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Anyone watching Channel 5's Under Suspicion Kate McCann?

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ilovebrie8 · 21/05/2026 09:14

It was on last night

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FernFaery · 22/05/2026 13:05

Recklessismymiddlename · 22/05/2026 13:03

I’m fully expecting this thread to disappear in a puff of smoke any moment because MNHQ don’t seem to like any discussion of the McCann’s even just stating facts.

I suspect the McCanns are very litigious. And I suspect well protected.

By whom?

FernFaery · 22/05/2026 13:06

Tabarnak · 22/05/2026 13:03

They would not have had their other kids taken.

They were parents who got their risk assessment badly wrong and the highest price was paid.

Do you really think they were an ongoing risk to their kids? Or that they would have gone on hol the next year and done the same thing?

Or that the traumatised twins would have benefitted form MORE trauma in being wrenched from their parents and put with foster carers?

Are you an experienced social worker who could vouch for the fact that children would be removed under those circumstances? And if wc?

It seems to me that the bar is vey very low (or high, if you like) for the removal of children and there are many children who have been left in the care of violent / addicted / non engaged parents.

I agree. The twins seem to be absolutely fine and have grown into adults seemingly more mentally healthy than a quarter of the teenage offspring on this website.

crossedlines · 22/05/2026 13:11

FernFaery · 22/05/2026 13:01

Apart from that’s not what the book said was it?

At that time they hadn’t had their ‘arguido’ statuses lifted, and their tapas friends were reluctant to go given the behaviour of the Portuguese police and the lack of clear rights and boundaries around the whole thing. They were worried it was an implication exercise, not unreasonably as the police had already accused one of the friends of ‘being involved in the abduction’.

If you had small children and a job in the UK, would you fly to a foreign jurisdiction knowing you would be in legally shady waters and they might find a reason to detain you or worse?

They hadn’t even been given arguido status by this point!

Yes, the McCanns have been very critical of the Portuguese police, that point is true. Though trampling all through the apartment with their friends if they believed it was a crime scene probably wasn’t ideal behaviour themselves. Neither was leaving a young child and two toddlers alone night after night.

bigboykitty · 22/05/2026 13:11

Tabarnak · 22/05/2026 13:03

They would not have had their other kids taken.

They were parents who got their risk assessment badly wrong and the highest price was paid.

Do you really think they were an ongoing risk to their kids? Or that they would have gone on hol the next year and done the same thing?

Or that the traumatised twins would have benefitted form MORE trauma in being wrenched from their parents and put with foster carers?

Are you an experienced social worker who could vouch for the fact that children would be removed under those circumstances? And if wc?

It seems to me that the bar is vey very low (or high, if you like) for the removal of children and there are many children who have been left in the care of violent / addicted / non engaged parents.

I don't think you understand anything about child protection at all.

Recklessismymiddlename · 22/05/2026 13:13

FernFaery · 22/05/2026 13:05

By whom?

Lawyers
who keep an eye out
sorry should have been clear

Tabarnak · 22/05/2026 13:13

bigboykitty · 22/05/2026 13:11

I don't think you understand anything about child protection at all.

I do.

But hey ho.

bigboykitty · 22/05/2026 13:40

Tabarnak · 22/05/2026 13:13

I do.

But hey ho.

Then you will know that the assessment of the risk posed by the parents to their remaining children, was a complex process and would encompass a great deal more than thinking about how upset the twins would be if separated. I don't envy the social workers making those decisions. They repeatedly, consistently neglected their children and knowingly exposed them to risk. They put them in childcare all day and left them alone at night. And that's just for starters.

Empress13 · 22/05/2026 14:13

has anyone listened to James English’s podcast with the foreign detective Bernt Stellendar in 2024 . It’s mind blowing ! I’m in two minds about what really happened tbh

Feis123 · 22/05/2026 14:17

EasilyPleased · 22/05/2026 12:04

I think the social class point is because commenters always claim on threads about the McCanns that, had they been WC, they'd have had SS involvement for child neglect, and possibly had their other children removed. That poster was saying that they're both WC by birth, and only MC 'by profession' because they are both medics, a traditionally MC job.

Thank you.

EasilyPleased · 22/05/2026 14:38

bigboykitty · 22/05/2026 13:40

Then you will know that the assessment of the risk posed by the parents to their remaining children, was a complex process and would encompass a great deal more than thinking about how upset the twins would be if separated. I don't envy the social workers making those decisions. They repeatedly, consistently neglected their children and knowingly exposed them to risk. They put them in childcare all day and left them alone at night. And that's just for starters.

Are we now equating the use of holiday clubs with 'neglect'?

Livpool · 22/05/2026 14:38

FernFaery · 22/05/2026 13:06

I agree. The twins seem to be absolutely fine and have grown into adults seemingly more mentally healthy than a quarter of the teenage offspring on this website.

Best parents ever then?!

