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Caroline Flack documentary

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Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 12:48

Is anyone watching the new Caroline Flack documentary on Disney plus.

Her mother is trying to stand up for her. Its very sad. And interesting . Her mother looked up a lot of information about the assualt case.

It was a night where both of them were very drunk. Caroline found texts from another woman on her partner's phone. She hit him with the phone on his head to wake him up. She shouldn't have done that.

I am just recounting the facts of what happened

Caroline's partner threatened to ring the police. He rang the police and said he wasn't sure what he had been hit with, maybe a lamp or something. (He later agreed that it was a phone).

After he rang the police, Caroline was so distraught that she cut her wrists.

Her mother said that media reported that the room looked like a horror movie. But they made it seem like the blood was her partners. The blood was Carolines.

Her partner was not injured. And he did not want to press charges.

In the documentary it shows that the police initiallly decided not to press charges on Caroline.
Due to
Her having no previous history of violence
Her partner was not injured
Her partner did not want to press charges.

They decided to give Caroline a caution.

However a Detective came on duty later that night and decided to overturn the decision. She decided to charge Caroline with assault.

The documentary also shows notes the police made. They refer a lot to Caroline as a celebrity and a high profile case. Her mother thinks Caroline was charged unfairly as the police had attention on them over this case.

It then shows Carolines texts to friends . She writes "I have lost it all. I don't see any way out".

Its very sad. Has anyone watched it

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missrachael · 13/11/2025 17:25

Haven’t read the full thread but seriously, the cps were going to take her to court over hitting someone with a phone ? Yes it’s not okay we know that, but people in this country have been let off with a hell of a lot more !!!

Jigglypuff33 · 13/11/2025 17:26

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:21

"Laypeople".😂😂 The snobbery!

If you are going to be that snobby? You need to specify at least what your own expertise is

Layperson is a term for someone without specialised knowledge on a subject. A lot of people have shown complete ignorance of the law on this thread. Hitting someone on the head whilst they sleep is assault.

bunnypenny · 13/11/2025 17:26

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:25

It is also a terrifying insight into the snobbery of people.

If I worked in the criminal justice system there is NO WAY I would call other people stupid or call myself superior.

If you work in the criminal justice system of course you have more knowledge. You work in the bloody area.

Its like how a history teacher has maybe more knowledge of history. However my history teacher friend would never go roubd saying "i know more about history than you haha". That is such an immature thing to do

would you prefer to be referred to as a “man on the Clapham omnibus”?

OhOhOhOhItsAlright · 13/11/2025 17:26

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:20

I don't know.

It seems crazy to me that a case can go ahead, when the victim DOES not want to bring charges.

And then we have so many rape cases. Where the victim DOES want to bring charges. But these cases never make it to court.

There is good reason though as I have explained above.

I agree that our rape stats are shocking, but unfortunately it is very hard to get enough evidence of rape and so many cases just wouldn’t stand up in court. I hate it when some people think if it doesn’t go to court people t think the woman is lying. It’s awful but it’s usually just incredibly difficult to prove guilt, especially where there has been some type of relationship, date etc. 😞

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:27

bunnypenny · 13/11/2025 17:22

I am a lawyer.

Working in what area?

My friend is a lawyer and works in brand protection at the moment.

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bunnypenny · 13/11/2025 17:30

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:27

Working in what area?

My friend is a lawyer and works in brand protection at the moment.

Litigation.

Imdunfer · 13/11/2025 17:32

Daily Mail headline.

Man admits beating girlfriend with phone while asleep because she cheated on him not charged with assault despite of 999 call saying he was trying to kill her.

How would that go down on a thread like this?

kittensinthekitchen · 13/11/2025 17:34

bunnypenny · 13/11/2025 17:22

I am a lawyer.

Fucking brilliant

<high-five>

Imdunfer · 13/11/2025 17:38

Loopay · 13/11/2025 17:23

It isn't justice though, really. Yes, charging her according to her actions may be 'justice', but the consequences for CF are not comparable to most other people being charged with the same thing.

