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Here’s my lifestyle; what breeds should I consider?

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BaoWow · 22/08/2021 21:53

I’m an experienced dog owner and, after the passing of our dog at a ripe old age a while ago, I’m beginning to start thinking about adding a new pooch to the family. Currently we have no dogs, for the first time in my life.

Our last dog was very clingy and didn’t like other dogs around and I don’t want to go through that again so the plan is to get a dog at some stage, and then add another after maybe a year. She wasn’t reactive, but just didn’t interact with other dogs at all and just wanted to be glued to us every time another dog was near her.

I’ve always had pedigree dogs and wouldn’t rule out a rescue at all, but would prefer a clear mix rather than a Heinz 57 so that I have some idea of what to expect. Realistically though, I think it’s likely we’ll look at a puppy from a breeder. I’ve bought from breeders before, know how to do my homework, and am prepared to wait for a puppy. That said, if there was a rescue that was quite young and a known cross, I’d very happily consider it.

My past dogs have been German Shepherds, Old English Sheepdogs, Border Collies, Cocker Spaniels, and Cavalier King Charles. To be fair, I’ve been lucky with all of them and haven’t lost any to anything other than old age- one had cancer but surgery was successful. Bloat was always a risk with the OES but raised bowls and limiting drinks appropriately meant we didn’t have any issues.
The GS, Cocker, and Collie needed a lot of exercise but I’m not in a position to give a dog that must activity these days.

I would love a giant breed but don’t think I could face getting something like a Newfie or St. Bernard that has such a short life expectancy.

We live in a large house with a very large, secure garden. Our dogs have always lived indoors but there’s lots of outdoor space. We both work from home full time, but would need a breed that’s happy to be alone for up to four hours twice a week, once it’s past the puppy stage.

We don’t have any children in the house, but have a cat.

We live close to a primary school. There’s a high wall and electric gates at the front of the house that’s additionally secured with wire between the bars etc so I’m not concerned about a dog getting out, or little hands getting in, but I am concerned about the perception of certain breeds and drawing any trouble given that there’s a school so close.

Our lifestyle is pretty sedentary. Plenty of time for playing, grooming, and training, but exercise is likely to be 2 x gentle 30min walks each day, plus as many garden zoomies as they fancy.

Not bothered by drool.
Have the ability to manage high costs- food, insurance, vet care, grooming etc.
My husband and I are both very tall and sturdy Grin so wouldn’t be concerned about a well-behaved large dog being too much for us to handle.

We tend to bring our dogs out and about with us a lot- village strolls, local cafe, occasional pub, weekend trips away. I don’t want to be in a position where I’m scaring people. Would also like something that’s happy to be in the car.

Breeds I’ve considers are-
Old English Sheepdog- again. I just love them. The last one absolutely broke my heart, though.
Bernese Mountain Dog, St. Bernard, Irish Wolfhound or Newfie- gorgeous but too short-lived
Leonberger- beautiful, but the only one I knew was horrendously stubborn.
Pyrenean Mastiff- have never met one but they sound interesting. But I am concerned about their guarding instinct so close to a school.

Outside of large/giant, a medium or small is also a consideration.
Thinking maybe a Corgi but have never met one, just like the look of the breed and what I’ve read about the temperament.
Australian Shepherd- don’t think I’d be able to offer it enough in terms of exercise.

So, if you were me, and wanted another great big ball of a fluffy couch-potato to love with the lifestyle above, what would you consider?

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SweatyBetty20 · 23/08/2021 09:33

A small word of warning with a Tibetan terrier. We have one in our family which has been diagnosed with diabetes, which the breed is prone to. The dog went blind almost overnight, and is in and out of the vets for testing, along with a restricted diet and insulin monitoring and daily injections. It would be kinder to put him to sleep, but they are hanging in there - it has had an effect on their daily life as the dog can't see, can't play, can't be left for long, and is a shadow of the personality it used to be.

