I don't understand.
In all of these programmes, the nanny/psychologist/whoever teaches the parents that they can bring their children round and stop naughty/agressive behaviour by giving them quality time, love and praise.
Why and how do parents ever stop doing that??? My two are the best things in the world to me and I couldn't imagine ever not praising them every day or spending time doing stuff with them - even a drawing or a puzzle.
Makes no sense to me when parents can't do that with their kids then wonder why they turn into attention seeking monsters!!!
Sorry - rant over!!!!