I doubt the charges against her were the primary concern, the very public and unmitigated flaying she received were. Looking at it through a lens of simply recieving a sanction for her actions through the court process is very naive.

It is justice. The way our justice system works is that the case goes to court and the defence put forward arguments that the mental health of the victim either makes them not culpable and they are not guilty, or reduces their culpability and they get a lower sentence.

You can't have the CPS deciding whose mental health should let them off a trial.

And you certainly can't have the CPS deciding not to prosecute a famous person because they are going to get a lot of media attention.

Loopay · 13/11/2025 17:39

Imdunfer · 13/11/2025 17:38

It is justice. The way our justice system works is that the case goes to court and the defence put forward arguments that the mental health of the victim either makes them not culpable and they are not guilty, or reduces their culpability and they get a lower sentence.

You can't have the CPS deciding whose mental health should let them off a trial.

And you certainly can't have the CPS deciding not to prosecute a famous person because they are going to get a lot of media attention.

You've misunderstood.

FoxLoxInSox · 13/11/2025 17:39

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 14:49

I do have sympathy for her. She found out he was cheating, she lost her temper. She shouldnt have done it. But I can see how it happened in the moment. I actually know a couple where the woman found out he was cheating. She slapped him twice. She shouldnt have done it and she regretted it after. But in the moment, she was hurt.

I don't agree with assault obviously.

But I also don't see people that commit assault as - evil.

Cheryl Tweedy committed assault. Do any of us see her as evil?

Or do we see her as someone who was drunk and lost her temper?

Caroline didnt have a pattern of abusing him. He didnt want any of the charges to happen.

She lost her life. Its sad.

Edited

OP - we don’t only charge & prosecute ‘evil’ criminals. The vast majority of offenders aren’t ‘evil’. That doesn’t mean they’ve not committed an offence.

Do you really think people who punch someone when drunk shouldn’t be prosecuted because they’re not “evil”? Or what about a nurse who drink-drives and kills someone? Should she not be charged because she’s not “evil”.

Punishments are for crimes. You don’t have to be evjl to commit crime. But if you commit a crime you may well get prosecuted for said crime. “Evil” doesn’t come into it.

I really worry when confused thinking and backward logic gets pedalled out like this.

Imdunfer · 13/11/2025 17:40

Imdunfer · 13/11/2025 17:23

This isn't relevant. It's extremely common for abused women to ask to have charges against people who have abused them dropped. In my area's police force in the 2010s it was so common that there was a rule made that victims could not have the charges dropped and cases went ahead either without them or with them made to come to court as reluctant witnesses.

Perpetrators are extremely skilled in getting their victims to retract allegations.

Edited

This answer was against the wrong quote, it was in relation to someone posting that she asked for the charges to be withdrawn.

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:41

Jigglypuff33 · 13/11/2025 17:26

Layperson is a term for someone without specialised knowledge on a subject. A lot of people have shown complete ignorance of the law on this thread. Hitting someone on the head whilst they sleep is assault.

I don't see anyone saying it wasn't assault though?

I think we have said that as it was first offense, he wasnt injured to a degree of needing treatment, and victim did not want to proceed. Maybe the case should not proceed.

These were the reasons why the CPS originally decided not to proceed with the case

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Imdunfer · 13/11/2025 17:41

Loopay · 13/11/2025 17:39

You've misunderstood.

Please explain how?

00PrettyHateMachine00 · 13/11/2025 17:42

Whataboutery and bullshit. One person hit another sleeping person's head with a phone. The fact that the person was sleeping is especially nasty, as they had no chance to cover/defend themselves. I deliberately wrote this is neutral, as the sexes of participants are irrelevant - it's an obvious assault.

If I stanger hit you in the head with a phone - would you consider that assault or 'poor stranger, maybe they suffer from a poor mental health' situation? The boyfriend had a visible, bleeding injury, so it wasn't just a light tap.