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 23/08/2021 09:35

Another vote here for a golden retriever - a show one. Much easier than working line, absolutely beautiful, love people and children, big and fluffy enough to suit you, and will be perfectly ok with cats.

Shadedog · 23/08/2021 09:45

If I had your lifestyle I would be tempted by a borzoi. They are massive but would be happy with a couple of short walks and a big garden for zoomies. Decent life expectancy, very affectionate, not noisy, fine to be left snoozing etc.

Whitney168 · 23/08/2021 09:54

@Mantlemoose

Greyhound sounds ideal for you, you could get it a fluffy jumper for comfort cuddles! I see someone suggested a Rough Collie. I have one. Very highly strung, vocal and quite nervy. I wouldn't have another.
Roughs are most definitely not all like this, have owned (counts) 10 I think, and have never had one like this. My current boys are the most laid back animals you could imagine.
Whitney168 · 23/08/2021 09:59

Have to say that some of the breed suggestions for the lifestyle you describe realistically and practically really do show why so many people have unsuitable dogs that become problems.

Despite pushing my beloved Rough Collies, I do think if you hanker for a giant breed I would be investigating the Leonberger further though OP. Such a beautiful breed, would consider one myself at some point in the future.

namechanged984630 · 23/08/2021 10:01

While walking my dog yesterday (golden retriever) we met the most beautiful dog. It looked like a fairly small Bernese mountain dog and it turns out it was that crossed with a collie. Beautiful, big, alert, just stunning

Clearlyunhinged · 23/08/2021 10:17

Very surprised to see King Charles Spaniels on the vulnerable list, I know they have a multitude of health problems but very surprised to see how few were registered over the last couple of years

Imtoooldforallthis · 23/08/2021 10:20

What about an Afghan Hound.

BaoWow · 23/08/2021 10:22

Lots of people suggesting greyhounds and lurches. Had definitely thought of those. I live in an area where greyhound racing is still popular so loads of former racing and breeding dogs abandoned to rescues, sadly.

I have researched them before but almost every greyhound-specific rescue I’ve looked at (and many also have Lurchers) have ruled us out as soon as we’ve mentioned having a cat.
As a child, we lost more than one pet cat to an escaped greyhound so I’m not sure it’s be a runner.

Great breed choice though- affectionate couch-potato.

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Shadedog · 23/08/2021 10:22

I haven’t seen a King Charles in the flesh for years. I wonder if the “market” for them has changed to the small doodle dogs instead. When I was growing up they were the “go to” dog for anyone who wanted a small-not-a-terrier dog whereas now there are lots of small doodles/poos

HereWeGoAgainRoundAndRound · 23/08/2021 10:24

Greyhound ?? Large still but completey different to what you have suggested they love Good runs in the garden and walks , chasing-toy playing but also can be very chilled 100mph couch potato people say Grinand happy to be left for a while, ours is a couch potato definitely but loves walks and runs in the garden very much. They hardly make any noise/bark and are very loving to there owners. Not sure about Being around cats though. Hope you find your perfect furever x

BaoWow · 23/08/2021 10:26

Have to say that some of the breed suggestions for the lifestyle you describe realistically and practically really do show why so many people have unsuitable dogs that become problems

Which breeds suggested make you think that, @Whitney168 ?

I’m researching as I go but very happy to hear arguments against particular breeds too. I really don’t want to end up making an avoidable mistake.

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Anothermountain · 23/08/2021 10:26

Our lifestyle is pretty sedentary. Plenty of time for playing, grooming, and training, but exercise is likely to be 2 x gentle 30min walks each day, plus as many garden zoomies as they fancy.

This is flashing "rescue greyhound" in bright orange lights Grin to me!

Anothermountain · 23/08/2021 10:27

But maybe swap the "garden zoomies" for "park zoomies"?

