I'm also wondering what the hell I've done. DH is suddenly not on board after one day minding him. He's muttered 'he needs to learn' and suggested shouting at him. I want to follow positive aversive free training (apart from when I want to kill him) so this worries me.
The house and garden are a tip but I am unable to do anything. I can't imagine a day when I am not spending nearly all my time training even if 'training' means traipsing around after him stopping him bothering older dog, eating stones, snails, peeing inappropriately etc.
The dynamics of my marriage is DH joins in when I start sorting the garden etc but is slow to actually start anything. Currently I can't do anything. So the hedge needs cutting, the decking we removed last week needs clearing and the area making good. Currently sitting in a heap of wood and mess which is not great.
I'm investigating dog sitters for the odd days I will need to leave the house as I realise I can't count on family. Everything feels pants today