The fact that she was drunk is an aggravating circumstance, not the other way around. The fact that the boyfriend was drunk is neither here nor there, being drunk is not a crime, he wasn't aggressive, he was sleeping.

And her mental health was not his responsibility or fault.

RancidRuby · 13/11/2025 18:16

Threads like these always attract the hard of thinking, and this one is no different. Some of you have the patience of a saint trying to reason with them.

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 18:20

RancidRuby · 13/11/2025 18:16

Threads like these always attract the hard of thinking, and this one is no different. Some of you have the patience of a saint trying to reason with them.

Yet you haven't contributed anything.

Very easy to insult others, and say nothing yourself.

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kittensinthekitchen · 13/11/2025 18:22

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:41

I don't see anyone saying it wasn't assault though?

I think we have said that as it was first offense, he wasnt injured to a degree of needing treatment, and victim did not want to proceed. Maybe the case should not proceed.

These were the reasons why the CPS originally decided not to proceed with the case

These were the reasons why the CPS originally decided not to proceed with the case

And despite those reasons, on review, they had enough to change the decision and proceed with charges.

RancidRuby · 13/11/2025 18:32

*Yet you haven't contributed anything.

Very easy to insult others, and say nothing yourself.*

No point arguing with someone who at best isn't able to analyse the facts, at worse is being deliberately obtuse

Teathecolourofcreosote · 13/11/2025 18:37

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 17:20

I don't know.

It seems crazy to me that a case can go ahead, when the victim DOES not want to bring charges.

And then we have so many rape cases. Where the victim DOES want to bring charges. But these cases never make it to court.

Do you have any idea how many women say this even after the most violent assaults?

When someone is a coercive relationship it really isn't that simple and that is why the law exists.

Many women don't want their child to lose a father, to make themselves homeless or are still convinced he really means it and will never do it again.

CoralPombear · 13/11/2025 18:45

missrachael · 13/11/2025 17:25

Haven’t read the full thread but seriously, the cps were going to take her to court over hitting someone with a phone ? Yes it’s not okay we know that, but people in this country have been let off with a hell of a lot more !!!

The police and CPS were doing their job, gathering evidence of offences and taking people to court based on that evidence. Surely we want both of those services to take this subject very seriously and show they are actively doing all they can to combat domestic abuse? Suggesting they were wrong to do so because she was a celebrity makes zero sense. She rightly received press scrutiny because she was in the privileged position of having a public platform which she very much wanted and placed herself in and then failed to behave accordingly. The CPS would have considered the public interest in their decision. What would we all be saying if they had done nothing?

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 18:50

Whatever happened, I am sure we can all have empathy for Caroline's mother.

Its sad to see her like that.

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Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 18:51

Teathecolourofcreosote · 13/11/2025 18:37

Do you have any idea how many women say this even after the most violent assaults?

When someone is a coercive relationship it really isn't that simple and that is why the law exists.

Many women don't want their child to lose a father, to make themselves homeless or are still convinced he really means it and will never do it again.

Yes but he didnt change his mind because he was afraid of her.

He really, really did not want her to be prosecuted.

He said it many times. He appealed to multiple people, to try to get it dropped.

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Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 18:52

CoralPombear · 13/11/2025 18:45

The police and CPS were doing their job, gathering evidence of offences and taking people to court based on that evidence. Surely we want both of those services to take this subject very seriously and show they are actively doing all they can to combat domestic abuse? Suggesting they were wrong to do so because she was a celebrity makes zero sense. She rightly received press scrutiny because she was in the privileged position of having a public platform which she very much wanted and placed herself in and then failed to behave accordingly. The CPS would have considered the public interest in their decision. What would we all be saying if they had done nothing?

Yeah like the police have never been corrupt before......

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CoralPombear · 13/11/2025 18:53

Finto1111 · 13/11/2025 18:52

Yeah like the police have never been corrupt before......

As far as I can see in this case, they were called, they attended, found him with an injury which she admitted causing and then arrested and charged her. All sounds quite straightforward and exactly what you’d expect of the police in this situation. Im not seeing the corruption.