Shadedog · 23/08/2021 10:28

I was lucky enough to get my rescue lurcher youngish and he lived with cats in the home that surrendered him and he’s fine with my cats. A puppy brought up with cats is a different ball game to an adult dog trained to chase. I wouldn’t take an ex racer with cats but I know some people who’ve done it successfully.

Anothermountain · 23/08/2021 10:29

Oh sorry, just see you have a cat Blush. Sorry! Such a shame that this is a barrier as I know of two rescue greyhound + cat households who live peacefully together.

BaoWow · 23/08/2021 10:32

@Shadedog

I haven’t seen a King Charles in the flesh for years. I wonder if the “market” for them has changed to the small doodle dogs instead. When I was growing up they were the “go to” dog for anyone who wanted a small-not-a-terrier dog whereas now there are lots of small doodles/poos
I agree with you. We’ve recently lost our beloved Cav after 13 years and I’ve seen so few around since.

I think the market for Cav-crosses is just so huge. The amount of times people have come up to me over the years to say “oh, a Cavalier King Charles. We have a Cavapoo/Cavachon/Cavawhatever”.

Whoever is marketing them is doing a terrific job because people are constantly telling me that they’re “just like Cavs but none of the health issues” Hmm

Cavs are a fantastic little dog and I miss ours tremendously but we were so lucky with her health-wise. I can’t see how we’d ever beat those odds again.

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hellcatspangle · 23/08/2021 10:36

Have you thought about a golden retriever?

Goldies are fantastic dogs but I think they prefer a more active lifestyle than a couple of 30 min walks.

Lots of people on MN rave about a rescue greyhound, would that be an option OP?

Cakey46 · 23/08/2021 10:37

A greyhound fits the bill perfectly. Great in the home, they are happy to be left snoozing while you are working or out and about but equally love to have cuddles and playtime. Fantastic (mostly) on a lead for gentle strolls. Good pub dogs (as long as you take a blanket). They really are an ideal dog for people with normal lives.

hellcatspangle · 23/08/2021 10:39

Oops sorry, didn't see your last post about greyhounds....

XelaM · 23/08/2021 10:41

I see many Cavaliers in our area. Two are in the same puppy class as our puppy. They are lovely

ViceLikeBlip · 23/08/2021 10:42

If you have a large secure garden, then I would seriously consider a greyhound. They like short bursts of intense exercise (which could just be chasing balls in the garden if it's really big enough) but they don't really like long walks, and they sleep a lot! And most are used to living in kennels and being left alone (well, they'd probably cope better with another dog. But honestly they sleep something like 16 hours a day)

But some have a very strong prey drive, so you might have issues with chasing the cat.....

Ps I also love tibetan terriers. V low maintenance, don't shed (but do need clipping /grooming) fairly low energy. They often have sensitive digestion, but that's fine so long as you're aware. They're quite short, but nice and chunky for cuddling 😉

Cakey46 · 23/08/2021 10:43

Sorry just seen your post about the cat in relation to greyhounds. I do know that some of the Greyhound Trusts do cat testing eg Hollins Hall near Durham.

Whitney168 · 23/08/2021 11:16

@BaoWow

Have to say that some of the breed suggestions for the lifestyle you describe realistically and practically really do show why so many people have unsuitable dogs that become problems

Which breeds suggested make you think that, @Whitney168 ?

I’m researching as I go but very happy to hear arguments against particular breeds too. I really don’t want to end up making an avoidable mistake.

Off the top of my head, I would think Pointers, Setters, Bouviers, Aussies would all be climbing the walls with that exercise plan unless there was a heck of a lot of brain training going on too.
BaoWow · 23/08/2021 12:09

Off the top of my head, I would think Pointers, Setters, Bouviers, Aussies would all be climbing the walls with that exercise plan unless there was a heck of a lot of brain training going on too

Oh definitely. Poor things would be bored and depressed within a week.

The only one I’m not familiar with is the Bouvier so did a Google search. Stunning looking dog but again, wouldn’t suit us.

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