:22

I have a border terrier, she sounds ideal for what you are looking for. I also have two cats and also she was a nuisance at first she's fine now. She will try and play with them but they won't have any of it, but she would never hurt them. As long as she gets her daily walk she's fine. She comes to work with me and once I've walked her she's happy to sleep in her bed and potter about with her toys. Fantastic breed, but them I'm sure everyone who has a dog thinks their breed is the best.

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