Thanks all.
I don't think we would have the puppy upstairs. For one thing she is a daschund and not supposed to climb stairs when she is little, plus the upstairs will remain the cat's lair who currently sleeps on our bed.
Heidi that sounds like the approach I will take. So you shut the puppy in the crate to sleep? I will do the same as you I think with your approach. Just worried about her getting upset if she soils the crate and has to stay in there for a bit until I come down to take her out.
I am expecting a book to be delivered today will see what they suggest.
The link above just took me to Facebook not a specific puppy training area, can someone please link again?
Thankyou