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The Perfect Neighbor - Netflix

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ohnonowwhat1 · 18/10/2025 12:23

Sorry if there is another thread, I couldn’t find it.

Ive just watched this documentary and can’t stop thinking about it.
Basically about a neighbourhood where kids are being kids and one neighbour takes huge exception to them and how it escalates.

A very interesting, very sad story which was well made. At times we probably saw a little too much but it was filmed and made entirely using police body cam and cctv.

At one point I was bawling my eyes out in one particular scene.

Although a harrowing watch it’s a good documentary.

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Bladderpool · 23/10/2025 15:31

So all the black kids have to kowtow to the angry white bitch? Ok then 🙄

LeanToWhatToDo · 23/10/2025 15:39

I think this covers the interesting grey area between belief in society and mental health. I personally think she showed multiple signs of mental confusion, maybe hormonal imbalances, particularly when she said she was Dr and rammed the gate with the truck and again when she seemed to change personality so suddenly several times.

I think the police should be trained to see when someone is mentally unstable but not an immediate threat and be able to flag to their GP or some social services that this person should be on their radar.

Obviously those services then need funding to do some community outreach style programmes which may or may not make a difference, but this felt like it could have been prevented if they hadn't been so "psycho!" in a dismissive way about her. They needed to see she was ringing them because for her the issue was escalating, through provocation or simply in her own mind, and that in itself was a form of requesting attention/help. I think if you had all of the racist idiots in the world on an estate like that and gave them a dose of menopause and possible MH issues, more than 1 in 20 would have done something physical too. Perfect storm.

Swallowdoubleandrunamile · 23/10/2025 15:47

fatphalange · 19/10/2025 14:52

She was just a racist cunt. She couldn’t believe that these people- children- so beneath her, wouldn’t get in line as soon as she shouted at them to and was exasperated at the cheek of them not stopping playing and living in silence. Wouldn’t consider talking to their parents. Preferring to call the police on them instead. She would clearly fly into rages. We caught a glimpse of it when the police knocked at her door after she rammed her vehicle into the fence. She was shouting her head off before she realised it was the police.
She was inconvenienced by being taken into questioning after having just killed someone. She couldn’t believe she wouldn’t get to just go back to her usual life. Calculating individual feigning being shaken up and traumatised in her police call but her voice switched back to its normal tone like at the flip of a switch when asked about the neighbours.

Totally, 100% agree.
The woman was a racist cunt, who should have been charged with murder.
That poor family, outrageous they have been put through this.
I understand people found it hard to see the rawness of grief, but it's the least we can do for those children, to bear some form of witness for them.

SpaceRaccoon · 23/10/2025 22:58

Why the fuck didn't she just move if it bothered her that much? She was renting and said she worked from home, she could have moved somewhere quieter. Everyone else was happy with the neighbourhood and the children playing out.
I don't think any of the others saw a shooting coming. They probably just thought she'd keep having a shouty and phoning the police.

As a side note, she was only 58 when the footage was filmed. Fucking hell she looked like shit. I thought she was twenty years older.

XelaM · 24/10/2025 07:45

If not for the crazy US gun laws so that any nutcase can own a gun none of this would have happened.

JMSA · 24/10/2025 13:00

XelaM · 24/10/2025 07:45

If not for the crazy US gun laws so that any nutcase can own a gun none of this would have happened.

Yup, it’s the same old story. And it’s absolute madness.

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