Northermcharn · 22/05/2026 14:46

Empress13 · 22/05/2026 14:13

has anyone listened to James English’s podcast with the foreign detective Bernt Stellendar in 2024 . It’s mind blowing ! I’m in two minds about what really happened tbh

Why is it mind blowing?

crossedlines · 22/05/2026 14:48

I’ve no idea about the emotional wellbeing of the twins because I don’t know them. i do know that even if they’ve turned out to have done well academically, be well adjusted etc, it’s horrendously neglectful that as toddlers, they were left alone in an apartment at night

Mammut · 22/05/2026 14:49

Feis123 · 22/05/2026 14:17

Thank you.

You are completely missing the point

Feis123 · 22/05/2026 15:14

I am not even sure what your point is. Also, you are missing the point. So what is it? The former or the latter?

CatAsstrophe · 22/05/2026 16:13

StormGazing · 21/05/2026 11:04

I’ll probably give it a watch. It’s such a sad and unavoidable situation, but hopefully if nothing else it’s highlighted not to leave children alone anywhere ever.

It was not an unavoidable situation. I don't know how they live with the guilt.

I was left alone regularly from the age of 6, along with younger siblings, while my parents went out to the pub. Not while we were on holiday because we never went anywhere. Parental negligence has no class distinction. They may be firmly middle class, but the McCanns were neglectful, resulting in a nightmarish outcome.

I haven't watched the programme and have no plans to watch it.

Empress13 · 22/05/2026 16:50

Northermcharn · 22/05/2026 14:46

Why is it mind blowing?

Because of what he has divulged. I’m not going to get into a debate on the case but let’s just say his findings are interesting to say the least.

Mammut · 22/05/2026 17:21

Feis123 · 22/05/2026 15:14

I am not even sure what your point is. Also, you are missing the point. So what is it? The former or the latter?

The sneery assertion that the parents are only middle class by profession. Implying of course that they are not really middle class at all. And this interpretation based on their accents which surely come from a council scheme. It’s offensive.

LBFseBrom · 22/05/2026 18:17

I did put the programme on this morning, listened to it in the background. When I watched I found it harrowing.

I didn't know, or maybe forgot, that Kate was advised to plead that Madeline died by accident and she disposed of the body. Did that really happen? What an outrage!

The police have to ask awful questions, I get that, and family are always questioned first but that struck me as a step too far.

My hope is that sufficient evidence can be found on that German chap; if he is the guilty party and prosecuted, they will at least have closure. The German police seem to believe he is the one but it's right that proper evidence, or a confession, is obtained so that there can be no doubt.

A terrible, terrible tragedy - and not the only one. Little Ben Needham's remains have never been found but it is believed he drowned. Not knowing must be dreadful.

FernFaery · 22/05/2026 18:18

Mammut · 22/05/2026 17:21

The sneery assertion that the parents are only middle class by profession. Implying of course that they are not really middle class at all. And this interpretation based on their accents which surely come from a council scheme. It’s offensive.

McCann haters are absolutely demented and confuse their personal dislike of the parents, with what happened to their daughter. You don’t have to like somebody to empathise with their child being abducted. These threads are a disgrace.

tsmainsqueeze · 22/05/2026 18:20

Viviennemary · 21/05/2026 22:04

I would have watched it but didn't even know it was on. Strange that suspect hasn't been charged yet if he's definitely guilty.

Germany have strict double jeopardy laws so if he is acquitted at a trial for killing Madeline he is unlikely to be prosecuted and tried again for the same crime further on.

bsides · 22/05/2026 18:24

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itsgettingweird · 22/05/2026 18:50

LizzieSiddal · 21/05/2026 23:21

I don’t believe any parent should leave their young children unattended, however I also don’t believe that Gerry and Kate had anything to do with Madeline’s disappearance.

Id also add that I had my dds in the 1990s and many of our friends left their young children in hotel rooms and on cruise ships in their cabins!! Baby sitting services would walk around listening out for children and babies crying then would contact the parents (via tannoy usually). At the time I thought this was horrific, mainly due to fire risks but it was accepted practice, especially with middle class parents.

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Yes. I worked for sunsail in the late 90’s and baby listening was the norm.

every half an hour we walked around listening at the door and contacted parents if a child was crying.

perfectly the norm at the time. Horrifying in the aftermath of this case a few years after I did this.

the parents just replicated the listening service in their kinds and they and Madeline paid the ultimate price.

Meredusoleil · 22/05/2026 18:59

Watching this now. The bloody Portuguese police are pissing me right off twisting all Kate's words 😬

Tontostitis · 22/05/2026 19:09

Livpool · 22/05/2026 07:59

Completely agree! I grew up in the 80s and 90s and was never left so it wasn’t a ‘thing’ in my family. If they had been working class then social services would have been on them.

If they'd been working class those babies would never have been left. Dinner would have been earlier with the children. Two middle class highly paid doctors were used to nannies and au-pairs and didn't want to miss out on boozing and dinner with mates. Childcare wasn't their priority .